Thighbands

Ines

Yes, but it is useful in the thread linked by @Laura.

Foxies

Angelina
I approve of Ines disapproval. smiles.
It makes perfect sense to me, and I would hope that most follow her advice in this subject.

Angelina

zbovka Just contrasting some differences, and asked how you deal with these issues. Or should we create a new thread about belt fit nuisances, compromises and issues?

i would rather say that the problem is that in a thread about thighbands in response to @Amira who only wrote about the bands, you kind of jumbled everything up and kind of wrote about everything 😂

Foxies I have not noticed any adverse health effects from wearing them.

stupid question and please don't take this the wrong way, but would you say the health damage also depends on age, so that a younger girl might have more damage from permanent thighbands use?

Foxies

Angelina stupid question and please don't take this the wrong way, but would you say the health damage also depends on age, so that a younger girl might have more damage from permanent thigh bands use?

This is most definitely NOT a stupid question! Both my partner and I have always been concerned about the potential for permanent, or even temporary damage that thigh bands might cause. And beyond the physical there is also the potential for emotional and psychological damage.

Just because my personal experience has been positive, in no way means that we support their usage for others. Rather the opposite actually. As I have stated elsewhere, my reasons for wearing certain chastity devices are different from most others here, may age is different (unfortunately ☹️ ) and my circumstances (- being retired) are possibly unique amongst other forum members. My activity level is probably different as well as my social activity.

While I have written some about my own experiences on this forum, my primary interest it to read about the experiences and thoughts of others. I hope that none of my experiences have been interpreted as recommendations for others to follow, nor do my own experiences mean I condone similar behaviour in others, consensual or otherwise.

The recent description of my thigh band wearing experiences were purely in response to:

Maija Since we haven't heard from some members for a long time: How is everyone who has to wear thighbands doing?

Angelina

Foxies

i understand that, it's good that you keep thinking if what you are doing is reasonable for your health. of course you have had different experiences than others on the forum, i ask though because @Ines disapproves of wearing the bands so often and you do it. you both come from the medical field so it's exciting to see the different experiences

Ines

Foxies
😘

Angelina

Foxies It makes perfect sense to me, and I would hope that most follow her advice in this subject.

by logical thinking it makes sense yes, i'm just always interested in different options. thanks to you and @Ines for your medical assessments 🙂

Andrew

Abby82 Mom told that i should prove that the bands do not add security if i'm telling that but how do i even prove it?

Negative proof is impossible. Even if you showed your mom that you can get your fingers under your belt with the thigh bands, she'll always be able to tell you that it's harder than without them, so they work. I guess you'll have to get used to them...

Joh

Abby82 Mom told that i should prove that the bands do not add security if i'm telling that but how do i even prove it?

Since they confirmed that the CB is safe, it is up to them to prove their hypothesis.
Beside of that. If something is save it is not possible to make it more save. Otherwiese it was not save.

If they insist on the bands will the next safety impovement tying your hands at night so you can't reach there?
Sorry, that's totally absurd situation your mother created .

Ines

Abby82 Now i have spoken and they didn't really wan't to release me from the bands for the nights 😅

And it would be OK.... if she would use them.

Angelina

Abby82 Mom told that i should prove that the bands do not add security if i'm telling that but how do i even prove it?

not at all. she should prove that the bands offer a higher level of safety and if she is so convinced, she should wear them herself 😉
also, the bands make the belt more secure, you can't prove any fact false, the question is whether this increased security is necessary?

Abby82 No i don't think so because i just got free from bands when i'm alone at home so i don't think they will increase my security to that level. And i wouldnt accept that.

this is not the point, but the theoretical argument of your mother. theoretically, she could justify all restrictive measures with this argument.

Joh

Abby82 I should tell them this maybe.

There is a way to show that the bands are unnecessary. Your mother wears a CB herself. She should show you how to get under the belt after you have checked that it is securely fastened. That is, to make it to the point where she can get properly aroused.
If she can't or refuses, you have the proof. 😉

Joh

Abby82 Pretty sure she will refuse 😅 i don't know if i should tell that to them because its not too good behaviour. 😅

Yes, this one point to show how silly her demand is.
A alternative way could be she shows it to your father. If she can't it is clear an unnecessary demand.

Andrew

Joh Yes, this one point to show how silly her demand is.

In these types of situations, I have the impression that the parents are not really concerned about security, but about teasing the girl and showing their power over her by forcing her to accept additional discomfort.

Joh

Andrew I got similar impression some time ago and asked her If she is fine with it or will decide by herself. She is an adult in the meantime.
Now she has taken things into her hands and been able to change it.
I am sure she will convince her parents about the bands too.

Angelina

Abby82 Pretty sure she will refuse 😅 i don't know if i should tell that to them because its not too good behaviour. 😅

you should, it's a valid question. the bands are used to make cheating impossible right? then there's no reason for the bands if it's not possible to cheat the belt. i haven't been wearing bands for a few months and still i couldn't cheat the belt

Abby82 eah. One of their arguments is that the bands aren't bad at the night when you sleep 🤣

then your mother should also wear some at night, it's not so bad (sarcasm) 😉

Joh

Abby82 Yeah. One of their arguments is that the bands aren't bad at the night when you sleep 🤣

As @Angelina already wrote she should than also wear them at night. Why different rules for you and your mother if there is no subsequent reason to justify the difference.

Ines

Abby82 Atleast more acceptable for me. But they didn't really say anything but that mom doesn't need them .

I admit that I have a hard time accepting that kind of thing.
I speak from my own experience, as you know in my house we are now 4 women wearing a belt, and all of us, in principle, have the same regimen of use.
Then in daily life each one has her circumstances and the use of the belt and accessories is adapted to the circumstances of each one, it is logical that you have to be flexible, or else the use of the belt does not work.
But, basically, we all have to have the same rules.
I agree with your parents on some things, and I see certain issues as they do, but on this, and forgive me if I'm wrong, I think your father is giving in to your mother.
That is why I think that the rules have to be set by fathers and not mothers if they are to be fair, mothers, being an interested party, their rules are always going to be less objective and less fair.

Mike_Orca

Abby82 I still need to talk to them .

Honestly, I don't understand why you, as an adult woman, accept nonsensical decisions of your parents. You are in a position not to discuss rules, but to set limits. As long as you find it okay or even good to wear a chastity belt, it is no problem to follow your parents rools.

Once you make the decision and make it unmistakably clear to your parents that you do not accept the tigh band anymore while your mother does not have to wear them, what might happen? Do you have to be afraid that they will use violence? I hope not. They can insist on their nonsensical point of view, but it doesn't take five minutes to break open a normal padlock or cut a chain. Your life, your decision - it really is that simple when you take responsibility for yourself!

Ines

Abby82

Congrats!
Some mention about talking with your father before here change of opinion?

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