Avery Maybe it is just a language barrier but to me one can only express an opinion if Ines agrees with it and it is becoming more and more opressive. Yes, my User name on here, Fet Life, and lots of other places is BDSAMM. And if you want to contact me, add aol.com to that. And Abby, if you want to know my comment, just email me. I love hearing from all of you whether you agree with me or not.