Thighbands

EngineeringEmily

Maija I like to sit in a split or the w position a lot.

Roland

Maija Hasn't anyone noticed that maybe you can't move as fast as the others?

Angelina

EngineeringEmily I don’t get the point of thigh bands. No mater how far I spread my legs I can not gain access. Chaining thighs together just seems cruel

so without thighbands i can slightly stimulate myself, but of course it only provides frustration and does not lead to orgasm

Sasha Other than this gear being somewhat uncomfortable only other issues I have with it is the bra cups make the harness in my car slip off them. So I won’t be driving on dates but whatever I guess.

ok, that surprises me a bit, i never had that problem. maybe you have to wear more "robust" clothes.

Sasha

Angelina In a normal seat belt it’s not an issue. But since I’m big there and the Jaguar I finally got (been saving and searching 6 years) has 5 point harnesses in it, not the usual seat belt that sits between the breasts the shoulder straps tend to slip off wearing it. Just a minor annoyance I suppose, no greater than the damn bra itself anyway

Angelina

Sasha

OK now I understand. I only have a normal seat belt and I'm also rather small

EngineeringEmily

Sasha how is the 5 point affected by the thigh bands? My dads keep us a 5 point for off raiding but also the regular seat belts. I’m trying to picture why thigh bands would make the 5 point come off shoulders.

Sasha

Angelina The previous owner set this car up for some track use now and then. So it’s got the roll bar, 5 points, and all that in it.
Cars road legal and inspected, and looks that much cooler I think

Sasha

EngineeringEmily The thigh bands don’t affect it, the bra does though to a point. At least the ones in this car anyway.
For whatever reason the shoulder straps tend to slip one way or the other.

EngineeringEmily

Sasha that makes sense . Since we were in the thigh band thread I was confused

Angelina

Sasha

if only the bra has an effect, do you think you could drive with the bands (i.e. without the bra)?

Sasha We do have the connecting cables, but aren’t sure if they’re really needed. Still not quite done testing everything

simply test whether you can "pull off" the bra from your breasts up or down

Renita

Sasha just snug enough it won’t easily pull over my breasts

Do you have connecting between bra and belt just in case?

Sasha

Renita We do have the connecting cables, but aren’t sure if they’re really needed. Still not quite done testing everything

Renita

Sasha but aren’t sure if they’re really needed.

To make sure, that you can't pull up.

Sasha

Angelina In a car with an automatic gear box I can drive ok. It’s difficult driving manual though. Could manage but wasn’t great.
We have my bra adjusted to where it’s snug enough I can’t pull it up easily, so breathing and moving around is ok. Still not super comfortable but ok.
I think I’d have to hurt myself to pull it over though

Angelina

Sasha

i drive a manual car, so i better not risk it. the bra is uncomfortable no doubt, but you only wear it for a limited time and not permanently 😉

Sasha

Angelina I’m grateful they aren’t permanent or used for punishment. But yeah I don’t want to drive wearing them, was just a test to see if I could.
I’d say with a shorter chain no way to much restriction to drive safely

Angelina

Sasha

i hope for the future you can use these very restrictive devices to find a partner, so in your case it would even be a good sign if you spend a lot of time in bands and bra. 😃

Sasha

Angelina Honestly the restrictions with the longer chain length are irritating but manageable, and does exactly what was intended.
But yes I’d be very happy to spend a lot of time in them and find my match, figure he or she’s out there somewhere right?

bdsamm

Sasha I am sure there are a lot of young men (and women) in the US that would love to make the acquaintance of a young lady that wears a chastity belt and all the acessories very willingly and is happy with that.

That may cross over to some extent into the fetish world. Not that it is necessarily a fetish but just doesn't fit in other styles. Do not let the fetish world scare you. They are just people with interests that do not exactly fit in vanilla.

Angelina

Sasha But yes I’d be very happy to spend a lot of time in them and find my match, figure he or she’s out there somewhere right?

I see it similar to @Curious in many ways. The ideal partner would be someone who supports you and accepts your chastity, but wants you both to get to a point where these devices are no longer necessary.

curious

bdsamm
@Sasha
Be careful that whoever you meet is interested in YOU.
You would want to avoid those that reject you because of your belt and also those that want you primarily because of the belt. Both sides are not interested in you as a person but as a tool to their needs (sex or fetish) only.
Ideally a partner is accepting your belt but would not mind if it diappeared forever one day.

bdsamm

curious Excellent point but remember that applies to all skills, knowledge, etc. Always be sure th partner cares about the REAL you.

Sasha

curious Be careful that whoever you meet is interested in YOU.

This is exactly what I’m looking for. I’ve had countless experiences with people who want just sex, will pay for sex. They were meaningless, shallow and satisfying for the briefest of moments. That Sasha is dead, she’s not here anymore and I’m happy to have watched her leave.
This me is only interested in the meaningful relationship you speak of, someone who wants me, all of me.
To the point of the fetish community, I had some experience with that in the past. Not against it at all, but that’s hardly the defining factor.

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