Foxies I almost completely agree with you. Since my marriage I see them as an extension of my chastity belt. Something that makes him happy and proud of me. I mostly feel positive about them now, even if they of course restrict me a lot in my daily life.
Laura What's a point to wear bands without a connecting chain?
If I am on a walk with my husband or if he grants me more freedom for any other reason, like when we sit on our sofa and watch a movie it's the same for me. The bands stay in place but the chain is temporary removed. So the bands still remind me that I have no saying when it comes to my chastity, even when it's main function is interrupted.