Thighbands

curious

Sasha
If you feel like more restriction, maybe have the bands attached to the crotch in a triangular chain Layout.
That way once you sit down, your legs will be pulled together. That adds a degree of modesty to your sitting position enforced by the bands you would not have otherwise while walking is not much different.
And of course security is enhanced as well.
I believe some wearers here can give you more experience on that part.

Sasha

curious We tried that configuration but it’s not practical for me, don’t want to get into specifics why.

Maija

Sasha would it be possible to contact you via e-mail? That way it is possible to talk about these topics more openly 🙂 @Laura can send you my e-mail

curious

Sasha We tried that configuration but it’s not practical for me, don’t want to get into specifics why.

Of course I respect your right to not share information.
However, please remember that a forum like this works best when people share their experiences, so that others can help and benefit, just as you might get some hints which maybe make things more practical for you.

Up to you.

Xander

Maija I'd love to talk about the subject in email if you'd like. My email is in my profile 😀

youdontknowme

Would be interesting to know what category the issue was in. Hygiene, concealability, mobility, attire etc.. That would give helpful information without getting too deep into details or personal matters. But I concur, it is her choice how much to reveal.

Sasha

youdontknowme actually none of the above, I know it might help someone down the road, but it’s not something I’m ready to share. But being vague, it’s a functionality problem

Angelina

youdontknowme I do feel it would be fair to punish her for not reporting an attempt as quickly as feasible, though. That could be construed as dishonesty.

it depends. if it was previously agreed that she must report every attempt, then failure to do so is of course a punishable offence. in general, however, i don't think the rule makes much sense

curious Why should a wearer accept the discomfort and daily inconvenience of being in a belt if the keyholder then does not ensure the objective is actually achieved?

right, if there is to be no room for orgasms, the key holder must ensure this

Sasha I know it might help someone down the road, but it’s not something I’m ready to share.

i also had this configuration for a while and my problem was always peeing against the chain when peeing. if that was the problem, you can say so openly 🙂

Maija

pestulens yes, we had this when I had an internship in a place where it was necessary for safety. But not anymore.

@Sasha if you have any updates, I will hear gladly!

youdontknowme

Angelina it depends. if it was previously agreed that she must report every attempt, then failure to do so is of course a punishable offence. in general, however, i don't think the rule makes much sense

I think it is a fairly reasonable compromise. Using the belt admits that cheating attempts are inevitable, and requiring confession under the rules discourages cheating, enables the keyholder to monitor the wearer's willpower in staying chaste and simultaneously avoids punishing the wearer for what is generally accepted as basic human instinct

Angelina

youdontknowme

Iagree with you, except that I don't share the rule itself, especially now that @Sasha wears the full equipment 24/7, it would be a miracle if she could stimulate herself at all, I think an orgasm is completely impossible and there is Nothing to "worry" about if she tries to cheat

youdontknowme

Angelina While that is true, her future path will hopefully have her gradually transition out of those restrictions before moving onto a sexually liberated life again, and it makes sense to build good habits for that transitional period early on, and diligent reporting on the chastity situation seems helpful for that.

Angelina

youdontknowme

i hope so too, i wonder if @Sasha and her mum have a plan on how to make this transition?

Sasha

Angelina It’s a fairly simple one actually. I agreed to keep the gear on till marriage and sex is off limits.
As for the rest though, think of it like a child growing up, as they get older they get more freedom and responsibility. I’ll gain that over things like the link chain and being able to have more me time.
I already have access to the bra and link keys if needed, which is a big step in itself.

Maija

Sasha have you made any decisions regarding the connecting chain length?

Angelina

Sasha I’ll gain that over things like the link chain and being able to have more me time.
I already have access to the bra and link keys if needed, which is a big step in itself.

the example is perhaps not really good because you have only recently added the bra and the bands as an additional measure

Sasha

Maija We are keeping the link as it is. Provides just enough restriction to effectively remind me that behavior is inappropriate and prevents it. But doesn’t cause me to much trouble in daily life

Spork

For those of you who have worn thigh bands, how much additional restriction are they if they aren't connected together with anything? Are the bands themselves cumbersome? Specifically, I'm wondering whether it would work to connect them together using a piece of string or something similar that could be cut intentionally but that wouldn't break accidentally.

Joh

Spork I'm wondering whether it would work to connect them together using a piece of string or something similar that could be cut intentionally but that wouldn't break accidentally.

Sure it is possible and already done. But it is depended on the wearer and which tool you have. It the wearer is caution it will not break a plastic security seal with unique number.. If you use a steel string a bolt cutters will open it.

Spork

Joh Sure it is possible and already done. But it is depended on the wearer and which tool you have. It the wearer is caution it will not break a plastic security seal with unique number.. If you use a steel string a bolt cutters will open it.

Right, so for us, we don't need inescapable, but we do need "easy to remove in an emergency", and "obvious if it's been tampered with". We're looking for devices that are secure enough to prevent secret cheating, or at least that make it risky enough that neither of us will try it for fear of the punishment if caught.

youdontknowme

How about a chain with a carabiner hook and a security seal that is slightly longer than the carabiner? The purpose of the hook being to avoid tension on the seal wire that prevents accidental ripping

Spork

youdontknowme How about a chain with a carabiner hook and a security seal that is slightly longer than the carabiner? The purpose of the hook being to avoid tension on the seal wire that prevents accidental ripping

I think my worry with that is how noisy it might be. Worth a try, though.

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