Thighbands

Angelina

Vanessa For my parents,chastity devices don't count as clothes.

well, chastity devices even make more sense than clothes (from your parents view), because you can take off clothes 😉

Vanessa I think 4 years or more would be the case for both of us,too.I had to wear it permanently since a bit more than 3 years and half,presently...🙁

for me it will be 2 years in January and it will take at least another 2 1/2 years afterwards 🙁

Vanessa Maybe as you were more trained to wear it?

i don't think so, i had the padlock already shortly after i got the thigh bands, i think i just didn't think so much about it, i just tried it 😉

Ines

maybe a padlock would be an alternative?

Ines No. Maybe another block piece that do not weld my legs together

it could be even more restrictive than a padlock. i am not sure if it is the better alternative

Foxies Clearly, punishment for correction of aberrant behaviour is pointless and ineffective unless the reason for the punishment is unknown

it is 100% true to know what the misconduct was is the basis to accept the punishment and change our behaviour

Ines

Angelina it could be even more restrictive than a padlock. i am not sure if it is the better alternative

It is. And stronger.

Vanessa

Ines No. Maybe another block piece that do not weld my legs together.

To make it safer than a lock?

Ines I would not be very sure about this 😅

🤣

Sara2001 To much sport the day before is always a good excuse

Good idea.

Sara2001 Yes, but on the other hand, it helps to rethink your opinion.

Right.

Ines

A bit different for reluctant wearers,however.

Angelina well, chastity devices even make more sense than clothes (from your parents view), because you can take off clothes 😉

I agree,but for them,having both is even better.

Angelina for me it will be 2 years in January and it will take at least another 2 1/2 years afterwards 🙁

Not easy to think about it,I know it too...

Sara2001

Foxies I can't help but think that consensual and punishment in relation to wearing chastity equipment don't seem to belong together - at least in my universe.

I think we agree in that and it's even the same opinion my father and my bf have. In our home the chastity equipment is completely unrelated to any punishment.

Mary

Foxies "the urge to periodically pull my thighs apart has not lessened"
It takes several months to break a habit, learn a new habit, to accept a restriction, even to fully use a new freedom.
Patience. All in good time.

Foxies

Mary
Thank you Mary. You give me hope 😃 And I would say its more a nuisance right now rather than intolerable. My partner is being sympathetic yet firm enough to encourage me.

Angelina

Ines

well, then maybe the padlock is more comfortable. what does your mother say ?

Mary

Foxies A sympathetic partner is everything.

Ines

Vanessa To make it safer than a lock?

Yes, this is the idea, maybe a piece that allows 2 centimeters.
The block piece is quite wide and blocks the rings one over the other and, yes, it is very secure, but so much uncomfortable.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree,but for them,having both is even better.

I understand, but what is the point of clothing if there is nothing underneath that allows sexual touching? 😂

Vanessa Not easy to think about it,I know it too...

right, although as far as the topic is concerned, 2020 was easier than 2019. 😉

Tobbe

well, I have 6 cm and anything below that is already very extreme

Vanessa

Ines

I think you would have to test different lengths to find the best compromise between secure and comfortable.

Tobbe

Vanessa Do not usually chain length 10 cm, 6 cm and together be mentioned?

Ines

Tobbe
In my case are 6 and 3 cm.

Vanessa

Tobbe

It seems it is the most common lengths,yes.

Ines

3 cm seem very short!

Angelina I understand, but what is the point of clothing if there is nothing underneath that allows sexual touching? 😂

They still think it is indecent,even if I agree that it is not very logical(even if I don't wear the chastity bra at night,generally).

Angelina right, although as far as the topic is concerned, 2020 was easier than 2019. 😉

Why?

Sara2001

My chain is 6cm, too now. I think it is a good length for day to day situations. From dinner until the next morning, I only wear a padlock, except when we are out for or after dinner.

Ines

Angelina well, I have 6 cm and anything below that is already very extreme

5-10 cm (depending on highness of the band I think is the optimal length).
But shorter chain I do not call it extreme, since with a chain of 3 cm I can manage perfectly the things that I have to do when I have to wear bands.
Extreme is a padlock, not only for short but for being not articulated, or my block piece.

Angelina

Ines

well, i don't really know if it would make a difference to me whether i wear a 3 cm chain or a padlock, i would have to test that. i agree only a padlock is very restrictive

and yes i stick to the word extreme

Ines

Angelina
Yes, simply for the articulation of links. Better movement than a padlock.

Angelina

Ines . Better movement than a padlock.

i admit i can't judge the effect of a padlock compared to your block piece. 😂

Angelina

Vanessa ,even if I agree that it is not very logical(even if I don't wear the chastity bra at night,generally).

well, since you have already said that your parents do not change their mind even if you wear the bra at night, i can only say that it is completely illogical.

Vanessa Why?

I have a much better relationship with my father again. 🙂

Ines

Vanessa 3 cm seem very short!

It is the price of to have a "lighter" belt 😅. It is wearable, but yes, it is a bit strict. However, they make the belt secure enough when I should wear them.

Vanessa

Angelina I have a much better relationship with my father again. 🙂

Good;due to the fact you manage the chastity belt better?

Ines

So,3 cm between the thigh bands is only used with the Fancysteel belt?

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