Thighbands

Ines

MarleenTotok The normal one is around 6cm effective using length. The short one is around 4cm and the longe one is around 7cm,

I have 6 cm with my NS belt, and 4 with my FS.

MarleenTotok We also have an thing like an "bolt", this would conect all D-Rings together and there is no using space any more between the rings, so the bands are fixed together.

Yes, I had it with my FS, it is hateful, and fortunately I did not have to use it, since thigh bands provide enough safety. It is hateful

MarleenTotok

Rafael the block piece.

The block piece, it means maybe the same i called "bolt"?

Ines It is hateful

most time i accept them, but yes sometimes it is hateful! Do you wear your bands permanently too?

Rafael

MarleenTotok

In home , girls have 4 cm chain, linked to the shield of the belt, and when they cheat, the block piece.

Ines

MarleenTotok Do you wear your bands permanently too?

No, only when I am alone in home and in the night.

MarleenTotok most time i accept them, but yes sometimes it is hateful!

I mean block piece, the bands is something that I use every night, and I am used totally.
But my tests with block piece were very unpleasant.
In my uncles home use it as consequence when girls try to cheat.

Rafael

MarleenTotok The block piece, it means maybe the same i called "bolt"?

I think so. I guess you use It only at nights, right? I think It is too restrictive to be used out of bed.

MarleenTotok

Ines ok, this means you wear them only when you have better chance to fight to the belt? Do you often tryed this and get them by the fights or its about other reasons?

Ines

MarleenTotok ok, this means you wear them only when you have better chance to fight to the belt?

Yes. You are right.

MarleenTotok Do you often tryed this and get them by the fights or its about other reasons?

No, we always will fight without bands, for that we use them. It is not a punishment, is to avoid something that is normal, every girl will fight her belt.

Maija

Abby82 who reminded you?

MarleenTotok

Rafael I think so.

i read some other posts about an block piece and have seen also an picture from it. Yes its the same!

Rafael I guess you use It only at nights, right?

in 99,9% of all cases yes!

Rafael I think It is too restrictive to be used out of bed.

Think so too!

Angelina

Abby82

how exactly do you mean? what happened? we discussed putting the bands on once or twice a week, did you do that to not " attract attention"?

Angelina

Abby82 Mom just mentioned about it cause i havent used them 😅

yes, as i said, maybe you should use the bands once or twice a week, then your mother won't say anything 😉

Angelina

Abby82 But i was just told that its good that i used the bands, was kinda afraid of the reaction 😅

well, you can't use the bands too often either, because then your parents might think you need to wear the bands more often again. you have to try to find a healthy middle way that secures your freedoms but doesn't make your parents suspicious.

curious

Abby82
So just a question:
You do not need to walk around much at night, so bands should not be too much of a hassle, right?
Why try to figure out a schedule etc rather than simply lock bands on at bedtime and unlock in the morning?

Angelina

Abby82 You are correct should try and find an good schedule. Could just do it when i wake at night cause it happens sometimes.

that would be an idea, if it is once or twice a week, i think that is a healthy middle way

Ines

It is destined to failure... no girl amongst us will use it willingly.
I think.

Angelina

Ines

of course no girl uses it voluntarily, but i think it is important that @Abby82's mother believes that the bands are used

Angelina

Abby82 But now i've locked them only when ive woken up early/at the night.

i really hope for your sake that this plan works. i just wonder if your mother really believes it, it all seems a bit unrealistic from your mother's point of view. 😅

Angelina

Abby82

i hope it stays that way, you have fought hard for your freedom (my respect), do everything to keep it 😉

Angelina

Abby82

because you already wrote to me about this topic yesterday via discord, i have already clarified most of the questions, but i thought of one more. if you wear the bands to manage frustrations better, wouldn't it make sense to have keys to the bands so that you can unlock the bands yourself when you have overcome the frustrations?

Angelina

Abby82 Could be the next step im trying to negotiate 😅

do that, i wish you good luck with it, i think that would be the better alternative 😉

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