Thighbands

Sara2001

Saintprudence Is it worth voluntarily taking on this additional burden because it will make your spouse happy?

For me the answer is not so easy to give. At first I have to say that I really, really hate how much they limit me 24/7. I don't think it is possible to ever get used to them. They are very difficult to wear 24/7 for good. This is bad for your day to day life and will be a very massive limitation but on the other side, doing this and accepting this forever to please your partner is definitely one of the best feelings I know, but I think this will only be the case when you can be sure that tightbands are really important for your partner. You should not offer this if your partner doesn't ask you, you must expect that you will hate it, before you make a final decision, you should have a training period, where it is ok to change your mind based on new information. But if all this is okay for you, I can say yes, I can suggest it.

Angelina tomorrow we will talk about the rules for our holidays and also make a plan

I am very curious to read them. I expect it will be similar for us.

Angelina but i think it's good if you at least plan the activities in advance. so you have a good overview of what's possible 🙂

Basically I only see what we have already talked about 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 I am very curious to read them. I expect it will be similar for us.

we had to postpone it to tomorrow, because my father has to work today (exceptionally on saturday). i will write tomorrow 🙂

Sara2001 Basically I only see what we have already talked about 🙂

well, your boyfriend has the task to make you happy, so he should come up with some ideas 🙂

Saintprudence

Sara2001 thank you for your insights. You have a lot of the same concerns I do. My partner has not asked me to wear them, not yet, but she has asked if I would request them myself. She wants me to volunteer to be thighbanded, so that it’s ultimately my decision. But she does want me in them. I’m taking my time on this and leaning hard towards a trial period to see what works. But the fact that thigh bands would make her happy is a powerful motivator.

Sara2001

Angelina well, your boyfriend has the task to make you happy, so he should come up with some ideas

Of course he will and he had the same questions then me 😂

Angelina

Sara2001

a short update we have talked about the rules for the holidays. we have set a schedule for the 5 days.

regarding the tighbands the following rules. i have to wear the tighbands whenever i'm alone with camryn. we will also have time for two outside of our hut, which means that if we want to hike together etc. i have to wear the tighbands. so i'll write you soon if it works.
if my father is with us and the three of us go on trips, i don't have to wear the tighbands 🙂

and i got a little bonus. on the 12th of october (the first day of our holidays) i will be freed from the chastity bra because camryn and i have our first anniversary (first date) 😃

i hope that you have also a good plan for your holidays 🙂

Verrouille

Saintprudence How use are the thighbands for a male wearer?

Sara2001

Angelina if my father is with us and the three of us go on trips, i don't have to wear the tighbands

That sounds really good. Looks like your father is much more relaxed about it now. I am really happy for you.

Angelina i will be freed from the chastity bra because camryn and i have our first anniversary

That's even better. Do you know for how long?

Vanessa

Sara2001

Even if it would be hard for the beach,it would still be better,generally.

Tobbe The belt will be safe enough and you both can have a better holiday.

I agree.

Angelina but it makes a big difference if you just spend your free time at home or also work there 😉

Sure,but not much about thigh bands.

HHelen

Why?

Angelina

Good compromise,I think.Not perfect,but not too bad and understandable.

Very good the gift you have for your first anniversary with your girlfriend!

Angelina well we will leave on monday morning, the bra will be removed after getting up and only put back on before going to sleep, so the whole day 😃

First time you're free of it so long,since you started to have to wear it,right?And with your girlfriend,it would be very pleasant for both of you(it can easily make you very frustrated,too).

Angelina nevertheless it is of course better if your boyfriend has the key instead of your father 🙂

I think so,too.

Angelina i hope so, i will talk with him soon (in a month or two) and try to convince him to get away from permanent wearing. i don't think i will be completely free from the tighbands but i hope to at least reduce the time 🙂

He may not agree at the first talk about it,but it is good to discuss it.But take care to accept his decision,even if he doesn't want to change the rules,to be able to talk about it again later.

Angelina

Sara2001 That sounds really good. Looks like your father is much more relaxed about it now. I am really happy for you.

well, it's similar to the rules that i don't have to wear the tighbands when my father can watch me. the only thing new for the holidays is that this rule now also applies when camryn is with me 🙂

Sara2001 Do you know for how long?

well we will leave on monday morning, the bra will be removed after getting up and only put back on before going to sleep, so the whole day 😃

Sara2001

Angelina well we will leave on monday morning, the bra will be removed after getting up and only put back on before going to sleep, so the whole day 😃

Wow, that's great, I expected 30 minutes or something like that. I hope you will have a lot of unsupervised time together, so you can use your freedom.

I think I will not be out of my chastity bra for more then an hour in the foreseeable future.

Angelina well, it's similar to the rules that i don't have to wear the tighbands when my father can watch me. the only thing new for the holidays is that this rule now also applies when camryn is with me 🙂

He is really more relaxed now. I think deep inside he may understood that they are not necessary for your chastity. I am pretty sure, that I will never get that much freedom.

Angelina

Sara2001 Wow, that's great, I expected 30 minutes or something like that. I hope you will have a lot of unsupervised time together, so you can use your freedom.

I hope so too, it is his present for our anniversary 🙂

Sara2001 I think I will not be out of my chastity bra for more then an hour in the foreseeable future.

nevertheless it is of course better if your boyfriend has the key instead of your father 🙂

Sara2001 I think deep inside he may understood that they are not necessary for your chastity.

i hope so, i will talk with him soon (in a month or two) and try to convince him to get away from permanent wearing. i don't think i will be completely free from the tighbands but i hope to at least reduce the time 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa Even if it would be hard for the beach,it would still be better,generally.

