A Fundamental question

Joh

Renita She must be a model.

I don't think so. The belt should fit her on the picture and the hole should look real.

Vanessa purity ring

I learned something new. I didn't know about this.

Kaja When she will masturbate I will can buy her a toy (at apropriate age - 14 yo? 16 yo).

Or supply all information to find out how to explore herself.

Laura

Joh I learned something new. I didn't know about this

https://unwedchastity.org/d/257-purity-ring

Vanessa

Joh The belt should fit her on the picture and the hole should look real.

With mine,it would be the case.

Renita You don't think so or they told you?

It is told I would have to wear it until I get married.

And after it,it would not make sense to wear it,anyway.

Renita To keep controlling you.

No reason for it.And we would not accept it.

Renita You should do it now, but you can't. What will change?

Because the circumstances would not be the same;I can(reluctantly)accept it now,but would not accept it lasts after I get married.

And,when married,I would not need their financial support anymore.

HHelen

Only if Emilie share my bed.

Angelina don't you already? 😉

Without my parents was implied!😉

Angelina Maybe not a model but the fact that your parents see the need for a chastity belt can also be seen from this point of view. 😉

Maybe yes,which would make it nicer!🙂

Angelina but for some the "risk" is higher than for others

I agree.

youdontknowme

Not a bad idea,yes!

Laura

We can consider it this way!😉

But an unwanted compliment for many of us!😉

Angelina for parents who accept a relationship but want to prevent random sex, it plays a big role

Could make sense.

Renita

Angelina a girl who is very pretty is more likely to have sex and if the risk is too high

Every girl has such risk, it depends on her attitude and behavior rather than her "exterior".

Vanessa When married,I don't think so.

You don't think so or they told you?

Vanessa No reason for them asking for it.

To keep controlling you.

Vanessa I would choose to break the relationship with them and lose their financial support.

You should do it now, but you can't. What will change?

Angelina

shinydiamond77

in your case i even believe that, so your rule that she only wears the belt up to a certain age makes sense, but you are the only one who has made these rules like this 😉

Vanessa Partly,too because Emilie and me want to live together a bit before.

don't you already? 😉

Vanessa I think I'm pretty(hard to write it while wanting to stay modest...),but not a model either.

Maybe not a model but the fact that your parents see the need for a chastity belt can also be seen from this point of view. 😉

Renita Every girl has such risk, it depends on her attitude and behavior rather than her "exterior".

but for some the "risk" is higher than for others

HHelen

Vanessa No chance,and we would not accept.

Doesn't she wear a belt already? Correct me, if I understand wrong.

Laura

Angelina but the fact that your parents see the need for a chastity belt can also be seen from this point of view

A chastity belt is the best compliment 😂

Renita

Angelina but for some the "risk" is higher than for others

Does it make a difference if she is attractive to one guy or to many if it ends up with sex in both cases?

youdontknowme

Vanessa If a person is considered a second virgin,she should be trusted again,too.

Maybe that could be arranged with a time-limited parole. Would mean the duration of having your key held by someone else would probably end up being a little shorter. Afterwards, a probationary period where you can remove the belt yourself, but only by breaking a seal. If you manage to spend a certain time only breaking seals for good reason when there is no chance of missteps, you have proven your ability to resist temptation, your honor as a virgin is restored and you can choose to wear the belt without seals and keyholders, or just leave it behind entirely. But that trust is something you have to earn back by actually being trustworthy, not just by accepting to suffer a punishment.

Angelina

Laura A chastity belt is the best compliment 😂

you argue like a worried mother, but you are not wrong 😂

Renita Does it make a difference if she is attractive to one guy or to many if it ends up with sex in both cases?

for parents who accept a relationship but want to prevent random sex, it plays a big role

Renita

Angelina for parents who accept a relationship but want to prevent random sex

Do you have an example of such parents?

shinydiamond77

Kaja

First of all, she agreed to wear it. And also, she'll be free to do everything you mentioned after she turns 17.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

how old is she now? i remember she was 14 when you started, but that was some time ago.

shinydiamond77

Angelina

She's 15.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 She's 15.

so 2 more years ?

Renita Do you have an example of such parents?

no, i admit it is only a theoretical thought. if i had an example i would know someone in the belt personally 😂

shinydiamond77

Angelina

For her yes.
My younger daughter is 12, and once she's a bit older I'll buy her a belt too.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 My younger daughter is 12, and once she's a bit older I'll buy her a belt too.

also a cheap one or do you think a branded belt would be better?

Vanessa Without my parents was implied!😉

i hope that is the case soon 😉

Vanessa But an unwanted compliment for many of us!😉

I agree 😉

LazyGoat

shinydiamond77 My younger daughter is 12, and once she's a bit older I'll buy her a belt too

I'm guessing she already knows her sister wears a belt? Has she raised any questions about that?

By the way, I don't think you have told how your older daughter wears her belt. 24/7 or only at home or on some other term.

Renita

Vanessa And after it,it would not make sense to wear it,anyway.

For me, it doesn't make sense now, while your parents think different.

Vanessa And,when married,I would not need their financial support anymore.

How marriage will change your financial situation? Unless you marry a millionaire.

HHelen

Vanessa Only if Emilie share my bed.

Or when you are alone at home.

Vanessa

Renita For me, it doesn't make sense now, while your parents think different.

I think it is more common to wear it due to parents' decision when not married,however.

Renita How marriage will change your financial situation? Unless you marry a millionaire.

I want to get a long term job before getting married.

Angelina i hope that is the case soon 😉

Me too...

HHelen

Surprisingly,not.

We prefer it,of course,even if it would be more logical.

But my parents are not at ease to make another woman,who is not their daughter,to wear a chastity belt.They would appreciate she wears it permanently,like me,but would not make it a rule.

shinydiamond77

Angelina also a cheap one or do you think a branded belt would be better?

I don't see the point of buying a branded belt, the current one does exactly what it's supposed to, so I'll just buy an identical one.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

So your daughter hasn't had any problems with comfort yet?

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