Thighbands

Elsa

Ines I have another pair of bands with 4 cm chain length for my FS belt

I could not imagine at moment hat 4cm is long enough, but sure your experiences are totally different to mine in this. You also use several belts? You change them often?

Ines

Elsa

I have a waist belt and a hip belt. Hip belt was my graduation gift.
Yes I can change them, but hip belt is so tight, so I mainly use my waist belt.

Elsa

Ines Yes I can change them, but hip belt is so tight, so I mainly use my waist belt.

If you could choice which belt you would use its fine 🙂

Ines

Elsa

Yes, I can, but my cable belt is fitted so tight that it hurts a bit on my hips. I use it when I want wear some clothes, but wear it for some days it is not very nice.
You know, if you want to boast you have to suffer.

Elsa

Ines I use it when I want wear some clothes,

May I ask for which clothes the belt is better?

Yesterday I wore my bands until late in the evening.

I'm allowed to take them off for the next few nights so that sleeping with the belt gets even better.

But now the bands are back. I'll spend the next few hours doing this as well.

Ines

Elsa May I ask for which clothes the belt is better?

Low cut clothes, skirts and denim.
I missed them when I was younger.
Short shirts, not slutty short, but maybe those that allow to see a narrow belly portion.

Elsa I'm allowed to take them off for the next few nights so that sleeping with the belt gets even better.

It sounds wonderfully.

Elsa

Ines Short shirts, not slutty short, but maybe those that allow to see a narrow belly portion.

OK, i understand you. Do you think there are some clothes who are better with an wais-belt?

Ines It sounds wonderfully.

My mom also said it's ok to still be training with the bands, even if the belt is worn 24/7.

Sasha

Ines Low cut clothes, skirts and denim.
I missed them when I was younger.
Short shirts, not slutty short, but maybe those that allow to see a narrow belly portion.

There’s times I miss those things. But I’m actually really happy I can’t dress even a little provocative now.
Longer skirts are great with my hip belt, I’d imagine would be the only thing possible if I started with thigh bands

Ines

Elsa Do you think there are some clothes who are better with an wais-belt?

No, waist belt is more comfortable, but allows less clothes.
My hip belt is more uncomfortable because it has half cable structure, and my parents insist in tight it in order to avoid cable bends and flexibility.
🤷🏻‍♀️

Damien

I think there are a few combinations that go better with waist belts, for example form fitting high waisted (i.e. pencil) skirts combined with jacket and blouse. You should not wear these skirts with a hip belt, as the low lock would show.

Ines

Damien

Padlock will be visible anyway.
You need that skirts are no tight in its upper part.
If you use waist belt you can cover it with a blouse or a belt, but with a hip belt The padlock is concealed by the skirt's flounce.

Angelina

Elsa

ok, so now you have your first experiences with the bands. yes they are very restrictive and i know the problems with the stairs. I think going to the toilet and sleeping are even worse, but as I said in another thread, you should make your own experiences. I also have a length of 6cm (when I wear bands)

Elsa According to the experiences with my sister, I also have to wear them regularly. It means when I am at home and specially at night too.

i'm not quite sure if i understand the word "also". i thought your sister only wore the bands as punishment?

Elsa This will certainly become a matter of getting used to, just like with the belt

from my point of view, it is unfortunately much more difficult than with the belt, simply because the bands are also annoying when you are not sexually aroused or something similar. unfortunately the bands also limit normal daily activities that have nothing to do with masturbation and sex

Elsa

Angelina i'm not quite sure if i understand the word "also". i thought your sister only wore the bands as punishment?

My the word was not the best choice by translating. I only mean I have to wear them now too, regularly.
The regularly wearing was not for my sister, right!

Angelina I think going to the toilet and sleeping are even worse

The other two times I was able to avoid it, but today I had to use the toilet. Then I went straight to the shower.

Angelina unfortunately the bands also limit normal daily activities that have nothing to do with masturbation and sex

You're right, the bands restrict significantly differently than the belt. But how @Ines just told, all daily things I had done are always possible. OK, for sport or something like that they have to come off.

I always have the feeling that I want to spread my legs a bit. Although that is also very much a matter in the head, I think.

Ines

Sasha if I started with thigh bands

When I wear them in home, I dress short clothes too, specially in the Summer. We are not allowed to not wear clothes over the belt, but thigh bands can be uncovered, (in home, obviously).

I thought you will not have to use accessories.

Laura

Sasha But I’m actually really happy I can’t dress even a little provocative now

How about pants?

Sasha

Ines Up till now you are correct, accessories are not used with me.
Mom and I are discussing this in regards to me dating though. And I’m honestly in favor of it.

Ines

Elsa I had to use the toilet. Then I went straight to the shower.

🤦🏻‍♀️😂
Yes, it is a thing that you need a bit of time to mastering. A little bottle and spray water helps.
The firsts times in which you have to use the toilet with the thigh bands, you will need a lot of time to feel properly clean.
It is normal.

Elsa OK, for sport or something like that they have to come off.

Yes. Sports are impossible. I have belt breaks for sports, but, for example, my aunt and cousins have a small cable belt for that.

Angelina

Elsa The other two times I was able to avoid it, but today I had to use the toilet. Then I went straight to the shower.

I can imagine that, afterwards you really feel very dirty. 2 small tips: try not to release too much pressure at once, then it will take longer, but the jet is not as intense and get a small spray bottle with water

Elsa I always have the feeling that I want to spread my legs a bit. Although that is also very much a matter in the head, I think.

That depends a bit on what your usual gait is like. if you spread your legs further in normal gait, it is of course more restrictive with bands. but a lot of things are really in the head, that's true 🙂

Sasha This is the only use we are discussing them for btw.

I understand what you mean, but chastity devices are expensive. you have to ask yourself if, for the short missions, it really seems necessary

Ines

Sasha in regards to me dating though. And I’m honestly in favor of it.

Could you explain it?

Sasha

Ines Of course. Part of my wearing the belt was that I’d take an extended break from dating, and we agreed back then that we would discuss rules for it when we both felt I’m ready to do that again.
While the accessories are restrictive, I feel like I’d try and return to the way I was if I had even some chance to cheat my belt though, or if certain behaviors with me are possible. Such as playing with my breasts.
I’ve accomplished so much from wearing my belt that these thoughts make me feel uneasy, to say the least.
So in addition to rules on clothing, curfews, etc I’m strongly considering the accessories, and discussing their use for dating at length with mom. This is the only use we are discussing them for btw.

Sasha

Laura I don’t have much preference either way, skirts or pants. So that much wouldn’t be an issue
But everything I wear is loose fitting, and knee length anyway

Laura

Sasha I meant you can't wear pants with thighbands and might be interested in it

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