Thighbands

Angelina

i have not really got used to it until today and it is still the most restrictive part of my equipment. i have been wearing the tighbands for 8 months, and in this time i have learned to live my life with it

Sara2001

Angelina i have not really got used to it until today and it is still the most restrictive part of my equipment. i have been wearing the tighbands for 8 months, and in this time i have learned to live my life with it

Same for me and at least at night I wear them for years now. It's possible to accept their existence, but there is never a situation where I don't care about them.

Vanessa

Angelina and Sara2001

As for the chastity belt,I don't think it is possible to be used to it.

Natescage do you ever need help with things in daily life because of the thigh band's?

As far as I know,except some activities,we can do most of the things needed with thigh bands on,but it can be longer or harder.Never tried to go outside with it on,however.

Angelina

Sara2001 It's possible to accept their existence, but there is never a situation where I don't care about them.

exactly what I mean, unfortunately, I feel the tighbands very often in everyday life why it is worse for me than belts or bra

sun

I think so, but not completely

but the tighbands are (unfortunately) a good tool for my father to control me 🙁

sun

I have learnt that your keyholers were always changing the length of the chain between your thighbands.If they keep a certain length,will you get used to it?

Natescage

Angelina how supporting is your
School friends? If you have to walk slowly I hope they understand and stay with you. Your best friend ever try to help you?

Angelina

Natescage

my school friends do not know about my equipment, because i always walked very slowly, but there were no questions

my best friend does not go to my school but she supports me when we meet 🙂

Natescage

Angelina do you ever need help with things in daily life because of the thigh band's? Key holders have lots of power and responsibilities so if you need help because of the bands that would be his job to do.

Angelina

Natescage do you ever need help with things in daily life because of the thigh band's?

rarely except sometimes on high stairs, but I take care myself that I do not have to use them

Vanessa As for the chastity belt,I don't think it is possible to be used to it.

it's not, but it gets better over time

Sara2001 That's the case. There are only a very few things I am totally unable to do, like climbing or running and things like that. I think driving a car would be impossible, too but I am not allowed to have a driver's license anyway.

it's not, but it gets better over time

that's it, i can do almost everything but it takes longer. driving could be difficult but at the latest after my wedding i will get my driver's license and i can't understand why you are not allowed to get one

Natescage

Vanessa so you ask for them to be unlocked to go out? That is a lot of restrictions. Don't @Sara2001 and @Angelina have to go out with them on so it really limits how long things take then doesn't it get in the way of working and stuff like that? I guess some parents don't accept that argument...Does seam very hard. Hopefully for some people that would change when you move out.

Sara2001

Vanessa As far as I know,except some activities,we can do most of the things needed with thigh bands on,but it can be longer or harder.Never tried to go outside with it on,however.

That's the case. There are only a very few things I am totally unable to do, like climbing or running and things like that. I think driving a car would be impossible, too but I am not allowed to have a driver's license anyway.

Natescage doesn't it get in the way of working and stuff like that?

I wear them 24/7, I need much longer to go to work because I can only walk slowly. My job is on a desk, so this is not really an incident.

Natescage Hopefully for some people that would change when you move out.

After marriage I will get rid of the tightbands and only the chastity belt and chastity bra will stay in place.

Vanessa

Natescage

I generally had these on way less often.Only if I don't work,and if I've no appointment for work during the day.I can ask to not wear these if I've a planned meeting with my friends;but it is not always allowed.And I don't have to wear these when I'm not home alone for more than one hour,or during nights.

I sometimes have to wear it permanently when I'm punished(day and night)for a few days(but not for work/appointment for it).

Until now,I managed to never go out with these on.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I am not allowed to have a driver's license anyway.

For now,or definitively?

Angelina it's not, but it gets better over time

I guess the more we have to wear these,the more we know how to not be too restrained,and what should be avoided(like high stairs).

Sara2001

It could be useful,however.If your husband feel ill,you can drive him home;if he want you to take care of the household,it would be easier for you to go to the shop,etc...

It can be useful even for him and your relationship.Maybe you could decide you had to get his permission,and tell him the reason why you want to use it,before you're allowed to use the car...

Natescage

Angelina she's probably not allowed to get one because her situation wants women to be submissive, and needing ride to get places is a form of reliance on others.

Sara2001

Natescage Angelina she's probably not allowed to get one because her situation wants women to be submissive, and needing ride to get places is a form of reliance on others

Basically that's the case.

sun

Sara2001
If your boyfriend order you to do something you don't like,will you refuse?
Do you think you are born to be a submissive girl?

Angelina

Sara2001

But daniel would also have advantages 😉

sun When you boyfriend insisted on the using of the chastity bra,although you didn't say anything,did you feel angry or upset in your heart?

sara has agreed to this

@Sara2001

i have a question
is it possible that you love daniel because he is very similar to your father and you feel a certain dependence on your current lifestyle and don't want to change it?

Michael_K

sun It will more look like carrying out an order, not a submission.

Sara2001

sun If your boyfriend order you to do something you don't like,will you refuse?

Yes, that how we organised our relationship.

sun Do you think you are born to be a submissive girl?

I am not sure, at least it's how I have been raised, but it was never my plan to become a submissive wife or girlfriend. I just gave it a try.

sun

Michael_K
Maybe I made a wrong translation.In our dictionary,submissive means:"too willing to accept sb else's authority and willing to obey them without questioning anything they want you to do".

sun

Sara2001

Yes, that how we organised our relationship.

When you boyfriend insisted on the using of the chastity bra,although you didn't say anything,did you feel angry or upset in your heart?

Sara2001

sun When you boyfriend insisted on the using of the chastity bra,although you didn't say anything,did you feel angry or upset in your heart?

I wear a chastity belt for years now. He just asked in the very beginning if it is okay for me to continue wearing after marriage. So this was not an order. Of course I thought a lot about it but at the end I gave it a try. Now I am very happy with my situation.

Angelina But daniel would also have advantages 😉

Of course 🙂

Angelina is it possible that you love daniel because he is very similar to your father and you feel a certain dependence on your current lifestyle and don't want to change it?

I don't think he is very similar to my father. His way of leading is very different then my fathers way. We discuss a lot more and he gives me the feeling that my opinion has a much bigger impact. It's difficult to explain but I don't think so. But I can say I obviously like to not be in charge.

Vanessa For now,or definitively?

Definitely. Daniel doesn't want me to drive, too.

Vanessa It could be useful,however.If your husband feel ill,you can drive him home;if he want you to take care of the household,it would be easier for you to go to the shop,etc...

Yes, but it also gives me a lot of independence. He doesn't think it is necessary. We will normally shop together, so he csn make sure I don't buy things that I am not allowed to. If he is ill, I will have to walk or his father, my brother or the husband of his sister can drive me. For me it is not really a big thing.

sun Are you able to ride a bicycle or motorcycle with thighbands

Absolutely not.

sun

Angelina

sara has agreed to this
I think I'm wrong to attempt to know my wife's thought throught sara.Every women is different.

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