Thighbands

Vanessa

Sara2001 so removing the belt would be comfort.

It is possible to have different rules for thigh bands and chastity belt,I think.And someone must be able to supervise you when you have the thigh bands off(and it could be for specific circumstance only,like swimming with your boyfriend,or hiking with him).It would be less restrictive but still very secure.Do you think you would be able to convince your boyfriend to use such rules?

Sara2001 He says he can't supervise me all the time, when he needs to go to the toilet or when he gives me a task to bring him something, I would have unsupervised moments.

However,it shouldn't happen while doing sports/walking together.

Angelina but do all parents know that?

Probably,it is obvious it is mainly the chastity belt which prevent sex.

Angelina i don't know, i don't think so, but i hope for exceptions on special days (birthdays etc.)

It would be a good step,at least.

Angelina i can hardly imagine doing sports with thighbands. actually you can only train the arms

Some light ones,like walking,using a rowing machine(as @Sara2001 said),etc...But not easy.

HHelen Why you have to wear thighbands.

It was clearly told it was a punishment.And now,it is too to prevent me to spend too much time fighting my belt when alone at home.

HHelen How could they prevent it if it's still possible to go out?

I didn't want to go out with friends with it on,and it was very restrictive.

Angelina

But I should do it soon,if I want you to wear high heels!😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think you would be able to convince your boyfriend to use such rules?

I think he likes to give me a longer chain on walks during city trips and thinks about removing the chain between my tightbands when we want to do some hiking and he can supervise me. It's easy to install the padlock when we rest, so it's definitely secure enough. Maybe there will be a few more situations in the future, but visiting a pool will be non of them.

Angelina

Vanessa Probably,it is obvious it is mainly the chastity belt which prevent sex.

i don't mean that, of course many parents think that the belt is the main tool, but maybe they think that thighbands should also be used to prevent sex (as the main purpose)

Vanessa ,like walking,

i do walking with my father, with thighbands impossible

Vanessa But I should do it soon,if I want you to wear high heels!😉

🤣

HHelen

Vanessa I didn't want to go out with friends with it on,and it was very restrictive.

Therefore it might work.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Even if not for going to a pool(same for the beach?),it means he would consider taking these off to do some activities together,which is better.

Angelina they think that thighbands should also be used to prevent sex (as the main purpose)

I doubt it,thigh bands are pretty clearly restricting walking,mainly.But they could think preventing sex even more than using only a chastity belt is a good side effect.

Angelina i do walking with my father, with thighbands impossible

Slowly and for short trips,I think it is possible.But not hiking.

HHelen

It was effective for me,at least,yes.But she may not care.

Roland

Sara2001 Removing the chain while you are hiking or during city trips would go, I believe. This would be a great relief. A much longer chain would go as well if your father absolutely doesn't want to remove the chain. In exchange for that he could use the padlock every time you are alone or at rest or not under supervision. I am admiring you, you are a tough girl to take on such a burden!

Angelina

HHelen Therefore it might work.

you still seem to be considering whether thighbands would be a good decision, do I understand that correctly?

HHelen

Angelina you still seem to be considering whether thighbands would be a good decision

Yes, if they can serve my purposes.

reactionary69

HHelen Which is?

Angelina

HHelen Yes, if they can serve my purposes.

which I still have not fully understood

Vanessa But they could think preventing sex even more than using only a chastity belt is a good side effect.

that's exactly what I mean, it's simply about more security

Vanessa Slowly and for short trips,I think it is possible.But not hiking.

this may be due to different languages, but for us walking is faster than hiking 😉

HHelen Forcing her to stay home.

it restricts going outside, but it does not force her to stay at home

Vanessa I still think you should talk with her about thigh bands before buying these.

i think so too, otherwise she might not accept the belt either

HHelen

reactionary69 Which is?

Forcing her to stay home.

Abby82 You shouldn't get her thighbands. They make her life much harder and only create frustration.

I want to use them as punishment only.

Vanessa

Abby82

I agree.

HHelen I want to use them as punishment only.

Better than permanent wearing,or wearing these frequently,but it would be a very hard punishment for her.I still think you should talk with her about thigh bands before buying these.

HHelen

Angelina it restricts going outside, but it does not force her to stay at home

@Vanessa has different experience, however.

Vanessa

Angelina that's exactly what I mean, it's simply about more security

Yes,but I think it is not necessarily their main concern,when buying thigh bands.

Angelina this may be due to different languages, but for us walking is faster than hiking 😉

Yes,it's different in France,walking("marcher")is slower and calmer.Hiking would be a faster walk,sometimes on a rougher terrain.