Yes, I am really looking forward to the day when I can walk a few hours without the chain. I don't think that I will ever swim again in the ocean in the foreseeable future, this would require a hidden and private beach.

Vanessa it can easily make you very frustrated,too

I am very sure it will 🙂

Vanessa I think so,too.

Definitely, but I have to wait until marriage for this.

Angelina

Vanessa Sure,but not much about thigh bands.

i think if you are a little more stressed because you work at home than when you are off, you should feel less restricted. also, you are more likely to be busy working than in your free time where you are more likely to try to masturbate

Vanessa Not perfect,but not too bad and understandable.

that's true, but i always say small steps 😉 but i am definitely working on my goal marrying without thighbands 😉

Vanessa First time you're free of it so long,since you started to have to wear it,right?

yes, the first time longer than 30 minutes 😃

Vanessa He may not agree at the first talk about it,but it is good to discuss it.But take care to accept his decision,even if he doesn't want to change the rules,to be able to talk about it again later.

i will try to find a compromise, maybe that at least i don't have to wear the thighbands to school anymore

Sara2001 I don't think that I will ever swim again in the ocean in the foreseeable future, this would require a hidden and private beach.

when i was in fuerteventura last year, i saw some of these beaches 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa Why?

Thighbands are too extreme and could be used for punishment only.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't think that I will ever swim again in the ocean in the foreseeable future, this would require a hidden and private beach.

Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

Angelina i think if you are a little more stressed because you work at home than when you are off, you should feel less restricted. also, you are more likely to be busy working than in your free time where you are more likely to try to masturbate

I agree,but my parents haven't the same opinion.And,to be honest,it happens I've some free time,and I often end my work before they come home.

Angelina that's true, but i always say small steps 😉

Good decision,especially if it works well.

Angelina i will try to find a compromise

Let's hope you would manage it soon!🙂

HHelen

As it was the case for me at first.I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

Sara2001 Owning a pool would be great, but it will take a while until any trees are big enough to hide your garden from unwanted viewers 🙂

You can use a fence.

Sara2001

Angelina when i was in fuerteventura last year, i saw some of these beaches

When you have seen them, others can see them, too. Are they hidden enough to swim there in your full equipment? How would it be possible to shower yourself afterwards to get rid of the salt? I would love to spend time on one of these beaches, but I think it is not very likely. 🙁

Angelina

HHelen

they are extremely restrictive, but can also be worn permanently, but i will be quiet now, not that i am still advertising thighbands 😂

Sara2001

i think they are at least hidden enough that people don't care how you swim there or lie in the sun, at least i don't think you'll be speak on.

i did not shower on the beach but in the hotel

PS: maybe later i will own a house with a pool, then you and daniel can come for swimming 😂

Tim

Sara2001 I've "seen" private beaches here in North America where all you can see is the fence, the sign warning away trespassers, and a road vanishing into the trees. Maybe there are some freshwater private beaches on lakes for rent?

Sara2001

Tim I've "seen" private beaches here in North America where all you can see is the fence, the sign warning away trespassers, and a road vanishing into the trees. Maybe there are some freshwater private beaches on lakes for rent?

The question is how expensive this would be. Sadly the easier solution is to deny my to go swimming.

Angelina PS: maybe later i will own a house with a pool, then you and daniel can come for swimming

Owning a pool would be great, but it will take a while until any trees are big enough to hide your garden from unwanted viewers 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 Sadly the easier solution is to deny my to go swimming.

or to get rid of your equipment for swimming. you two do it together anyway, he can watch you anyway, so why the equipment?

Sara2001 Owning a pool would be great, but it will take a while until any trees are big enough to hide your garden from unwanted viewers 🙂

i rather dream of an indoor pool in the basement, but i am afraid that might be too expensive 😂

Sara2001

Angelina or to get rid of your equipment for swimming. you two do it together anyway, he can watch you anyway, so why the equipment?

Removing the belt for comfort is not common in his or my family and Daniel agrees with this point of view. He doesn't want any discussion about situations where this or that part of my equipment can, should or has to be removed at all. He says he may decide to remove the chain between my tightbands or use a longer chain when he thinks it's necessary, but nothing else will ever be removed and I am not even allow to ask for the chain. It's something I have to accept. My equipment will only be removed if it is absolutely inevitable and once a week for cleaning.

Angelina i rather dream of an indoor pool in the basement, but i am afraid that might be too expensive

That's very expensive. Heating needs a lot of energy.

Vanessa Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

I am not sure if this would hide tightbands and bra. When I remember correctly, she only had to wear her chastity belt.

Sara2001

Vanessa You can use a fence

Not when your neighbors house has more then one floor.

Angelina

Vanessa Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

uhm but not with thighbands

Vanessa And,to be honest,it happens I've some free time,and I often end my work before they come home.

but less free time than on completely free days 😉

Vanessa .I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

we do too much advertising 😂

Sara2001

this is a pity and unnecessary, things are made more difficult for you than they should be for the goal (no forbidden sex, no forbidden masturbation)

Sara2001 That's very expensive. Heating needs a lot of energy.

like i said, it's just a dream, i would have to earn more than my father does now and that will be unlikely in the next 25 years

Sara2001 When I remember correctly, she only had to wear her chastity belt.

the belt and the bra and yes both are well covered, but unfortunately the thighbands are not. so i would like to change the rules, because i would like to go swimming with camryn without my father seeing us (or rather me)

HHelen

Vanessa I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

How did your parents explain to you?

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