Thighbands

Natescage

Sara2001 what did your mother do your dad was drinking how did she get him home? I would assume a taxi or Uber or something like this.

Sara2001

Natescage Sara2001 what did your mother do your dad was drinking how did she get him home? I would assume a taxi or Uber or something like this.

My dad normally just don't drink alcohol when we are outside or we stay at this place over night. But this happend only 3 times in the last 15-16 years (when I remember correctly).

Laura

Ines Can girls (standard ones) carry them without wear bands?

Better to ask @Megan 😂

Angelina

sun

@Sara2001 will probably not wear tighbands after the wedding

Sara2001

maybe you could suggest him that you can get your driver's license but not be allowed to drive without his permission and not have your own car

a driver's license doesn't always mean that you drive.

Natescage

Angelina I thought you would not want to wear the belt at all, since theigh bands connect to the belt I think it's impossible to wear the. Without the belt on.

Vanessa

sun Every women is different.

Right.

Sara2001 We discuss a lot more and he gives me the feeling that my opinion has a much bigger impact.

Better this way.

Sara2001 Yes, but it also gives me a lot of independence. He doesn't think it is necessary.

Even if you must have his permission before using the car?

Sara2001 I accept that I will not be allowed to make it.

Anyway,I guess if he notices it would be easier for both of you,he may change his mind,right?

Natescage alcohol is still a posion and a drug and it can cause a lot of problems Ina relationship.

Drinking a bit is not a big problem,but not every day,and not enough to be drunk.I've seen an article(or a spot in TV,I don't remember)not too long ago about it.

Ines

Do you plan to drive later?

Angelina maybe you could suggest him that you can get your driver's license but not be allowed to drive without his permission and not have your own car

I think it is a good compromise,too.

Sara2001 After my wedding it's no longer my father who decides about my equipment and he thinks that chastity belt and chastity bra is enough.

Including during the night?

Angelina

Natescage

I meant that Sara won't be wearing tighbands anymore

i will be completely free after the wedding 🙂

Natescage

@Sara2001 are you doing no thigh bands after the wedding because your mother does not wear them but your father felt you and your sister should wear them?

Sara2001

Natescage @Sara2001 are you doing no thigh bands after the wedding because your mother does not wear them but your father felt you and your sister should wear them?

All women in my family wear tightbands from dinner to 6 am with just a padlock, but my mother don't have to wear tightbands during the day while my sister and me have to wear them with a chain because my father thinks we need this additional restrictions to ensure we don't stimulate ourselves, especially since we have boyfriends.

After my wedding it's no longer my father who decides about my equipment and he thinks that chastity belt and chastity bra is enough.

Angelina

Sara2001

good that daniel is a bit more lenient at least in this point 😉

sun

Sara2001
There are three women all wearing chastity belt,thinghband and chastity bra.You can help each other and you have a common topic in conversation.It must be useful to bring your family more closely together.I admire your father for his leadership.

Sara2001

Vanessa Even if you must have his permission before using the car?

Yes, there is still a big difference if I am not able to or if I am not allowed to do something.

Vanessa Anyway,I guess if he notices it would be easier for both of you,he may change his mind,right?

Most probably but I think not very likely.

Vanessa Including during the night?

Yes, 24/7 except for playing.

Ines

Vanessa Do you plan to drive later?

Oh, rats! 😂😂😂 Idiomatic barriers!
I was thinking in literally "carry" a man! 😂😂😂😂
I was not thinking in drive a car.
And yes, of course, I think that can drive is essential nowadays for everyone.

Angelina

Sara2001 Yes, there is still a big difference if I am not able to or if I am not allowed to do something.

but you do follow his rules? so I see no reason to rule it out completely

in short i don't really understand his motivation behind it

Ines And yes, of course, I think that can drive is essential nowadays for everyone.

maybe not indispensable but a very big advantage 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, there is still a big difference if I am not able to or if I am not allowed to do something.

I may understand it,yes.

Sara2001 Most probably but I think not very likely.

Let's hope it'll happen,anyway!😉

Sara2001 Yes, 24/7 except for playing.

Good you won't have the thigh bands at night either,not good for the chastity bra...

Ines

I understood,but I was curious about your choice of getting a driver's licence or not.😉

I agree it is important nowadays.Even if I still don't have a driver's licence(but it is planned).

Sara2001 I think it is not worth fighting for it.

The more topics you fight for,the less chance you have to win?

Laura

😉

Sara2001

In France,it is mainly ok too.

Angelina

Not the best,but possible.

Natescage your Dan might be willing to remove them or add a longer chain to let you drive. It's worth asking.

Yes,he may understand her and adapt it.

Sara2001

Angelina but you do follow his rules? so I see no reason to rule it out completely

For me this is a "Choose your battle" topic. I think it is not worth fighting for it.

Angelina

Sara2001

Well, if you're okay with it and you can live with it, it's fine.

what would happen if daniel changed his mind at a later date ? would you get a driver's license ?

Sara2001

Angelina what would happen if daniel changed his mind at a later date ? would you get a driver's license ?

Not sure, why not. Maybe.

Angelina

Sara2001

I think daniel will eventually
see the advantages 😉

Natescage

Angelina accept Sara's mother has been fine with not driving and she took care of three kids lol. It probably is not nesacary in many parts of Europe today to drive.

Laura

Natescage It probably is not nesacary in many parts of Europe today to drive.

So, the US girls are not supposed to wear thighbands. Makes sense 😂

Angelina

Natescage

everybody is different and everybody needs different things to be successful and happy 🙂

Sara2001 I think at least it is a lot easier. Even in many small villages with <1000 citizens there is a bus station with a bus any hour to the next city or even a train station with trains every 30 to 60 minutes.

you find our system easy?

i find it more than difficult especially when i think about my way to school

my dad drives me to school and takes me about 15 minutes. by bus it would take me 45 minutes. with 2 rides it saves me one hour a day.

the same is true for the way to camryn. by car it is 20 minutes while I would need an hour by bus and train

I don't know about you, but I'd rather use my time more wisely than sitting on the bus and train

Sara2001

Laura I think at least it is a lot easier. Even in many small villages with <1000 citizens there is a bus station with a bus any hour to the next city or even a train station with trains every 30 to 60 minutes.

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