Thighbands

Angelina

Vanessa Good you can manage to get your rules a bit less strict this way.🙂

Mostly yes, but of course no guarantee 😉

Vanessa As it is the case for @Maija, probably

then it will still be extremely hard for @Maija sister 🙁

carg

i agree 100%. siblings can be very different and the father should always decide individually.

Vanessa

carg your acceptance is exceptional

I think so,too.

Angelina Mostly yes, but of course no guarantee 😉

Let's hope it would work often!

Angelina then it will still be extremely hard for @Maija sister 🙁

I agree...

Angelina

Vanessa Let's hope it would work often!

I hope so too 🙂

Maija

Angelina sorry about your sister 🙁

what does that mean in the beginning? does that mean that she should wear it 24/7 at some point? and why? i mean you got the thighbands because you tried to cheat on the belt, was it similar with her?

She will eventually wear them 24/7 like me (although with a break for exercise). She also has a history of trying to cheat, and a couple of months back was the tipping point.

Like me, she will start with them being quite low.

Angelina

Maija She will eventually wear them 24/7 like me (although with a break for exercise). She also has a history of trying to cheat, and a couple of months back was the tipping point.

i'm sorry, may i ask how old your sister is? is a chastity bra planned for her too?

frankly, I'm a little worried that your father is "escalating" a bit and thinks that just because it works well for you, it will work for her. siblings are different, @Sara2001 could certainly tell you a lot about that.

Vanessa

Maija trying to cheat

We all try to cheat on our belt,it is logical.

Maija

Angelina i'm sorry, may i ask how old your sister is? is a chastity bra planned for her too?

She is 17. I don't know, maybe?

Angelina frankly, I'm a little worried that your father is "escalating" a bit and thinks that just because it works well for you, it will work for her. siblings are different, @Sara2001 could certainly tell you a lot about that.

We'll see. In any case, my mother has coped with them for years 🙂

Avery

Vanessa We all try to cheat on our belt,it is logical.

Why do you say all? Can you not imagine that some would want to maintain a chaste lifestyle? I certainly believe that only a few people here can legitimately claim to be living a chaste lifestyle, most are forced into it and some are parents forcing their children but I am convinced there are some true believers here.

Vanessa

Avery Why do you say all? Can you not imagine that some would want to maintain a chaste lifestyle?

As even willingly wearers have already told us they sometimes fight it.

It is a logical reaction.

Angelina

Avery

one has nothing to do with the others. it's a kind of automatism. certainly rarer with volunteers than with forced ones, but i think that every girl has tried it. that's why there are key holders.

Maija She is 17. I don't know, maybe?

hopefully not

Maija We'll see. In any case, my mother has coped with them for years 🙂

but your mother is not your sister. everyone has a different character.

Jen

Vanessa As even willingly wearers have already told us they sometimes fight it.

I've mixed feelings yeah for sure but never really wanted to cheat while it was locked on. Lots of fighting yes but - like that's testing to feel the security of it on me - like if I succeeded in cheating it I'd be disappointed.

youdontknowme

If you wear a chastity belt in private, you typically do so because you are afraid that while the spirit is willing, the flesh might be weak. If you never experience those moments, the only purpose of the belt is as an armor to ward off attackers.

Joh

Maija In any case, my mother has coped with them for years

It is no prove your sister can handle it without any damage. It always depends on the person.

Avery So maybe they are not quite so serious about that dress code as is sometimes presented.

Welcome in the real world.
You will find the difference between aspiration and reality everywhere.
I don't like it either and when I see it here I bring it out. Everyone should do what they want, but they should also stand up for it and call it that.

Roland

Maija my mother has coped with them for years

Has your mother really had the belt and all the equipment worn for decades? Unbelievable! How are her rules and her daily routine so that she doesn't get any problems in the long term (work, vacation, traval, doctor visit) ?

youdontknowme

Jen never really wanted to cheat while it was locked on. Lots of fighting yes but - like that's testing to feel the security of it on me - like if I succeeded in cheating it I'd be disappointed.

How exactly do you define the difference between fighting and cheating? Is one trying to get the belt off and the other trying to get under the belt?

And being disappointed at getting "through" a chastity belt does not tend to stop people from trying. Which is precisely why volunteer wearers still need security in their devices.

Avery

Angelina but i think that every girl has tried it

Yes, sometimes the reality is different from what one thinks. A few times here I have touted the girls I run against from Brigham Young University as role models because the school code of conduct dictates conservative dress like no short sleeves, no bare shoulders and no bare midriffs and of course no premarital sex. But seeing them recently at the championship meet in Florida they run in the same uniforms we do, bare arms, bare shoulders, bare legs all the way up to the crotch. And later they took a team photo in just sports bras and shorts. So maybe they are not quite so serious about that dress code as is sometimes presented.

Jen

youdontknowme How exactly do you define the difference between fighting and cheating? Is one trying to get the belt off and the other trying to get under the belt?

I can get fingers under a little but it's only cheating if like if I can orgasm or get a finger in me. Like when I put it on I don't put it on loose - I put it on tight so I know I can fight it but won't be able to cheat

Angelina

youdontknowme How exactly do you define the difference between fighting and cheating?

i would say fighting is what every girl does. it is cheating if the fight was successful.

Avery

frankly, i find the discussions about clothes in sports quite nonsensical. we once had a discussion because our gymnasts wore long gymnastics suits at the world championships. it felt like 2/3 of the media coverage was all about that. i think in sports, performance should always be in the foreground and if someone becomes world champion naked, he/she deserves it. 😃

youdontknowme

Avery So maybe they are not quite so serious about that dress code as is sometimes presented.

I guess a lot of that might depend on why one would dress like that. It does not seem unreasonable to assume that being dressed for an occasion where short clothes are worn for practical reasons and generally accepted as professional attire is different from showing off your body for the sole purpose of your body being on display.

Avery

youdontknowme It does not seem unreasonable to assume that being dressed for an occasion where short clothes are worn for practical reasons and generally accepted as professional attire

OK, and we were in Florida where it was 75°F, 24°C which is quite warm but they were representing BYU, in official uniforms. They behaved like anyone else and I am happy for them for that.

Avery

Angelina frankly, i find the discussions about clothes in sports quite nonsensical

I think often there is not enough for the sports reporters to talk about therefore they have to invent stories.

James

Avery They only ever invent stories for girls though.

Angelina

Avery I think often there is not enough for the sports reporters to talk about therefore they have to invent stories.

yes sports reporters are sometimes annoying, that's why i like to watch livestreams on the internet without commentary, then it's all about the competition 🙂

Abby82 but i think that you can use both words for tampering with a chastity belt.

I would say it depends on whether it was successful, otherwise it is at most an attempt to cheating.

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