Thighbands

Sara2001

Vanessa It worked?

At least there where no further questions and I didn't feel that I was watched more afterwards.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Good idea,so.

Angelina now i do not know if i should be "satisfied" with the position of my thigh bands 😂

🤣

Angelina your parents ordered the bands, so there should be a connection chain, what happened to it ?

Probably stored in a closet or similar.

Angelina why do your parents insist on only padlocks ?

They probably think it is more effective this way...And more restraining if used as a punishment.

Angelina hmm but I think it is possible

Risked if you're not sure.

Tobbe

Not surprising! 😉

Angelina

Me too! 😉

Angelina

It would be better,yes.

Angelina

Tobbe

now i do not know if i should be "satisfied" with the position of my thigh bands 😂

Vanessa I agree.Very restrictive...

luckily i could change that 🙂 quick question: your parents ordered the bands, so there should be a connection chain, what happened to it ? and why do your parents insist on only padlocks ?

Vanessa And you could be in big troubles if you can't put these back...

hmm but I think it is possible

Tobbe

Angelina now i do not know if i should be "satisfied" with the position of my thigh bands

If you can not remove them without opening the locks, I'm happy. 😂

Angelina

Tobbe I'm happy. 😂

I see it a little bit differently 😂

HHelen

Tobbe Lower position make it harder with same length of chain.

Can they be slid up without opening?

Tobbe If you can not remove them without opening the locks, I'm happy.

That's also my expectation.

Renita

Tobbe You can try on yourself!

I would never wear tightbands, but it would be nice to know for parents here.

Tobbe

HHelen Can they be slid up without opening?

Depend on the thighs. If they are very small and same size higher up, the bands can slid up.
But usually the thighs are wider the higher up you measure.

Angelina

HHelen That's also my expectation.

did you order tighbands ? I thought you decided against it

HHelen

Angelina did you order tighbands ?

Not yet, but thinking.

Angelina

HHelen

have you talked to your daughter about it in the meantime? i would like to know what she thinks about it

HHelen

Angelina have you talked to your daughter about it in the meantime?

No, I don't want to scary her yet.

Angelina

Vanessa Probably stored in a closet or similar.

it should be taken out urgently. especially since you work a lot from home now I would insist on at least a few centimetres more

Vanessa And more restraining if used as a punishment.

but it is currently used not only as a punishment

Vanessa Risked if you're not sure.

I meant this in general, with me it is not possible anyway

Sara2001

yes i have, there are good and bad days, but i think that is quite normal.

for me it is currently so that i hate but can accept the equipment about 80% of the days and on 20% of the days i just want to be free. a year ago it was 50 50 so it has got better.

i hope you feel better soon. talk to daniel about it, he will have to get used to such days 🙂

Sara2001

Do you have these days where you hate your equipment much more than on average days, too? Today I feel so imprisoned and limited. I sooo want to get out of everything.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Of course,I think it is a normal feeling.Never pleasant,but,some days,we feel it worse.

Angelina it should be taken out urgently. especially since you work a lot from home now I would insist on at least a few centimetres more

I can talk to them,but they probably won't think it is needed,especially as I stay at home when I wear these.

Angelina but it is currently used not only as a punishment

Right,it is mainly used when alone at home during the day.

HHelen

It would be better to let her know before you order it.

Sara2001

Too bad you wouldn't get a longer chain!🙁

Sara2001 Something like hiking sounds impossible to me.

You may not do hiking but a romantic walk together.Not perfect,but better than nothing.

Sara2001

Visiting cities can be good,but I agree,we don't know well how bars,cinema and such would work...Same in France,by the way.

Sara2001

Angelina i hope you feel better soon. talk to daniel about it, he will have to get used to such days

Yes, he definitely has to deal with it. I would say 80/20 is close to how I feel, but sometimes there are days where I really, really hate it. We currently plan a holiday in November and it looks like there is almost nothing we can do because of my equipment. My father decided that I will not get a longer chain for holiday. He thinks as our relationship became more strict, this is no longer necessary 🙁

Angelina

HHelen No, I don't want to scary her yet.

you should at least do it before you order

Sara2001

yes I understand you and I would like to help you so much, but I think that is not really possible 🙁 but I hope that it will be better soon.

if you are planning a holiday you should adapt it to your equipment. what are you planning and what activities would your equipment prevent you from doing? maybe i know some alternatives 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina what are you planning and what activities would your equipment prevent you from doing? maybe i know some alternatives

We plan to do something in Germany. Crossing a border looks like a to big risk for us these times. Im November the weather will be not very good. I have to wear my full equipment all the time. We can do a city trip or hire a house very countryside, we are more or less free im what we choose. I really don't see what I can do, except sitting in the room or walking very slow with him. Something like hiking sounds impossible to me.

Angelina

Sara2001

hmm, i hope there won't be any problems in october, i'm going to austria with camryn and my dad. but i think it's really interesting that you talk about hiking, because we are going to the mountains we will hike a lot and my dad wants to adjust the rules with the tighbands.

i understand that it is a bit more difficult for you because your father is not with you. what does daniel say about this ? does he have any ideas how to adapt your equipment to the activities during your holidays ? maybe there is some kind of deal you can make with your father (if the chain length is extended then....)

Otherwise you should adapt it to activities where you don't have to run a lot, but I think that can be difficult

Sara2001

Angelina maybe there is some kind of deal you can make with your father (if the chain length is extended then....)

Otherwise you should adapt it to activities where you don't have to run a lot, but I think that can be difficult

Yes, that's what I meant. It doesn't look like the chain length will be adjusted for the trip. I don't really have a good idea. To be honest, my only real idea is visiting cities and walking slowly thru them. But it will most probably be bad weather in November and because of Covid 19 it can be difficult to do indoor things like cinema, bar or even museum without reservation.

Angelina

Sara2001

well, at least where i live, you can do many things without a reservation. i already did some activities myself like cinema, bar etc. it wasn't as much fun as usual (because of all the rules) but my equipment didn't bother me.

and yes i think you can also do city trips at a slow pace, then daniel just has to adjust your pace. if he takes good care of you, it should not be a problem during your holidays. anyway, he has to think about how he can arrange such activities for you later on

The weather is of course a matter of luck, but you could for example visit museums

Sara2001

Angelina anyway, he has to think about how he can arrange such activities for you later on

The weather is of course a matter of luck, but you could for example visit museums

When we are married and he can supervise me all the time, he will remove the chain if necessary. I told him how it was handed for you when you went on holiday one or two years ago and he liked the modus you had for hiking and city tours. Sadly he didn't had the same feeling for visiting the beach. I will always have to wear belt, bra and tightbands, but without a chain or with a longer chain if we want to walk a lot and he can supervise me all the time.

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