Belt fitting

Jonas

Sin most of them take it off when it suits them too, they just don't want to admit it. 😲😱

I dunno about this. The things people say on here are very often in line with my own experience of 100% chastity. Impossible to say for sure of course, but if I had to put money on it, I'd bet on genuine chastity belt use here.

Jonas

Jen I'm staring and this and thoughts are going around and around

Chastity is a contradiction, a loop: "I want to be prevented from having the sex that I want." So yeah, thoughts go around and around. But that's a waste of energy. Trick is to step back and see the circle for what it is.

carg

Jen Yes, actually 100 hours is quite much. The system in the Netherlands is quite different, like I mentioned before, and we can only drive with an instructor, but that's usually somewhere between 30 and 50 lessons before you are judged ready to take the test.
Even with the first 10 hours with an instructor counting as 30, you still need 80 hours of experience: even if you do 2 hours per week that takes close to a year. And if you don't have anyone who will teach you except an instructor, that is 80 x $50 = $4000 before you can take the test (estimating a lesson of an hour costs $50 - could well be more). Quite a contrast from how it works in e.g. the USA, from what I have heard. (although the rules there are different per state)

Angelina

Jen It's not like that really. I enjoy the feelings I get without struggling to stop myself going further than I want to. Not really trying to cheat it☺

that's probably the difference between voluntary and involuntary. you also have your struggles but you can put it in a positive context and try not to struggle more than you can't control. 🙂

Jen 43 more but it's slow!!! The hours I've done include the 10 hours of lessons that count as 30. I'm still less than half way really

i really hope you make it soon, step on it girl 😉

Max9 poor girl 😨

🙁

carg

i looked again. i had 32 practical hours. but only 12 of them were compulsory (5 overland hours, 4 motorway hours, 3 night hours). the rest depended on individual abilities. I would say between 30 and 40 is the average, unless you are a natural talent.

cham-ed

Here in the USA, in Illinois much depends on your age. You can get a learning permit at 15 1/2. That allows you to practice drive with an adult (21 or +) driver. I know my own daughter got her first 10 hours with a driving instructor. But you need 50 hours behind the wheel of practice. so she got the rest with me. then at 16 you can take and hopefully pass the test. If you do pass the license is still restricted. You can't have more than one teenager in the car with you. Siblings excepted. And You can't drive at late hours. then and as you age the restrictions ease up. and it does vary a lot by the state.

Max9

Angelina a hard fight and many tears we then quit in frustration.

poor girl 😨

Max9

Angelina so will you have your test soon?

Vanessa

Jen Yeah nights I got used too.

Good!🙂

It is a big step,wearing it during nights.

Jen doesn't feel like a step feels like a giant bloody leap for womankind😁

🤣

Jen I don't care about controlling myself when I'm in the belt. Like meh I've got the thing physically stopping me so I'll take what I can get - but worst is there's no ending so when do you stop and go to sleep - yeah so my fault lol

Understandable.

Joh Maybe you remember next time and stop earlier 😉 or don't try at all.

Easy to say,hard to do!

Joh If you find a way which give you nice feeling, let us know, please.

Yes,it could be helpful for several of us!🙂

Jonas You give up trying to get around it quicker.

Depends on everyone.

I still try a lot,even if I know it is useless...

Angelina but if she does not know the goal, it can help her to define a goal, but probably 6 months would also be enough.

I still think she should wait,and define her goal first.

Angelina we try everything to cheat for the belt and after 2 hours lying awake in bed, a hard fight and many tears we then quit in frustration.

I agree.

I did it too,and it still happen often...

Jen I enjoy the feelings I get without struggling to stop myself going further than I want to. Not really trying to cheat it☺

Good you manage it well,and seems to even like it.

Jen I love that I can feel the lock - like for ages it was reassuring I could twist it and check I wasn't trapped. But now it's - like I've decided to give into the belt - and feeling the lock there not moving like confirms it for me. So yeah agree with the security but I'm not trying to get around it just liking how it makes the rest of me feel 😳😅

So,at first,you liked it was not locked,and,now,you like it is locked?

Jen 43 more but it's slow!!! The hours I've done include the 10 hours of lessons that count as 30. I'm still less than half way really

Can't you do some more hours of lessons,to speed it up,if you find it is too slow?

Sin Haha! One of us! One of us!

🤣

It seems,yes!😉

Sin most of them take it off when it suits them too

Not in my case...🙁

Angelina that's probably the difference between voluntary and involuntary. you also have your struggles but you can put it in a positive context and try not to struggle more than you can't control. 🙂

I agree.

Angelina

Max9 so will you have your test soon?

ugh.... i already have my licence. i just checked my records again to see how many hours it took me to compare. 😉

Vanessa I still think she should wait,and define her goal first.

yes, that would be the best, but I think it is difficult in her case.

Max9

Angelina ugh.... i already have my licence. i just checked my records again to see how many hours it took me to compare.

ups, sorry ✌🏼 so, how do you like driving? Do you have a car already?

Vanessa

Angelina I think it is difficult in her case.

It seems she has a pretty clear idea about her goal.

Jen I made it- done the 2 weeks 😁

Congratulations!

Jen

So,no need to hesitate now,it would stay on for at least a few more hours!😉

Jen it would be harder now

Yes,more free time means more opportunity to self pleasure;except if you wear the chastity belt more,of course.

Jen there was no conditions or promises or anything but still I think about it

Understandable,but if there is no conditions,you should not link it to your wearing.

Jen But later isn't easy but doesn't matter can't fail 🤷‍♀️

Yes,if putting it on is easy,there is not much problem,as,even if it is harder later,it is locked and you can't change your mind;

Jen I'm thinking another 2 weeks

Without a break between?

