Thighbands

Sasha

Roland I wear it as a triangle configuration for exactly that reason. It’s taken some adjustment when sitting down but I’m managing.
The point of the additional equipment is to eliminate any chance of me cheating my chastity with a date, which I’m entirely in favor of

Roland

I see. That's smart. When will be the best time to inform your date about your devices? Won't he notice soon enough because of unusual movings or noises?

Sasha

Roland I suppose if there’s a second date maybe then. But I’d probably wait till he/she brings it up and asks.
But it’s kind of an open secret I wear the belt so probably won’t seem to strange

Laura

Sasha goes on before the date

The same problem as with your mother. How would she know if you are about to go to the date?

Sasha

Laura There’s a great deal of trust between us. But aside from that I’m required to inform her beforehand, and my equipment will always be available for me with the locks open.
But I value your input, how would you have us utilize our equipment?

Laura

Sasha But I value your input, how would you have us utilize our equipment?

Belts(yours and hers) are always on, additional equipment is optional, but it's better to let her put it on you

Roland

Sasha If things are ready with open locks, that's a good idea. And mutual trust too. Maybe you could send your mother another photo when everything is put on

Sara

@Sasha You should try wearing the equipment out to dinner with your mom just to get a feel for what it will be like. How do you hide a Chastity Bra? And even if you could with heavy clothing, wouldn't you want to wear a cute top?

Sasha

Sara That’s the next step now that I’m used to it all, or mostly used to it anyway.
After that a friend that knows about me is going to take me on a simulated date.
As far as hiding things, since I got my belt I’ve been kind of a tomboy. No more tight or revealing clothes, low cut etc. so someone would have to hug or rub against me to notice the bra.
That being said, it’s pretty much an open secret about my belt and past. So once that’s explained it isn’t so weird. And if a date has an issue with it they aren’t for me anyway, take me as I am or leave. I’m not desperate for a relationship

Sara

Sasha I think it is really important to find someone who likes you for being you, but it's also fun to dress up and be treated special when you go out. I get wanting to avoid certain looks and not going crazy with make-up, but, there is still a middle ground. If nothing else, wearing a skirt with a frumpy top just seems weird.

I've only worn home made semi fake thigh bands, but I think they give you a sexy gait similar to wearing heels. That being said, if you are comfortable in heels and you have heels that give you good control, you might want to wear them to give people a visual indicator for why you are walking the way you are.

Good luck with your trial run!

Sasha

Sara I get wanting to dress up a bit, but it’s just not my thing anymore. Knee length skirts, loose tops just feels right to me.
Can still look cute though so it’s fun. I am comfortable in heels though, and have a few pairs. And would wear them on my dates, combat boots aren’t very cute in most looks lol.
Thank you for your good wishes

Angelina

Sasha

as far as outfits are concerned, you have a clear advantage with your style, you don't pretend. if you look like you would in everyday life, you can see if someone really likes you. 🙂

Bryan

EngineeringEmily Could you just wear the thighbands over your tights (assuming there isn't a crotch connection)?

Sara

Bryan ofc, or even better just wear them under the CB. No issues unless...

Maija

Bryan yes, it's possible! Even without taking the bands off, if you're careful. I'm not allowed to di it, however

Angelina

Bryan Could you just wear the thighbands over your tights (assuming there isn't a crotch connection)?

this is possible, have tested it once, but toilet visits are then very complicated

Bryan

Sara How can you wear tights under your belt? Wont that prevent you from pulling them down to use the bathroom?

Ines

@CutiedeTahlia you can use this thread.

CutiedeTahlia

So, the impression I get from them is that they're meant to stop you from being able to walk properly or such? I feel like that'd be way too impractical for any kind of long term wear, and it looks like it really limits what clothes you can wear. Am I just wrong on them, or are these actual problems and such - and if so, how do people address them?

Ines

CutiedeTahlia

Well, they need some training to get used, but, for example, I use them in home and they do not prevent anything that it is guessed I can do.
I use them with a chain and mostly only in home.

CutiedeTahlia

Ines what do they actually do?

Sasha

CutiedeTahlia Primary function is to prevent you spreading your legs.
Secondary function is if the chain is made short enough, or only a padlock is used they can be used to severely restrict your movement. But like I said this is a secondary function

Bryan

CutiedeTahlia As others highlight, the purpose of thighbands is not to interfere with walking (although that is a side-effect) but rather to prevent the legs from being spread enough to potentially get something underneath the shield. Several women here only wear them at night when movement isn't as important (and the opportunity to "cheat" is higher when alone in their beds at night)

Ines

They prevent you can separate your legs enough to be a vulnerability of the belt.

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