punishment for arousal

Laura

Megan this seems like a good system for a divorced woman

Or for a woman living separately

Megan There isn't any advantage going out to a bar or to work with a fake belt

Or on a date 😂

Christine

Megan for a divorced woman

How so?

Renita

Jonas You'd never be tempted to cheat?

I preferred to keep the belt locked.

Jonas If you were keyholder, wouldn't you be just as strict about it as your mother?

Of course. But from the beginning.

Megan This isn't being punished

I consider it as a punishment.

Megan There isn't any advantage going out to a bar or to work with a fake belt

But go home.

Angelina

Renita Of course. But from the beginning.

and that is exactly what your mother did absolutely wrong. she changed the rules in the middle and you should not accept that

Renita

Abby82 Because she considered it as a toy initially.

Angelina

Renita

but not you, for you it was a serious concern. did you make that clear to your mother from the beginning?

Renita

Angelina for you it was a serious concern

Not so much either.

Angelina

Renita Not so much either.

how do you mean, didn't you start with the belt to prevent accidental or drunken sex? this is something serious

Renita

Angelina didn't you start with the belt to prevent accidental or drunken sex

I did, but I considered it more as a reminder.

Angelina

Renita I did, but I considered it more as a reminder.

a reminder for what ? a chastity belt actively prevents sexual activity, it is more than a reminder

Renita

Abby82 Can't you get your mother convinced to give you breaks for example?

What kind of breaks?

Abby82 Or do you have any?

Not at all.

Renita

Angelina a reminder for what ?

That I should abstain.

Angelina

Renita That I should abstain.

if it was just about that, a purity ring would have sufficed

Jen

Angelina if it was just about that, a purity ring would have sufficed

Yeah but you don't need to take that off to have sex!
I've worn a bit looser -and not locked- the last two days. it's just easier for now I can put it over panties and pad but still change myself. But like I'm saying it's still a barrier I totally agree with @Renita - good reminder! Can't just make a mistake - needs a choice😄.
I had it unlocked over night but this morning - I probably should have just gotten up but I clicked it and just lay there a bit longer just relaxed you know - like not having to resist any more - it's easier. But had to get up pretty soon and bug mum so I could pee and change🤦‍♀️.

Renita

Angelina a purity ring would have sufficed

It doesn't prevent sex.

Abby82 any supervised longer breaks

What does it mean?

Ines by the way, touching is avoided.

Yes, it's very important for her.

Jen Can't just make a mistake - needs a choice

But don't lose this choice later 😃

Ines

Abby82

I think his mother is very happy that, by the way, touching is avoided.
Breaks are probably ruled out.

Angelina

Jen

Renita It doesn't prevent sex.

i don't think i've made myself clear. of course the belt has a much stronger effect, but when @Renita writes that she only needs a reminder to prevent inappropriate sex, then there is no need for a belt. a wedding ring is also normally sufficient as a reminder that you remain faithful to your partner. in my opinion, preventing something is different from giving yourself a reminder.

Megan

Jen like not having to resist any more - it's easier.

Yes

Ines

Renita Yes, it's very important for her.

At the end, most of keyholders think the same.

Renita

Abby82 Yes, it works this way already. I only need to have the belt on when go home.

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