Angelina

Max9 ups, sorry ✌🏼 so, how do you like driving? Do you have a car already?

yes, already since my birthday, i have also described several times. a Mercedes A180 limousine 😃 I like t very much 😃

Jen I made it- done the 2 weeks 😁

congratulations, i am very happy for you 😃

Joh Don't mix it up with you belt.

i agree, but the question is what kind of new phone did she get. if she got one that is significantly more luxurious than before, she might feel obligated.

Jen Yes this. But days are just too hard like I'm gonna miss out on stuff or get found out. I'm thinking just nights when I'm at home - I can commit to that.

are you completely finished with school in the meantime? then you can of course try to find other distractions. a summer job or a preparation for your future apprenticeship/studies or a hobby.

Jen

I made it- done the 2 weeks 😁
And schools finished and mum n dad are both going to work today and I'm burning up inside like this morning it's insane and do I get unlocked before they go or wait? Like - it's the choice - thinking about it is making me crazy like asking for it off - she'll be disappointed and they'll know and the shame and everything but like even all that is making me crazy. But also - just leave it there let them leave - like

Jen

Lol they've gone and I'm still wearing it🤣🤣🤣

Jonas

Jen Lol. Chastity certainly makes for an interesting life!! Good luck today!

Laura

Jen Lol they've gone and I'm still wearing it

Welcome to the club 😂

Jen

Laura 😂 it's absurd isn't it like yeah I'm just gonna live life locked in this thing like that's ridiculous but I'm ok I can handle it and the comfort has been ok so what was the point of the try out? At least there was school it would be harder now and there's stuff planned. But I feel bad quitting too cause I just got a new phone - like I've been trying to avoid any obligation stuff but I needed a new one and there was no conditions or promises or anything but still I think about it. I'm trying to stay calm and think about this cause there's parts that are important to me but also just thoughts like the whole thing is a crazy game

carg

Jen But I feel bad quitting

First of all, congratulations for making it.
I find it hard to say whether you should or should not keep it going, but I definitely do not agree that taking off the belt would be quitting: you set yourself an experiment of staying chaste for 2 weeks. Now the weeks are over, and you have succeeded, taking off the belt is what you had planned all along.
You could even argue that taking it off is part of the experiment, to see how that makes you feel. If you will play with yourself, and feel bad about it afterwards, you know that continuing on this path is the right way. You could even do another experiment on how long you can last before giving in. (Knowing that you will give in sooner or later, so it is not setting yourself up for disappointment, merely a test to measure your strength of will: you have been quite strong in these past 2 weeks, perhaps more so than you expected?)
On the other hand, if you do masturbate, it might be a bit of a setback, and you would have to start all over again. But I'm not sure how true that is, given that the urges will continue to be there anyway: it is not like you need to go through a hard period, and then it will get easier.

With school you wouldn't have to ask them to unlock you, but just wait a bit longer before locking it back on when you come back from school - that way it is not so obvious to them that you 'used' that time. But even now there must be times when you leave the house and it is taken off, so you could still do it that way, if you do decide to give yourself a break?
It is nice of your parents that they didn't attach conditions to the new phone; they are apparently content with the progress you are making at the moment. So don't start feeling obligations about that, and keep deciding for yourself what is best for you. I think that kind of pressure works counter-productive for you.

Joh

Jen But I feel bad quitting too cause I just got a new phone

You got a new phone and see it as it is. You needed a new one. That is it. If it was necessary, you would have got it even without your decision to wear the CB. Don't mix it up with you belt.
Whether you want to continue or take a break or stop should only depend on what you think is right.

Jen I don't need to give it any attention just let it be.

That's a good way to deal with it.

Jen

carg Knowing that you will give in sooner or later...

I'm not looking for a game - the feelings make it seem that way anyway but I'm trying to just let them exist like it doesn't have to go away but I don't need to give it any attention just let it be.

carg you have been quite strong in these past 2 weeks, perhaps more so than you expected?

😊 thanks but no the belt makes it easy like it's not easy - but the things I have to do are easy. So home from school and the house is empty - put it straight on - easy. But later isn't easy but doesn't matter can't fail 🤷‍♀️

I'm thinking another 2 weeks - like another test because this is different but hard to plan like we don't plan days really but there's a Christmas party sleepover too so I'll need that off.

Jonas

Jen put it straight on - easy. But later isn't easy but doesn't matter can't fail

You're describing using the belt as a precommitment device. These can be really powerful means of controlling yourself in all kinds of positive ways: eg: savings, weight, steps, nicotine etc etc. Instead of over-thinking the chastity aspect, you can broaden things out and think about building a brilliant life for yourself!! 😁

carg

Jen I'm not looking for a game

And I was not proposing a game; just a serious experiment to see how well you can cope with temptation if there is no belt to stop you. You already managed 6 hours on that Sunday. But it was just a wild idea; please feel free to ignore it.

Jen thanks but no the belt makes it easy

I understand that once the belt is locked, you can't fail. But you had the discipline to lock it on quickly every time, not to do anything outside the house, not to ask for early release, and you coped with the part of that Sunday without. I still think that is something you can be proud of.

Jen I'm thinking another 2 weeks - like another test because this is different

If it is a test, I assume you have a research goal in mind? It is because you don't have school and so not a fixed schedule, it might be harder to be disciplined? So you want to find out if you can do it in vacation periods as well?
(I ask because you called it a test, and not an extension - which would be perfectly fine as well.)

Jen

carg It is because you don't have school and so not a fixed schedule, it might be harder to be disciplined?

Yes this. But days are just too hard like I'm gonna miss out on stuff or get found out. I'm thinking just nights when I'm at home - I can commit to that.

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