Angelina it restricts going outside, but it does not force her to stay at home

I agree.

HHelen

As @Angelina already told you,it was more my decision than a limit due to my thigh bands.

Ines However, if the girl wear them for short term, maybe she chooses stay at home.

It was my case,it was used as punishment,rarely for more than a a couple of days.

And now,it's adapted if I plan to go out,or if I've to go out when unplanned,so I can easily avoid to go out with these on.

Sara2001 My father has not agreed to a longer chain for my tightbands, so they will limit me as usual.

Sorry for you...🙁

Sara2001 His opinion is that we can do things like that after marriage.

Good if it's going to be better about thigh bands after your wedding!

Angelina ok i just wanted to write two sentences about my experiences during my holidays. we did most of the trips together with my father, so there were mostly no problems with hiking etc.

one day we also went hiking alone. in the city it was ok, it took a long time but it was a more comfortable walk as a couple, so it was ok. after that we tried to hike up a mountain (just a small mountain). it worked, but camryn had to help me with some parts. it is very complicated, but if daniel supports you it is possible 🙂

It seems it worked well for you and it was pleasant,even with the limits due to the thigh bands!🙂

Angelina

HHelen

@Vanessa doesn't wear the thighbands permanently and hasn't been outside with them by her own decision 😉

Ines

Yes, some activities are possible with thigh bands outside.
However, if the girl wear them for short term, maybe she chooses stay at home.

Angelina

Ines However, if the girl wear them for short term, maybe she chooses stay at home.

that's right, i think if i only wore the thighbands a few hours a day, i probably wouldn't go out wearing them

@Sara2001
are your holiday plans still up to date?

Sara2001

Angelina are your holiday plans still up to date?

Yes we planned them in mid November now, but nobody knows what will be possible at this time. My father has not agreed to a longer chain for my tightbands, so they will limit me as usual.

Angelina

Sara2001

ok i just wanted to write two sentences about my experiences during my holidays. we did most of the trips together with my father, so there were mostly no problems with hiking etc.

one day we also went hiking alone. in the city it was ok, it took a long time but it was a more comfortable walk as a couple, so it was ok. after that we tried to hike up a mountain (just a small mountain). it worked, but camryn had to help me with some parts. it is very complicated, but if daniel supports you it is possible 🙂

Sara2001 I am alone with Daniel, that's part of the problem 🙂

then the solution to the problem would be for you that your father also goes on holiday and comes with you 😂

Sara2001

Roland Removing the chain while you are hiking or during city trips would go, I believe. This would be a great relief. A much longer chain would go as well if your father absolutely doesn't want to remove the chain.

Daniel and I thought the same, but my father didn't agreed to his. His opinion is that we can do things like that after marriage.

Roland In exchange for that he could use the padlock every time you are alone or at rest or not under supervision.

I am alone with Daniel, that's part of the problem 🙂 A padlock only is already used when I am in bed.

Roland I am admiring you, you are a tough girl to take on such a burden!

Thank you, I think I got more or less used to many aspects, so it doesn't feel that extremely big for me.

Sara2001

Angelina it worked, but camryn had to help me with some parts. it is very complicated, but if daniel supports you it is possible

I hope it will be possible and will not limit us to much. I really hoped for the longer chain, but I can understand why my father decided against it.

Angelina then the solution to the problem would be for you that your father also goes on holiday and comes with you 😂

I happily accept the tightbands instead of this 🙂

Vanessa Good if it's going to be better about thigh bands after your wedding!

Yes, but mainly for short times on holiday. Overall it will stay the same.

Ines

Vanessa
Since she was supervised, I think she did not need use the bands.

Angelina

Vanessa ,but I think it is not necessarily their main concern,when buying thigh bands.

in most cases i agree with you, but not always

Vanessa Yes,it's different in France,walking("marcher")is slower and calmer.

then i understand, in germany it's the other way around 😂

Vanessa It seems it worked well for you and it was pleasant,even with the limits due to the thigh bands!🙂

that's true, but it was also very exhausting, but with camryn's support I made it 🙂

Sara2001 I hope it will be possible and will not limit us to much.

it really depends a lot on how much Daniel helps you

Sara2001 I happily accept the tightbands instead of this 🙂

i can understand that when i am 18 i will also think about a holiday just for camryn and me 😉

Ines Today I used for first night the new thigh bands with the block piece for sleep.

do you have a link? i can hardly imagine how these thighbands look

Ines Safety does not compensate the lack of comfort in this case.

understandable, it sounds very unpleasant 🙁

HHelen

Vanessa ,it was more my decision than a limit due to my thigh bands.

What was your decision based on? I think at this limit.

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