Thighbands

Ines

Just in my opinion, and with total respect to your choices, I think that the usage that you make of thigh bands is not the original intended for it.

Please: I do not say that you use it in bad way or weird or nothing similar, but I think that 24/7 usage is not the intended purpose.

As I show here, in an antique belt, we can see "thigh bands" (or similar), and I can "understand" we can wear it for long period if keyholder is away (always with a way of release, of course),but if we have our keyholder with us, the bands are useful to add safety to our belt, avoiding we can use angles to slide something under our shield, in some situations, but they are not useful all the time.

I am afraid that permanent usage have bad consequences In blood circulation or another issues. This is a item very useful, but we should be careful with it. In fact, I had some issues using it while I studied (I had irritation and redness), and of course, a girl alone in the bedroom ,sitting in a desk, is a situation in which all of us should wear them... and however so much study gave me problems in my thighs.

Fight the belt is normal, but cheat it, or even achieve some sensations under the belt is very difficult, we need time, concentration and calm, so, bands are created for those moments, not for long gaps of time.

However, I understand you use them in another way, and not related to chastity, however, be careful.

Mary

Ines "I had some issues using it while I studied (I had irritation and redness), and of course, a girl alone in the bedroom ,sitting in a desk, is a situation in which all of us should wear them... and however so much study gave me problems in my thighs."
I'm sorry to learn that you had issues using thigh bands while you studied. None of us should wear any of these devices, or anything else that causes health problems.

We're all different and we should all respect our bodies. Thigh bands or no thigh bands, too much sitting for study or any other reason is not good for our bodies. We were meant to stand and walk, not sit.

Now that I am used to them, I can wear them all day long with no problems other than the restrain they are intended to provide. They are part of who I am. They help make it impossible for me to have any sort of satisfaction or release and that is what my husband wants, so in that way my usage is exactly the original use intended for them.

I can understand that this is not what you want and I do not disagree with your choice for you. I respect that. However, it is my choice for me.

Vanessa

Ines

If willingly,and to protect our virginity,I think we can feel it this way too,yes.

Angelina

I think it more a question of feelings than only knowing how to act.

Ines However, I usually do not use thigh bands when I go out.

Even with the more classical belt(with 6 cm chain,so)?

Ines 3 cm allows walk as any other girl

I doubt it is possible to walk like any other women if my thighs are retrained...

Ines I think that 24/7 usage is not the intended purpose.

It seems it is often used this way,for many of us here...

Angelina

The fact it is willingly probably help a lot.

Ines

Mary We're all different and we should all respect our bodies. Thigh bands or no thigh bands, too much sitting for study or any other reason is not good for our bodies. We were meant to stand and walk, not sit.

Yes, it was last year, I had to stop wear them immediately.

Mary They are part of who I am. They help make it impossible for me to have any sort of satisfaction or release and that is what my husband wants, so in that way my usage is exactly the original use intended for them.

I respect your choice fully, but I think that even if in your case fulfill the intended purpose, you use them more as a restriction than as a protection.

Sara2001

Mary We're all different and we should all respect our bodies. Thigh bands or no thigh bands, too much sitting for study or any other reason is not good for our bodies. We were meant to stand and walk, not sit.

I agree to this. I have a desk in my room that can be used in a standing and a sitting position. I often stand during the day. I never had any serious issues with blood flow.

Mary My husband wants me to be so restricted.

Same here, but for me initially my father wanted it and my boyfriend want it, too.

Angelina I'm glad to hear it's getting a little easier for you, it's not a given, especially with the thigh bands.

Yes, it's much easier, once you get used to it.

Mary

Ines "I respect your choice fully,"
We respect each other's choices, which is good.

May I ask you a question: Do you wear thigh bands at all now? If this is an inappropriate question, please tell me, as I don't want to create an awkward situation.

Ines

Mary
It is not inappropriate at all, do not worry.
Yes, I wear thigh bands, but even I was not ever a 24/7 user, it is true that currently, if I wear them daily ,I do it less time. I weared them in home and I went out with them sometimes, currently, if I am not alone in home I do not wear them until bedtime or if If I stay more time, watching a movie, I am fitted with them when my parents go bed.

Mary

Ines "you use them more as a restriction than as a protection."
I have thought about your observation. Yes, you are right; I do wear them as a restriction. My husband wants me to be so restricted.

Many of the items we wear achieve multiple results.
A chastity belt can insure virginity if worn early enough in life. But it also can be used to deny all forms of arousal down there.
Thigh bands can insure that arousal down there is impossible. But as you observe, they can also be used as a means of restriction.
A chastity bra can insure that no form of arousal is possible up top. But it can also make it impossible to wear revealing blouses.
When some metal object is locked around our bodies, it plays many roles. That we ourselves cannot remove it is a common, yet another role. It is a complex matter with many layers. I cannot say I understand the matter fully, but it is a deep subject.

Foxies

Ines Mary Angelina

First, as a physician. I would like to say that if anything you wear (including any form of chastity device) causes harm to the body then its use should cease immediately. Quite often the skin can be irritated either for allergic or abrasive reasons. If this occurs the skin's barrier to infection can break down and resulting infection can become serious or even catastrophic.

In fairness, a belt made of surgical stainless steel will rarely cause allergic reactions, but not so, the various rubber and latex linings that many belts and thigh bands posses. From an ethical point of view, it is the keyholders duty to keep all of us wearers safe and free from harm including our health beyond chastity.

