Thighbands

Amira

Laura If a girl or her parents worry about her hymen too much, she should wear thighbands, but too many drawbacks

I know about the drawbacks cause I have some experience with them. I am really considering to wear them really regularly.

Angelina nice to read from you again.

Thank you 🙂 I'm glad you remember me!

Angelina Have you had an examination to see if your hymen is still intact?

that wasn't the main purpose of the examination.

Angelina if you want a partner for life and he values the fact that you are a virgin, then he should believe you and not take the hymen as proof.

Yes, absolutely, he should believe but it is a tradition to show off your blood stained bedsheets after the wedding night and I would consider doing that.

Ines Yes, and in some moments, that was their main function.

Maybe I really should use them for that purpose.

Laura

Amira I am really considering to wear them really regularly.

I would consider too if I had the keys from them

Bryan

Amira I know about the drawbacks cause I have some experience with them. I am really considering to wear them really regularly.

I am not quite sure I understand the role of the thighbands in preventing accidental damage to the hymen. Are they to prevent the temptation of playing sports or doing other similar activities? I got the impression that most women here only wear them at home, when I would suspect there is little risk in doing something that might cause damage.

Angelina

Amira that wasn't the main purpose of the examination.

Yes, but has it been examined and do you know if it is intact or?

Kaja How it feels when somebody touch your privates after that long time (when you almost cant see it, touch it even put anything inside)?

Well, it's always a bit strange, but I don't actually get aroused by it. my gynecologist is an old man i think it explains itself 😉

Amira

ok, you wrote down when you don't wear the thighbands, i'll try to conclude when you wear them. so after school the thigh bands are put on and if you don't go swimming with your mother then they stay until the next morning, on sunday other rules apply, right?
I admire your courage, I only see a problem when it comes to the hymen. you could wear the thighbands for 23 hours (theoretically) and yet in the one free hour your hymen could tear through a clumsy movement, i would just like to say that, good luck for the future 🙂

Joh

Nice you are back and still happy with your CB. 😄

Amira I don't understand what you want to say with that

We had already a discussion about an intact hymen. Some reports state the test is depended on the person and experience. The result can be false positive, false negative or correct. You have never 100% correct results.

Amira Yes, absolutely, he should believe but it is a tradition to show off your blood stained bedsheets after the wedding night and I would consider doing that.

You can fake this. 😉

Kaja

Angelina How it feels when somebody touch your privates after that long time (when you almost cant see it, touch it even put anything inside)?

Amira

Kaja was that question intended for Angelina or for me?

Kaja

Amira For all with these experience.
I really cant imagine it.

Amira

Kaja I have regular breaks and it is always a weird feeling to have some strange person touching me down there. I tried to bei able to stay belted without breaks for a while after I changed from being a persuaded wearer to a reluctant wearer and finally to a voluntary and proud wearer. After Not touching myself for a longer time it was even a weird and unfamiliar feeling to touch my own skin.

Kaja

Amira Might be it is wrong question but do you have "problem" with arousal during examination?
I mean unwished, like automatic reaction of frustrated body.

Amira

Kaja not a wrong question at all. No, it wasnt arousing at all for me, it was more like "oh my, lets get over this, its embarrassing!"

Bryan

Laura Wouldn't have you to get a new belt first? :-)

Are you saying that if one could take them off anytime they want (something I don't think anyone here can?) they could be helpful to wear voluntarily to prevent any sort of "accident" (and then removed when the potential threat was over)?

Bryan

Ines Don't you play a lot of Badminton and only wear thighbands when at night or when home alone (presumably when you wouldn't be playing sports anyway)?

Ines

Bryan

Yes, I was not talking about me, but in some point of the chastity belt evolution, preservation of hymen was the first purpose of thigh bands.

Bryan Are they to prevent the temptation of playing sports or doing other similar activities? I got the impression that most women only wear them at home, when I would suspect there is little risk in doing something that might cause damage.

Yes, you are right, in my case for example only purpose is avoid temptation and cheating, but avoid activities potentially dangerous for hymen was a task of thighbands, not for me, but in general.

Amira

Bryan I got the impression that most women here only wear them at home, when I would suspect there is little risk in doing something that might cause damage.

Yes I think you're right, and it was like that for me as well.

I'll talk to my Mom about it today in the afternoon and then we'll have to think it through.

Laura

Bryan Wouldn't have you to get a new belt first? :-)

I'm talking hypothetically 😂

Bryan Are you saying that if one could take them off anytime they want

Yes, but my parents are against it

Bryan and then removed when the potential threat was over

And be careful with spreading your legs

James

Amira

Amira, my general point is you're talking, in effect, about 24/7 wear without release, inhibiting a bunch of healthy sporting activities - all for something that isn't really valid for all girls...I'm just saying it's a lot for not much reason?

C-B

Amira It has sence, that bands protect against cheating and also against "bad" or "dangerous" movements, which can be dangerous for hymen.

Amira

James Amira, my general point is you're talking, in effect, about 24/7 wear without release, inhibiting a bunch of healthy sporting activities - all for something that isn't really valid for all girls...I'm just saying it's a lot for not much reason?

Thank you for you very reasonable point, especially the health aspect is very important.

C-B It has sence, that bands protect against cheating and also against "bad" or "dangerous" movements, which can be dangerous for hymen.

Thank you, that is as well to consider.

My Mom and I now will talk about it as I value her view a whole lot. 🙂

Ines

James I'm just saying it's a lot for not much reason?

Yes. Certainly.
Further the use by a few hours, thigh bands are dangerous.

Ines

C-B
Some movements or sports.

Kaja

C-B Why is hymen important for you?

Renita

C-B and also against "bad" or "dangerous" movements, which can be dangerous for hymen

Did you wear thighbands for this purpose?

Amira

Ines Further the use by a few hours, thigh bands are dangerous.

Mom is such a good listener and we agreed on the following: I shouldn't wear the thigh bands permanently as that would be bad for my muscles in my legs and most probably in the back as well. Same applies for school, as they would be complicated to hide from others. I won't wear them for swimming which my Mom and I try to do together twice a week, and of course my every-second-sunday-rule stays in place as well, but besides of that it is going to be thigh bands for a while to see how it is going to develop.

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