Thighbands

BikelockFugitive

Raziel @Laura 🙁
But.. but, i want to be right on this one.
Maaaaaaan, that sucks.

Angelina

yes i have talked to my father about it, he said he would slightly lengthen the chain in such situations, but i have to judge for myself how long the chain has to be, i also have to make a deal, if he lengthens the chain, i only have to wear the padlock for a week afterwards 🙁

swimming is possible with belt and maybe with bra, but you need a suitable swimsuit 😉 with tighbands it's definitely impossible. but i don't want camryn to give it up, she has to give up a lot in our relationship 🙁

@Sara2001

this is not a big challenge, if you don't know, you probably wouldn't think about it 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 Nobody cares.

Good;it could be hard to explain.

Angelina yes i have talked to my father about it, he said he would slightly lengthen the chain in such situations, but i have to judge for myself how long the chain has to be, i also have to make a deal, if he lengthens the chain, i only have to wear the padlock for a week afterwards 🙁

Good he would lengthen the chain if needed,but not fun it would be only for this date,not permanently,and the counterpart is hard!

Angelina swimming is possible with belt and maybe with bra, but you need a suitable swimsuit 😉 with tighbands it's definitely impossible. but i don't want camryn to give it up, she has to give up a lot in our relationship 🙁

I agree,thigh bands make it impossible(and swimsuit aren't the best clothes to hide our chastity belt and bra);and you're right,your girlfriend should not give it up,even if she's sweet to think about it.

Angelina this is not a big challenge, if you don't know, you probably wouldn't think about it 😉

Yes,I doubt people not wearing ones and not reading much about it would think quickly about thigh bands.

Sara2001

Vanessa I agree,thigh bands make it impossible(and swimsuit aren't the best clothes to hide our chastity belt and bra);and you're right,your girlfriend should not give it up,even if she's sweet to think about it.

I hope I will at least find a way to convince my father that I can have a longer chain during holiday, so we can walk around better. Maybe he can accept it when I wear the chastity bra. I think when I can spread my legs for 15 cm or so, walking should be much easier.

I am pretty sure that I will not be able to swim.

Angelina

Sara2001

you definitely can't swim with the tighbands, I am very sorry 🙁

how many centimeters do you have at the moment?

Vanessa

Sara2001

It would be better,sure.Using the chastity bra as an argument could work!

I don't think too you would be able to swim with thigh bands and chain...

Sara2001

Could the talk be easier to "win" if your boyfriend is present and side with you?

Sara2001

Angelina you definitely can't swim with the tighbands, I am very sorry 🙁

how many centimeters do you have at the moment?

I don't even think about swimming but a few more centimeters during holiday would make walking a lot easier so we could see more of the places we visit.

Currently the chain is 8 cm long, together with the padlock and the rings on the tightbands I can spread my legs round about 7 cm as a maximum (where the tightbands sit).

Angelina

Sara2001

this is a good idea, and a few centimeters more does not make the tighbands less safe 😉 good luck for the negotiations with your father

my chain is only 5 centimeters long, but definitely better than just the padlock 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Could the talk be easier to "win" if your boyfriend is present and side with you?

Daniel supports my idea. He will talk with my father without my presents. We/he decided that from now on this is how things should be between us and I think this is a good idea. For me he is now the person I have to convince first, but I think he has better chances at my father then I do, so it will be good for me. 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

i hope daniel can defend your interests with dignity, he seems to be something like your lawyer now 🙂 . i think you have a much better chance because your father trusts daniel a lot

Vanessa

Sara2001

I guessed too his opinion can be more taken into account by your father than your,even if you have the same arguments.I think it is more fair if you're included in the talk too,but I'm not suprised it is not how it works in your family.However,the results can be the same,and I hope it'll be allowed.

Angelina

As he doesn't like the thigh bands,I guess he'll do his best to make her have some more freedom during their holidays.😉

Sara2001

Angelina i hope daniel can defend your interests with dignity, he seems to be something like your lawyer now 🙂 . i think you have a much better chance because your father trusts daniel a lot

Yes, between my father and me this is a good description. I am sure he will fight well for my rights 🙂

Vanessa I hope it'll be allowed.

It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality).

Angelina

Sara2001 (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality).

exactly there i see the problem, i hope that daniel is very well aware of this responsibility

Vanessa

Sara2001 I am sure he will fight well for my rights 🙂

Good!🙂

Sara2001 It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality)

I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!😉

Angelina

I think,in such relationships,the two partners should talk a lot,and often,to avoid it,or solve it when it happens.

Sara2001

Angelina No one expects it to be that perfect. I just wanted to explain the idea behind it.

Angelina

Sara2001

but in my opinion it must be perfect for this system to work well

Sara2001

Angelina That's not necessary. Really is never perfect.

Angelina

Sara2001

and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

Sara2001

Angelina and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

As I said several times, the main concept of our relationship is making sure that the other one is happy. If I feel that this is no longer his goal, I will end the relationship. It's very easy.

Angelina

Sara2001 If I feel that this is no longer his goal,

I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

Sara2001

Angelina I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.

Sara2001

Vanessa I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!😉

Daniel will address this point when he knows better how the chastity bra is working and how long it is possible to wear it in a row.

His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

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