Laura yes, and have been testing various configurations over the last few days on outings with mom.
For the bra we’ve settled on leaving the adjustment a bit loose, just snug enough it won’t easily pull over my breasts. It’s not really comfortable but also not super restrictive either, just does it’s job.
The bands I wear about mid thigh. We settled on a triangle configuration that allows about 5.5cm of length between them while standing. Took some trial and error getting the length right. The restriction while walking is noticeable, and slows me down a bit, but is manageable.
For my purposes we just wanted to make sure I can’t spread my legs enough to attempt to cheat while in them.
Other than this gear being somewhat uncomfortable only other issues I have with it is the bra cups make the harness in my car slip off them. So I won’t be driving on dates but whatever I guess.
Was going to post about this a bit sooner but this has opened a whole other discussion about mom dating seriously again. And I’m not sure how I really feel about that
