Thighbands

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't think that I will ever swim again in the ocean in the foreseeable future, this would require a hidden and private beach.

Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

Angelina i think if you are a little more stressed because you work at home than when you are off, you should feel less restricted. also, you are more likely to be busy working than in your free time where you are more likely to try to masturbate

I agree,but my parents haven't the same opinion.And,to be honest,it happens I've some free time,and I often end my work before they come home.

Angelina that's true, but i always say small steps 😉

Good decision,especially if it works well.

Angelina i will try to find a compromise

Let's hope you would manage it soon!🙂

HHelen

As it was the case for me at first.I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

Sara2001 Owning a pool would be great, but it will take a while until any trees are big enough to hide your garden from unwanted viewers 🙂

You can use a fence.

Sara2001

Angelina or to get rid of your equipment for swimming. you two do it together anyway, he can watch you anyway, so why the equipment?

Removing the belt for comfort is not common in his or my family and Daniel agrees with this point of view. He doesn't want any discussion about situations where this or that part of my equipment can, should or has to be removed at all. He says he may decide to remove the chain between my tightbands or use a longer chain when he thinks it's necessary, but nothing else will ever be removed and I am not even allow to ask for the chain. It's something I have to accept. My equipment will only be removed if it is absolutely inevitable and once a week for cleaning.

Angelina i rather dream of an indoor pool in the basement, but i am afraid that might be too expensive

That's very expensive. Heating needs a lot of energy.

Vanessa Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

I am not sure if this would hide tightbands and bra. When I remember correctly, she only had to wear her chastity belt.

Sara2001

Vanessa You can use a fence

Not when your neighbors house has more then one floor.

Angelina

Vanessa Not possible with special swimsuit,like the one @Angelina wears at the beach?

uhm but not with thighbands

Vanessa And,to be honest,it happens I've some free time,and I often end my work before they come home.

but less free time than on completely free days 😉

Vanessa .I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

we do too much advertising 😂

Sara2001

this is a pity and unnecessary, things are made more difficult for you than they should be for the goal (no forbidden sex, no forbidden masturbation)

Sara2001 That's very expensive. Heating needs a lot of energy.

like i said, it's just a dream, i would have to earn more than my father does now and that will be unlikely in the next 25 years

Sara2001 When I remember correctly, she only had to wear her chastity belt.

the belt and the bra and yes both are well covered, but unfortunately the thighbands are not. so i would like to change the rules, because i would like to go swimming with camryn without my father seeing us (or rather me)

HHelen

Vanessa I've to say it is an effective punishment,and so,a good deterrent...

How did your parents explain to you?

Vanessa

Sara2001 Removing the belt for comfort

It is not much for comfort,but to make some activities possible.And doing sports,like swimming,is an healthy activity.

Sara2001 I am not sure if this would hide tightbands and bra. When I remember correctly, she only had to wear her chastity belt.

Not very useful for you,so...

Sara2001

Right.

Angelina but less free time than on completely free days 😉

Sure.

Angelina we do too much advertising 😂

I thinks so,too,and I hesitated to tell it was effective.😉

Angelina the belt and the bra and yes both are well covered, but unfortunately the thighbands are not. so i would like to change the rules, because i would like to go swimming with camryn without my father seeing us (or rather me)

So,it won't help @Sara2001 to wear it...Do you think you have good chances to change the rule,at least for swimming/walking on the beach?

Sara2001 And no forbidden physical, sexual stimulation at all, even if it doesn't lead to an orgasm.

And if he supervises you?He could be sure you don't stimulate yourself.

HHelen How did your parents explain to you?

Explain what?

It was often used if I sneak out,at first,and the thigh bands would prevent it,or make it not very interesting.It was used too as a reminder to follow my curfew when I was late.

alberto i think they are too restrictive, but they can be very effective increasing safety agaist touching

Right and right.

alberto i am concerned of skin problems with hot weather my wife thinks it will be manageable as my daughter belt will be removed at home

It can't be used without chastity belt,so no belt would means no thigh bands too.

Ines Talk it carefully, even is better talk about a more strict regime, and when belt arrives be less strict in the usage.

I agree.

Tim

Good idea.

Tim

Sara2001 Not when your neighbors house has more then one floor.

Maybe you could get one of those tent-like roofs for the pool. Some are clear, but some are white.

Sara2001

Angelina no forbidden sex, no forbidden masturbation

And no forbidden physical, sexual stimulation at all, even if it doesn't lead to an orgasm.

Angelina the belt and the bra and yes both are well covered, but unfortunately the thighbands are not. so i would like to change the rules, because i would like to go swimming with camryn without my father seeing us (or rather me)

I hope he will allow you this, my father and Daniel would definitely see it as a to big risk.

Angelina

Sara2001 And no forbidden physical, sexual stimulation at all, even if it doesn't lead to an orgasm.

i admit this can be difficult, but not impossible. i think there might be other ways to ensure this, but i can't think of any right now, but i will think about it and maybe have some ideas 😉

Sara2001 my father and Daniel would definitely see it as a to big risk.

in a public swimming pool? i don't think there is much risk

I think the risk of someone seeing your equipment is much higher

Sara2001

Angelina in a public swimming pool? i don't think there is much risk

I think the risk of someone seeing your equipment is much higher

But you have to wear this equipment, except of the tightbands in the pool, too. So the risk of being caught under a wet swimwear is very high. I think it also depends a lot on the pools. Many pools are designed to sit in the water. I see many cuddling couples in pools (while I sit in the hotel room).

