Even if you hold your recently acquired conversation tone, I can start to appreciate you.
a_father I hope I can help involuntary wearers.
But you put everyone in the same bag, in your opinion only exist "erotic game" and "forced usage", and it is not true. Serious usage can be absolutely voluntary, even if sometimes it have to look strict.
a_father You create a two-tier society in your family.
No, some things can be acceptable if a girl wears a chastity belt but unacceptable without it.
And my parents, for example, are not saying "you can not go on a weekend trip with friends", they are saying that if she wants, she should pay for it, I will not lie, obviously they will not like it, but they will not avoid it, (in fact even if they would try to avoid, they would not can do anything).
At the end she madurate enough and she realized that further "privileges" it is not very logical that she was only girl in family that does not wear it, that if the rest of girls wear it without any problem she should wear it too, (truly my elder cousine does not wear it, but her case is a bit different,even if she should wear it too in my opinion), and further she can have more relaxed norms.
I think that "privileges" are important, but I am realizing that maturation had a important part in her decision.
a_father Perhapse masturbation is your week point, not hers.
Fortunately I never had possibilities of test it, about her... well I do not wat be specific, but you could erase the "perhaps"...