Sasha In some ways you are probably right it is a small step back, but in others it's an improvement.
I'm just trying to understand, like I said, as an adult you can of course wear whatever you want. My point is that until now I thought you saw the belt as protection to protect yourself from "wrong" behavior. If you take this logic, the more you develop into a "good woman", the more you would have to reduce your protection. If you now wear bands and bras much more often, it seems as if you are feeling worse again and need more protection. I hope that's not the case for you, but you understand what I mean, right?
Sasha Thank you for pointing that out, perhaps a different location is best. We will test and see what works best
Maybe stick it to the waistband with a seal
Sasha I know I should have and that was wrong of me, still working and growing
Is that perhaps the reason why you now wear the bra and the bands "permanently"? Do you want to stop yourself from attempting to cheat?