Thighbands

Ines

Maija Usually not when going out since I commute during the day. The chain just is a little too short

Ummmm...
Well even if using a padlock is a nonsense from safety's perspective, I can not imagine the length of your chain.
You can remain safe while you are using a chain of reasonable length.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Ok,I think the rules about it are very complex,not sure it is better than "it is allowed if a group of four minimum,with related women and men".

Sara2001

Oh?It's surprising she doesn't know/notice it,if they're together since long enough.

Sara2001 I would wonder a lot when this would ever happen. My brother doesn't like our situation and is normally not dominant to us, even if he technically has the right to do so.

So,it is likely to be an equal right relationship?

Sara2001 Because my brother keeps this a secret from her. He sees no reason to explain anything to her. My father doesn't want people who don't know about our situation on our walking trips.

He plans to never tell it to her?

Daphne

Welcome,I guess(even if I only wear these part-time)!😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Oh?It's surprising she doesn't know/notice it,if they're together since long enough.

My brother stayed mostly at her place when they spend a night together. Almost always. If she is here, everything is hidden.

Vanessa So,it is likely to be an equal right relationship?

It is

Vanessa He plans to never tell it to her?

I wouldn't say never, but not in the foreseeable future.

Rina

Daphne How it is like to wear thigh bands? Although now I don't have belt nor any devices yet, I will be wearing a belt at least in foreseeable future. But since hearing your story about thigh bands, I'm curious that how does it feel like to wear thigh bands. I sometimes think about wearing thigh bands too once I'm belted (Of course I'll wait until I get used to wearing belt at least before moving to thigh bands), but I want to know how it feels at first time wearing thigh bands.

Daphne

Rina

It's, restrictive. Both in movement and in choice of clothes. I'm unable to wear pants and i gotta plan everything ahead of time because of my slow movement but i don't mind either of these things

Angelina

Sara2001 My brother stayed mostly at her place when they spend a night together. Almost always. If she is here, everything is hidden.

that's also a reason why 99% of the time we sleep over at my place and not at camryn's. if her brother found out it wouldn't be that great and the effort to hide everything is very high in private.

Vanessa

Sara2001 My brother stayed mostly at her place when they spend a night together. Almost always. If she is here, everything is hidden.

It's still surprising,if their relation is long enough(like if she's considered as part of the family).

You're not jealous they can spend the night together if they want?

Sara2001 It is

So,you're the only one who would have a man-led relationship?

Foxies whenever I request

How often,in average?

gwen

Ines Have you used it with chain? Did you wear it very low?
Angelina how long was the chain you wore?

About 6cm of chain, about 1/2 way down my thighs.

The reduction in gait wasn't significant. I naturally have a short stride.

Ines Not only sitting in the floor, but everything what you need spread your knees.

Agreed. I underestimated how often I spread my knees in a typical day without even thinking about it!

I am busy, so I've paused the experiment for now, but I will probably give it another try in the future.

Ines

gwen Agreed. I underestimated how often I spread my knees in a typical day without even thinking about it!

It is an entire process... 😂
When you wear the bands, firstly you think about the number of times in which you spread your legs.
With practice, you think about the things that you did not well.

Angelina

gwen About 6cm of chain, about 1/2 way down my thighs.

The reduction in gait wasn't significant. I naturally have a short stride.

good that it wasn't too bad for you, my thighbands are similarly placed and my chain is also about 6cm, i find that very restrictive, especially i notice it more clearly in the evenings and at night because i am now free of it during the day.

gwen

gwen I've paused the experiment for now, but I will probably give it another try in the future.

I've continued my experiments, and I think this might actually work for me.

I found a spot a bit further down my thigh, below the bulge of my hamstring, and the bands fit comfortably there for much longer. I wear them about 2/3 of the way to my knee now. They are more difficult to conceal this far down my thigh, but I think I can live with that.

It looks like I'm joining the thigh band club, at least part time. 😅

Daphne

Ines

Can confirm

Daphne

Angelina

My chain is only 4 cm actually

Mr-TM

Angelina my chain is also about 6cm

Daphne chain is only 4 cm

Are the lengths the pure chain or calculated together with the padlocks?