Angelina

Sara2001

oh, another misunderstanding, i thought it was about the risk of sexual stimulation

yes it is a high risk, so i always try to find a corner where there are not many people so that my equipment cannot be seen. besides, there is still a difference between seeing and identifying. even if people could see my equipment, they probably won't think of chastity devices

Sara2001

Angelina oh, another misunderstanding, i thought it was about the risk of sexual stimulation

From my point of view it's a combination of both. I don't want to be seen with my equipment and my father doesn't want me to feel sexual stimulation.

Angelina

Sara2001

yes i admit it is very difficult to reach these goals, but i think there must be concepts that allow you to do activities like swimming, i have a special swimming suit and i hope you also have ideas that will be accepted 🙂

alberto Do you have some skin problems or it is manageable? i am concerned of skin problems with hot weather my wife thinks it will be manageable as my daughter belt will be removed at home

do you mean skin problems caused by the belt or by the bands?. no, i don't have both anymore, i have learned how to handle them in summer and i use special ointments if there are problems

Ines even is better talk about a more strict regime, and when belt arrives be less strict in the usage.

right, it makes more sense to make the conditions stricter but the actions more relaxed, then the belt is probably better accepted

alberto

i am surprised that some of you wears the belt most time of the day also tightbands for long peoriods of time i think they are too restrictive, but they can be very effective increasing safety agaist touching i believe. Do you have some skin problems or it is manageable? i am concerned of skin problems with hot weather my wife thinks it will be manageable as my daughter belt will be removed at home

Sara2001

alberto i am surprised that some of you wears the belt most time of the day also tightbands for long peoriods of time i think they are too restrictive, but they can be very effective increasing safety agaist touching i believe. Do you have some skin problems or it is manageable? i am concerned of skin problems with hot weather my wife thinks it will be manageable as my daughter belt will be removed at home

I wear my chastity belt, my chastity bra and the tightbands 24/7. It is very, very restrictive. I can't touch me in any pleasure way. I am opened for a big leaning session once a week. On any other day I can shower myself in my equipment. It takes a lot of additional effort to keep me clean and hygienic, but I have to say that it is definitely possible. I have no real trouble with skin problems. Just some marks from time to time but they come and go. Nothing to worry about.

Ines

alberto
Hola.
As user, the usage of bands 24/7 is useless and wrong.
I mean, it is not necessary wear them in a context in which we are enough protected.
It is not the same an afternoon alone in home that go to study to a public Library.
I had issues one time, studying for first quarter tests. I had redness and irritation in my thighs.

Respect the belt, if you do not rush and give time to adapt and she only wear , she will not have problems. Will she wear the belt full time finally?
Talk it carefully, even is better talk about a more strict regime, and when belt arrives be less strict in the usage.

Ines

Angelina do you mean skin problems caused by the belt or by the bands?

I think he is asking for curiosity. Since it seems their girl will not wear the belt in home, bands are useless.

alberto my wife thinks it will be manageable as my daughter belt will be removed at home

Yes. Your wife is right. For sure she will have small issues as some small pinches but she will be soon used to wear the belt.

Angelina

Ines Since it seems their girl will not wear the belt in home, bands are useless.

i agree with you, but i think there are also parents who think the other way around. when the girl leaves the house the thighbands make the attempt to have sex even more impossible than "only" with a belt

Sara2001 a house a pool

i am still at the idea indoor pool, i don't want to convince you, but think about it 😉

Sara2001

Tim Maybe you could get one of those tent-like roofs for the pool. Some are clear, but some are white.

Thank you for the suggestions 🙂 I think it will take a while until it becomes a real issue. My father just doesn't allow us to go swimming. After marriage we need to find a well paid job, a house a pool and then we need to find a solution. I think this is at least 5 or 10 years away.

I think I will not have many options to go swimming in the future, anyway.

Ines

Angelina agree with you, but i think there are also parents who think the other way around. when the girl leaves the house the thighbands make the attempt to have sex even more impossible than "only" with a belt

Bands are a tool for protect us of self stimulation, not of sex. Or even probably, I do not have experience in the topic, they do not prevent the orgasm more than a belt.
Only when is necessary a big protection or when is necessary to avoid all stimulation due to avoid anxiety, is when are useful.

Angelina

Ines Bands are a tool for protect us of self stimulation, not of sex.

I know that, you know that and many here in the forum know that. but do all parents know that?

Vanessa I thinks so,too,and I hesitated to tell it was effective.😉

true, I often hesitate too, but I am an honest girl

Vanessa Do you think you have good chances to change the rule,at least for swimming/walking on the beach?

i don't know, i don't think so, but i hope for exceptions on special days (birthdays etc.)

Sara2001 but my father things that it is enough to be able to do the sports that are possible in tightband

i can hardly imagine doing sports with thighbands. actually you can only train the arms

Sara2001

Vanessa It is not much for comfort,but to make some activities possible.And doing sports,like swimming,is an healthy activity.

What reasons beside visiting a doctor would you see? Of course sport and swimming is healthy, but my father things that it is enough to be able to do the sports that are possible in tightbands and that cleaning is possible with the equipment in place, it just takes more time, so removing the belt would be comfort. His main argument why he doesn't grant any comfort like this is that he doesn't want to argue about it.

Vanessa And if he supervises you?He could be sure you don't stimulate yourself.

He says he can't supervise me all the time, when he needs to go to the toilet or when he gives me a task to bring him something, I would have unsupervised moments. Of course it is unlikely that I do something during these moments, but he prefers to give me the feeling that it is really impossible.

I know this is very, very strict and I don't advertise this way to anybody, but I have agreed to life with this for Daniel and I think it will be possible.

HHelen

Vanessa Explain what?

Why you have to wear thighbands.

Vanessa t was often used if I sneak out,at first,and the thigh bands would prevent it

How could they prevent it if it's still possible to go out?

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