Any abrasions or cuts should be investigated immediately, not least because the thighs and pelvic areas are breeding grounds for fungi and bacteria. If the devices impede circulation in anyway they need to be removed or at least modified and gain the onus ethically should be on the keyholder. Remember the circulation carries the bodies immune components that fight infection and prevention of circulation could lease to immunity compromise in the affected area.

In these regards that my partner is also a medical professional (a nurse) and she examines me daily for issues.

And like Mary, I have become used to the thigh bands and have been able to tolerate them without too much difficulty. My partner does remove the connecting chain for certain exercise, particularly hiking etc. I have not had problems with sitting, lying or studying (something I still enjoy).

In part I disagree that the thigh bands help prevent arousal. However I do agree that they make responses to arousal difficult and thus the arousal fades more quickly than before. Certainly trying to push anything beneath the shied is something i do not think about anymore - though I confess that this used to be an issue. I have also come to believe that there probably is a small fetish component to this even though I think it cheapens the whole reason for us having this shared experience with m partner. I say this because every evening when we finally retire upstairs, the padlock is placed on my bands and the very act of doing this adds that little connection between us. hard t explain.

Angelina

Foxies

I'm glad to hear it's getting a little easier for you, it's not a given, especially with the thigh bands. 🙂

Ines

Foxies In fairness, a belt made of surgical stainless steel will rarely cause allergic reactions

In my case was the result of rubbing due to so much study hours.

Angelina

Foxies In part I disagree that the thigh bands help prevent arousal

I don't think so either

and as you said i would never agree to anything that would cause me harm to my health and my father is very careful about that

Vanessa It seems it is often used this way,for many of us here...

at least more often than I thought (unfortunately) 🙁

Sara2001 Yes, it's much easier, once you get used to it.

i don't think it's possible to get used to it completely. i think you'll agree with me when i say that the thigh bands are physically the most restrictive part of our equipment, right?

Mary I can walk like any other woman with my thighs restrained.

i am not sure if this is the case with me, but since i have never been asked about an unusual walking style, i think it looks normal

Foxies

Ines
Well certainly, abrasions caused by rubbing are possible and you should take great care not to break any skin. If they are rubbing badly, perhaps a little more slack in the side chains to your belt so the bands can be eased down your thighs is necessary.

Mary

Vanessa I doubt it is possible to walk like any other women if my thighs are retrained

We're all different. I can walk like any other woman with my thighs restrained. But it took time to learn to do so and that's only me. From what you write, you are different and I truly respect that.

Ines

Vanessa Even with the more classical belt(with 6 cm chain,so)?

I used to wear them more time before my issues, nowadays is pretty exceptional that I wear them if I am not alone in a relaxing environment.

Vanessa I doubt it is possible to walk like any other women if my thighs are retrained...

I can say you that in some celebrations I have worm heels and dresses that limited me much more than bands.
At the end the most important is fluidity of movement, and with my 3 cm bands I do not have any problem, but with my older bands you can not suspect I wear them. I wear them without any pull.

Vanessa

Mary

But I've less training,never worn it outside(for now),so I may be wrong.

Angelina i don't think it's possible to get used to it completely.

I agree.And same for the chastity belt and chastity bra.

Angelina i am not sure if this is the case with me, but since i have never been asked about an unusual walking style, i think it looks normal

But you've to walk more slowly,with smaller step,right?

Sara2001 Just a bit slower then usual.

Still a difference,so!😉

Sara2001 someone who did to much sport lately or slept in a bad position or wears new shoes.

But these cases doesn't last long,after a few days,it is solved.

Ines I used to wear them more time before my issues, nowadays is pretty exceptional that I wear them if I am not alone in a relaxing environment.

Good you're more free of it(even if you don't dislike it in your case!😉).

Ines I can say you that in some celebrations I have worm heels and dresses that limited me much more than bands.

I agree,it can be limiting,too.

James As a guy, dressing is so simple. No deep layers of meaning. Is it clean? It fits? Yeah,good to go.

Right,guys seem to care way less about their outfits than us!🙂

Sara2001

Angelina i don't think it's possible to get used to it completely. i think you'll agree with me when i say that the thigh bands are physically the most restrictive part of our equipment, right?

Absolutely. With "used" I mean "they became a normal thing for you", but of course they need a lot of attention at all time. I never forget that they are there for long.

Angelina i think it looks normal

I think my sister's and my walking looks almost normal. Just a bit slower then usual. Maybe not enough difference to ask, like someone who did to much sport lately or slept in a bad position or wears new shoes. Something like that.

Angelina

Sara2001 Absolutely. With "used" I mean "they became a normal thing for you", but of course they need a lot of attention at all time. I never forget that they are there for long.

ok, then i didn't understand it precisely enough, but that's what i meant. of course it will be a bit easier but of course never complete

Sara2001

i assume so too. i can't judge it as well, but you have your sister as an example to see how girls walk with thigh bands.

Mary

Ines "in some celebrations I have worm heels and dresses that limited me much more than bands."
That has been my strategy: to wear skirts and heels that limit me more than my bands. It took me some time to work this out and to find the right clothes, but now my business and social wardrobe consists only of garments that restrict me more than my thigh bands.

Angelina

Ines I have worm heels and dresses that limited me much more than bands.

finally a point i can agree with, i also find heels more limited than the thigh bands 😉

Mary

was that the goal, i.e. to not feel the thigh bands so much anymore by wearing even more restrictive clothing? interesting idea

James

wear dresses and skirts lined with fleece, my tip 😉

James

Mary What sort of dresses and skirts do you wear in winter, Mary?

Laura

James Probably they don't have winters 😂

James

Laura Lol. Alright, what about girls that do? 😂

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