Angelina

Daphne My chain is only 4 cm actually

In my opinion, that is very little

Foxies How effective the locking chain is depends on how far down your thighs, the thigh bands rest. This is probably more important than the length of the chain itself.

I would say it is a mixture of both, but the exact position is very difficult to describe, which is why we rather compare the chain lengths.

Foxies

How effective the locking chain is depends on how far down your thighs, the thigh bands rest. This is probably more important than the length of the chain itself. Certainly a shorter chain lower down the thighs can be oppressive and makes the urge to spread your thighs more constant and annoying. Mine is such that It doesn't really affect my normal stride but even so, my partner will unlock me for stretching breaks when I ask. This actually produces a nice feeling during the "stretch time" and after ten minute or so I am more than ready for her to replace the connecting chain. Over the nine months or so I have been wearing them I suppose I have gotten used to the thigh bands and the number of stretch times I request has been noticeably reduced, though Angela, (my partner) will give me one whenever I request.

Sara2001

Vanessa It's still surprising,if their relation is long enough(like if she's considered as part of the family).

This part is still hidden from her. I am not sure how deep his relationship is. I don't think they will marry.

Vanessa You're not jealous they can spend the night together if they want?

Of course, but I am also happy for them, but I can't do anything to change it. We are allowed to spend our night together, too. We have just no chance to give me an orgasm.

Vanessa So,you're the only one who would have a man-led relationship?

Very likely. My silbings are going in a different direction. I am happy for them and they are happy for me, even if they sometimes think that I am crazy.

Foxies

Vanessa How often,in average?

I would say never less than a couple of times a day. Sometimes Angela (my partner) will asks me if I need a stretch break, particularly if she is going out without me for a few hours. Some of it depends on what we are doing and if we are hiking or going for a long walk she unlocks the connecting chain anyway. Possibly the most breaks I have asked for is maybe five or six times though that was probably soon after I started wearing them.

Maybe the average now would be three or possibly four times/day.

I will say that a part of me really enjoys it when she locks them back up. Hard to explain other than to say I clearly have some mental issues 🤣

Joh

Sara2001 think that I am crazy.

Understandable because it us unusual but if you feel it is right for you than not.

Angelina

Sara2001 This part is still hidden from her. I am not sure how deep his relationship is. I don't think they will marry.

Are they only together for a very short time or does the relationship not work so well anymore?

Sara2001 even if they sometimes think that I am crazy.

you are not crazy, just different 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 I am not sure how deep his relationship is. I don't think they will marry.

In this case,it is understandable it is hidden.

Sara2001 Of course, but I am also happy for them,

Understandable.

Sara2001 We are allowed to spend our night together, too.

Which can be great too!🙂

Sara2001 I am happy for them and they are happy for me

So,good!🙂

Sara2001

Maybe they just want to have some fun,without deciding right now if they want it to be more serious or not.

Foxies would say never less than a couple of times a day.

Pretty often,so!😉

Foxies I will say that a part of me really enjoys it when she locks them back up.

😉

Foxies The sound of a clicking lock!

Very symbolic,yes.

Foxies For most of you locked against your wills, I imagine that most of what I said above makes no sense.

Not the same feelings,but it is still symbolic too,even if less nice than for you.

Angelina

You express well what I meant!😉

Alma05 I have the final say about them as well.

Good.

These are very restrictive.

Laura

Right!

Alma05 I started crying....

Understandable,she was not very nice...

Sara2001

Joh Understandable because it us unusual but if you feel it is right for you than not.

I think for me this is the right way.

Joh

Sara2001 It looks like and I hope you will be happy a long time. Maybe for ever but from my experience it is not so common. But you have a good base to be successful.

Sara2001

Angelina Are they only together for a very short time or does the relationship not work so well anymore?

I would say it's not so deep, difficult to describe. Sometimes I think they are a couple because they are to lazy to look for a better partner, but this is an interpretation and surely not 100% fair.

Angelina

Sara2001

yes, unfortunately i also know such relationships, in most cases it didn't end well after a few months. i wish your brother only the best.

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