Ines

Pretty right,yes.It won't be easy to make them accept to promise such thing.But a talk is definitively needed before.

Laura They don't consider it seriously.

But you?Still wanting to test it?

    Vanessa Still wanting to test it?

    Not sure again. You, girls, scare me.

      Laura
      you shouldn't be afraid, but what you should be clear about is what your heart asks of you, especially if your parents haven't spoken out about the bands, or show no interest.
      While it seems clear that, if added to your belt, they would be attached with a chain (no girl needs 10 cm ;D), it is also true that it will still be a restrictive element for you.
      Also, Laura, will be your absolute surrender to those responsible for protecting you, which in my case implies the situation from which a happy and self-realized woman arises.
      In my house, the great advocate of the use of bands is me, fortunately I have managed to get my husband to end up seeing this issue just like me, and the belts are weared with them.
      The bands are an inesthefiable presence that reinforces both the girl's bond of trust and dependence with her keyholder and the very fact of our sense of protection, because, unlike the belt you can at certain times forget that You wear it, the bands, they're always there.
      What I am clear as a mother and user is also that the holder has to empathize with us, and be empathetic, because if you are adamant the bands can condemn the user to stop doing a lot of things.
      And it's from a woman who, until the age of 32, ran orientation races.

      You are a young adult woman, with a lot of experience about chastity, so if you are sure, go ahead.

        Tere In my house, the great advocate of the use of bands is me, fortunately I have managed to get my husband to end up seeing this issue just like me, and the belts are weared with them.

        Do you wear thighbands yourself or your daughters only?

        Tere because if you are adamant the bands can condemn the user to stop doing a lot of things.

        Like what, for example? I can imagine not wearing pants only.

        Tere You are a young adult woman, with a lot of experience about chastity, so if you are sure, go ahead.

        Another my concern if it's suitable for my age.

          I think I can aswer all your questions, πŸ˜…,but I will tell her that you are asking for her!

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            Ines but I will tell her that you are asking for her!

            What an honor, I have an emissary.

            Laura Do you wear thighbands yourself or your daughters only?

            as a general idea all three of us wear them,
            but it is true that my regime is less strict with respect to the bands, because when I go to work, I usually do not wear them. I run a small textile company with my sister, and there are numerous stairs and it can even pose a danger.
            Teresa, my eldest daughter, often doesn't take them to college either, running down the aisles between classrooms or going to the bathroom in 10 minutes are good reasons.
            Without a doubt, the ratio, between time with the belt and the bands, of InΓ©s is the strictest, less hours but mostly with bands.

            Laura Like what, for example? I can imagine not wearing pants only.

            Go for a quick walk with friends, go run for a few miles, a thorough cleaning of the house, have a little swollen legs those days of the month.
            It's not just the pants!

            Laura Another my concern if it's suitable for my age

            Laura I am a woman worker mother of a family, and wife in love, I am almost 20 years older than you, and they are suitable for me.
            If there are no medical reasons to the contrary, and you want to do it, go for it, but then be clear first about what the bands mean to women. And I'm sure that being you a young, mature adult woman, you're going to handle it very well, if you really want it!

              Tere Laura I am a woman worker mother of a family, and wife in love, I am almost 20 years older than you, and they are suitable for me.

              Who holds the keys to thighbands (not to the belt)? You or your husband?

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                Laura
                Mi husband hold my keys, due in our home the policy is that girls should not have access to our keys, because it's the way to feel safer and more relaxed, because there's feeling that nothing can change about our status.
                Truly he is the holder of all our keys, however I manage the keys of my girls.
                In a time we read on the internet about the desirability of having a safe with the keys to the belts in the house, for emergency cases, and in our house, we carried it out.

                  Laura Not sure again. You, girls, scare me.

                  Understandable;but,if you want to give it a try,take care to discuss it well with your parents,to be able to stay "stop" if you don't want to wear these anymore,without consequences.

                  Tere no girl needs 10 cm

                  In fact,even a lock works,but I think the longer the chain is,the less uncomfortable the bands are..

                  Laura Another my concern if it's suitable for my age.

                  I don't think it is not suitable at your age,even if you're older,you can still wear it.

                  Tere Mi husband hold my keys, due in our home the policy is that girls should not have access to our keys, because it's the way to feel safer and more relaxed, because there's feeling that nothing can change about our status.

                  What if you need to go to work or somewhere else but your husband is not home and you have the thighbands on?

                  2 months later

                  Laura I have always worn thighbands. My mother was belted as a teenager so when it came my turn she said she knew all the ways to get around the belt so I ended up with a lot of extra gear including thighbands. Mine ride low--just above my knees--so they really hobble me.

                  7 days later

                  As you know, I am studying a lot lately... well, so many time sit, and I have heavy brushes in the back thighs where are bands. πŸ˜•
                  I will have to let health it.
                  I never mind, but for a lot of time sit, maybe is better wear them in a lower position.

                    Ines

                    Sorry for you!πŸ™

                    Will you be free of these until it heals?

                    Ines

                    I'm sorry πŸ™

                    if you wear the tighbands further down it is much more restrictive, but it doesn't really bother when sitting, only when walking

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                      Angelina
                      I have to think in different position for home and for going out.
                      Probably. For the moment no bands for me these days

                        Ines

                        is certainly also a liberating feeling not to wear bands at times or ? πŸ˜‰

                        even if i know that you see the bands as part of your belt πŸ˜‰

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                          More seriously, painful and ugly redness.. I said here that sweat and my belt, usually makes my skin, no painfully red... No this case.
                          It is better than yesterday, but I will look for another pair of bands, to wear them a bit lower in home.
                          I think I would need a pair with longer chain, or my steps can not be enough for stairs.
                          As I do not have a padlock amongts the bands, probably I will need another pair.

                            Ines

                            Do you have more than one at home?

                            I am very sorry that you have these problems πŸ™

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