Thighbands

CharInChastity

Laura they are locked.

Laura

CharInChastity Do they require D-rings?

CharInChastity

Laura yes but my belt has downward facing rings on out side of thigh on waist band.

Roland

Abby82 how do you practically arrange that you have to wear thigh bands when you are alone at home? Do you know beforehand when the time comes and do you have to put them on yourself? Where are the bands when you are not wearing them?

Roland

Abby82 at night, is it up to you when you lock them on or is there a fixed time?

Roland

Abby82 we keep our fingers crossed.

Angelina

CharInChastity

do you know which metal thighbands your father ordered? should you wear them 24/7 or only in "risky situations"?

Abby82 Just in a closet.

then you could take the padlocks and have a spare key made or? 😉

Abby82 Not decided yet but i hope to get rid of them.

as i see it there are three options. the best is you get free of the thighbands, the second best would be your mother gets some too and the worst is that it stays the same. good luck. 🙂

CharInChastity

Angelina do you know which metal thighbands your father ordered? should you wear them 24/7 or only in "risky situations"?

The ones from fancy steel that match my belt.

Angelina

CharInChastity The ones from fancy steel that match my belt.

I have no experience with these, but according to @Ines they seem to be just as safe as others.

Abby82

unfortunately this doesn't sound so good, you should talk especially to your father why you need them and your mother doesn't, if he can't think of anything, then say clearly "either none for me, or mum wears some too".

Roland

Abby82 what if you would take your own locks e.g. for the connecting chain when you lock them on yourself?

Have you noticed that the locks are replaced randomly?

Foxies

Abby82

Hello Abby. Not sure if this would help since I wear thigh bands because ... well I am crazy and want to 🤣 . But my partner does give me "stretch breaks" throughout the day so I can exercise and relieve some of the tension that builds. These breaks usually last around ten minutes are so. My partner just unlocks the connecting cable while I exercise (stretch mostly) and then the lock goes back on.

While I do think it is horrible you are forced to wear anything against your will, surely your parent would allow short, even supervised breaks like mine? These breaks do make wearing them more tolerable.

Alena-CB

Abby82 We both wear them and it is fair

Natalia

Abby82 She then agreed that maybe they aren't needed and told that she will try to convince dad.

So maybe i will be out from the bands soon. Lets hope so. 😅

I keep my fingers crossed that your wish comes true!

Angelina

Abby82 Or then i should talk to mom and try to convince her to talk about it to dad and also mention that its unfair that she doesn't wear them. She checked my belts almost unpleasantly well and agreed that they are completely secure even without the thighbands. And convinced my dad that its ok for the holiday.

this is the best thing to do as a second step. i would first discuss this with your father, because i think there is a better chance that he will not be influenced too much by your mother. if you have him on your side, then your mother has almost no good arguments left.

Abby82 So maybe i will be out from the bands soon. Lets hope so. 😅

good luck, i am surprised that your mother is now very understanding after so many years. 🙂

Ines

Angelina good luck, i am surprised that your mother is now very understanding after so many years. 🙂

Maybe, she is seeing so close the possibility of wear same equipment than @Abby82 ...

Ines

Abby82 I added that they aren't even needed because the belts are safe and they are just making life harder.

I am telling you this here because I know that it will not influence the outcome of your request, but in reality, they do fulfill their function. Without them, masturbation is possible, obviously a full masturbation that ends in something minimally similar to an orgasm is not possible, but the possibility of sliding the fingers under the outermost part of the shield exists without the bands.

Abby82 and would lenghtening the space between them make them easier.

It sounds as preparing a "Plan B" more acceptable for your father.

Abby82 I also added that of course it would even help a little if the space between them was lenghtened.

What is the length of your chain? Sorry, I do not remember.

Roland

Abby82 I am happy for you that you are free form the thigh bands, at least for a while. As you say, if the belts are safe then there is really no reason to applie them. Regular checks of the belt and its proper fit should be quite sufficient. You say the bands, if youwere them, are conected with only a padlock. Where on the thigh are they placed? Must be very high, otherwise it wouldn't be bearable for you at home. At night maybe, but in the afternoon it would be an ordeal, wouldn't it?

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