Thighbands

youdontknowme

Angelina Considering that it was her sister's BF instead of her brother before, I guess the rule is "known male that she is not romantically involved with" or something, which, if true, sounds a bit misogynistic to me, as if all girls and young women were part of a conspiracy to behave unchastely.

Angelina

youdontknowme which, if true, sounds a bit misogynistic to me, as if all girls and young women were part of a conspiracy to behave unchastely.

frankly i have a similar thought 😂

Sara2001 It has to be exactly this group. No foreigners.

so your father has previously determined who belongs to this group and you are, so to speak, dependent on the grace of your brother to be allowed out (without a chain in the thighbands)?

Sara2001

Angelina frankly, i find that illogical. does the fourth person have to be a man? otherwise you could also ask a friend.

It has to be exactly this group. No foreigners.

Vanessa

Maija

I imagine it is not easy!

Ines I do not need spread my knees watching a film, or reading.

But if wanting to stretch your legs during it,you can't.

Sara2001

What if your sister have a new boyfriend?

Sara2001 I still think is very nice from him

I agree.

Is it 4 maximum?For example,can he ask his girlfriend to come too?

Sara2001

Angelina so your father has previously determined who belongs to this group and you are, so to speak, dependent on the grace of your brother to be allowed out (without a chain in the thighbands)?

I wouldn't have described it like this, but yes, walks without the chains are only allowed as this group of four (initially the two couples, but my brother was so nice to jump in for my sisters former boyfriend, which I still think is very nice from him).

Angelina

Sara2001

of course that's very nice of him, i won't deny that. i just wanted to know the details, thanks for the clarification

Sara2001

Vanessa What if your sister have a new boyfriend?

If they know eachother well enough, it will maybe switch back to her boyfriend again.

Vanessa Is it 4 maximum?For example,can he ask his girlfriend to come too?

No, this is a private thing. No foreigners, not even his girlfriend. Maybe someone like Daniels parents would be welcome.

Angelina

Sara2001 No, this is a private thing. No foreigners, not even his girlfriend. Maybe someone like Daniels parents would be welcome.

does your brother's girlfriend know what is happening in your family?

Vanessa

Sara2001

Ok,I think the rules about it are very complex,not sure it is better than "it is allowed if a group of four minimum,with related women and men".

Sara2001

Oh?It's surprising she doesn't know/notice it,if they're together since long enough.

Sara2001 I would wonder a lot when this would ever happen. My brother doesn't like our situation and is normally not dominant to us, even if he technically has the right to do so.

So,it is likely to be an equal right relationship?

Sara2001 Because my brother keeps this a secret from her. He sees no reason to explain anything to her. My father doesn't want people who don't know about our situation on our walking trips.

He plans to never tell it to her?

Daphne

Welcome,I guess(even if I only wear these part-time)!😉

Sara2001

Angelina does your brother's girlfriend know what is happening in your family?

Not really.

Saintprudence

Sara2001 is she likely to ever be asked to join the belted club?

Angelina

Sara2001 Not really.

because your father does not trust her so much, or because it is better if as few people as possible know?

Sara2001

Saintprudence Sara2001 is she likely to ever be asked to join the belted club?

I would wonder a lot when this would ever happen. My brother doesn't like our situation and is normally not dominant to us, even if he technically has the right to do so.

Angelina because your father does not trust her so much, or because it is better if as few people as possible know?

Because my brother keeps this a secret from her. He sees no reason to explain anything to her. My father doesn't want people who don't know about our situation on our walking trips.

youdontknowme

Sara2001 even if he technically has the right to do so.

I would probably phrase it more as "permission" than as "right", as I do not think any of us live under a constitution or political philosophy that grants people a "right" to dominate anyone.

Angelina

Sara2001 Because my brother keeps this a secret from her. He sees no reason to explain anything to her.

actually he's right about that, he doesn't seem to see the chastity regime quite as positively as your father either and if he has an equal relationship with his girlfriend without chastity devices, there's really no reason, yes

Daphne Well, I'm now officially part of thigh banded group, got a chain of around a few cm to work with for now

welcome to the club 😉

Maija Aww thank you 🥰. It's just that I feel more feminine and protected

that's even true, although for me the disadvantages are too big to see that as a big advantage, but i'm glad if you get along better with the thighbands as a result. 🙂

Daphne

Well, I'm now officially part of thigh banded group, got a chain of around a few cm to work with for now

Sara2001

youdontknowme I would probably phrase it more as "permission" than as "right", as I do not think any of us live under a constitution or political philosophy that grants people a "right" to dominate anyone.

Yes, English is not my first language. Permission is the better word.

Daphne

Spend my first night in my thigh bands, and honestly i gotta get used to it but i could atleast sleep

Maija

Daphne Spend my first night in my thigh bands, and honestly i gotta get used to it but i could atleast sleep

Congratulations! How did it feel?

Rina

Daphne How it is like to wear thigh bands? Although now I don't have belt nor any devices yet, I will be wearing a belt at least in foreseeable future. But since hearing your story about thigh bands, I'm curious that how does it feel like to wear thigh bands. I sometimes think about wearing thigh bands too once I'm belted (Of course I'll wait until I get used to wearing belt at least before moving to thigh bands), but I want to know how it feels at first time wearing thigh bands.

Maija

Angelina i know these problems 🙁 but i find it admirable that you think thighbands make you a better person, i never had that feeling. why do you think that?

Aww thank you 🥰. It's just that I feel more feminine and protected

Ines Are you using a padlock, right?

Usually not when going out since I commute during the day. The chain just is a little too short

Ines

Maija Usually not when going out since I commute during the day. The chain just is a little too short

Ummmm...
Well even if using a padlock is a nonsense from safety's perspective, I can not imagine the length of your chain.
You can remain safe while you are using a chain of reasonable length.

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