Thighbands

Angelina

Ines You are not stupid.

thanks, but as far as medical knowledge goes, i am 😂

verena

Hello Foxies,

Thank you for your very nice answer and explanations. I can relate to everything you said and I agree with you on all points.

The users in the forum may forgive me that the main topic of this forum had not yet been fully developed for me.

Likewise, the reasons why parents keep their children chaste for the reasons you can read here are morally very questionable and I reject this approach. Nevertheless, the users have my sympathy here and I am happy to get involved in topics or tell my point of view.

If you're willing to exchange via email, i would be happy to exchange, although I don't know how this works here.

Thats for now. See you soon.

Joh

verena Write Laura to send Foxies your email address.

Foxies

Ines

To Ines or Laura - would it be possible to send my email address to verena at your convenience?

I have tried to draft a thread about wearing chastity belts as a lifestyle choice. Sadly, I am not good enough to be able to write it without it sounding like I am proposing chastity belts as some sex toy. While I am sure, some would definitely see it that way, it rather cheapens my belief that I wear one to strengthen the love between me and my partner Angela.

However, it seems like my partner, and I have something in common with verena and her partner, and it would be nice if we could move our discussions to email where we wouldn't offend others who are more interested in keeping pure and preventing masturbation and non-permitted sexual contact.

Thank you 😃, and thank you Joh for your comment.

Joh

Foxies thank you Joh for your comment.

You are welcome although I think it is a shame that you have chosen to exclude others. Sure, you can try to describe it as well as possible so that it doesn't sound like a sex toy, but you won't please everyone. It's in the eye of the beholder, which you can't change.

Avery

Foxies I wear one to strengthen the love between me and my partner Angela.

I agree with @Joh . Why exclude everyone or worry so much about what others think. Just start your thread with what you said. You want to strengthen the bond with your partner. Maybe you even make the thread off-topic. Who can then complain?

Ines

Foxies Yes, @Laura can do it, however @verena , we will miss this thread.
Maybe my aunt could make some posts too.
Such topic, tagged as "adults" will make better the forum.

Laura

Foxies To Ines or Laura - would it be possible to send my email address to verena at your convenience?

Sent

Angelina

Joh

@Foxies

i think Joh is right, you can also describe the whole thing here, the older users here know you and know that it won't be a fetish thread, there is a big difference between fetish and lifestyle, i would be happy if you opened up the discussion for everyone. 🙂

Foxies

Joh Avery Ines

😆 Alright at the risk of sounding as though I am promoting sex toys and kinky lifestyles, I shall try to create a new thread. The moderators have the power to take it down anyway and it will not offend me at all if they decide it isn't right for this forum. Just remember I warned you! 🤣

Sara2001

Foxies I almost completely agree with you. Since my marriage I see them as an extension of my chastity belt. Something that makes him happy and proud of me. I mostly feel positive about them now, even if they of course restrict me a lot in my daily life.

Laura What's a point to wear bands without a connecting chain?

If I am on a walk with my husband or if he grants me more freedom for any other reason, like when we sit on our sofa and watch a movie it's the same for me. The bands stay in place but the chain is temporary removed. So the bands still remind me that I have no saying when it comes to my chastity, even when it's main function is interrupted.

Laura

Sara2001 So the bands still remind me that I have no saying when it comes to my chastity, even when it's main function is interrupted.

Got it. As a reminder

Angelina

Foxies Just remember I warned you! 🤣

we'll survive, i think there are far worse stories here than yours 😂

Mr-TM

To all of you who no longer wear thigh bands or only wear them intermittently: Does wearing thigh bands affect your gait without them?

Ines

Mr-TM
No.
But I use them only in home.

Angelina

Mr-TM Does wearing thigh bands affect your gait without them?

you mean does the gait change after the thighbands are removed? i don't think so for me, but i don't really pay attention to that either, so when i'm not wearing bands i walk the way i want to.

Maija

Mr-TM not in the physiological sense, but I have been taught to not walk tomboyishly even when not in the bands

Amira

Mr-TM Does wearing thigh bands affect your gait without them?

to they do. I tend to walk with a slower pace and shorter stride for a while after the bands are gone. that happens without me thinking about it and I don't know if it is the same for others.

Mr-TM

Yes, that's exactly what I mean. I was thinking about whether, for example, the step length is shorter. Since this is limited with thigh bands.

Angelina

Mr-TM Yes, that's exactly what I mean. I was thinking about whether, for example, the step length is shorter. Since this is limited with thigh bands.

well i can't tell any difference for me but i don't think any girl should walk like a donkey 😉

Maija and normalizing the idea would make talking about them here less uncomfortable

I don't feel uncomfortable talking about thighbands here, but I don't want to normalize it. chained thighs are not normal 😂

Amira

so in moments when you're not wearing the thighbands, like at school, you notice that you're walking slower there than before ?

Maija

Regarding more in general: I think we should try to advocate the usage of thighbands as an integral part of the chastity belt. The positives outweigh the negatives by far, and normalizing the idea would make talking about them here less uncomfortable

Ines

Maija Regarding more in general: I think we should try to advocate the usage of thighbands as an integral part of the chastity belt. The positives outweigh the negatives by far, and normalizing the idea would make talking about them here less uncomfortable

Do your mother and sister think the same?

Maija

Ines they do, for the most part.

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