Become a belted wife

Christine

Saintprudence “Honey, I’ve been thinking, and I believe the belt is best for you. I’d like you to go back into it, please”?

No way.

Saintprudence

I actually got to thinking about my own question anyway, because there is of course the possibility I end up free of the belt in the future. My wife has requested I remain locked in the event she passed before I do, and has made arrangements for her best friend to keyhold. I feel like I would want to respect that for a while, but without the force of my wife’s personality behind it, I doubt I would remain devoted to the belt for life. Eventually, I’d talk my keyholder into freeing me and if that happened, I would not willingly go back into the belt on my own. (Plus there’s always the unlikely prospect of divorce, in which case I’m definitely unlocking.)

i don’t love the belt, but I don’t particularly loathe it, either. One reason I accepted it was because I believe in being a traditional wife, obedient to her spouse. So I’d be drawn to someone authoritative anyway. If I was in a future relationship, I would never request to be locked up again, and they would know I did not particularly relish being closed. If they asked me to wear the belt again, I would seriously consider it. If they insisted, I would be even more inclined.

I suppose it would depend on their reasoning, and we would need a firmly worded contract. If the belt was an instrument of control or torment or just a fetish toy to them, no way. If they recognized it as a symbol of devotion, and something that must be worn for my own good? Then I would seriously consider becoming a belted wife again.

Angelina

Saintprudence and we would need a firmly worded contract

😃 😃 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001

Not too bad,yes.

Saintprudence

I don't think Emilie would ask me(but she would probably lock it on me as a game,sometimes).

If she would want to use it seriously,and it would be very important for her,we would have to discuss,and,if we would have an agreement(not sure at all...),she would have to wear one too.

But I'm sure it won't be the case.

Ines

Vanessa discuss,and,if we would have an agreement(not sure at all...),she would have to wear one too.

IT is the typical thing that always makes strange to me, I have traditional way of thinking...
I mean, for me (my opinion, my feeling {clarification is not for you, Vanessa that you know that I respect you and your choices and I wish you the best, but clarification is for trolls}, not a try of universal true), in a couple the roles are more rigid, I always think that two girls must fight more 😅. That all needs more negotiations.

Angelina

Vanessa ,she would have to wear one too.

It's the only fair solution. 😃

Vanessa

Ines that two girls must fight more 😅. That all needs more negotiations.

I don't know it for sure,but I think it is possible,yes.However,it would depend mainly on the personnality,I think.In a relationship,for a man and a woman both being dominant,they would have to negotiate a lot,while for two women,one more dominant,and the other one more submissive(not in a BDSM meaning),it would be easier,for example.

Angelina

I think so,too.

Angelina

Vanessa

at least in my relationship we both are not very dominant, although submissive would be the wrong word

hmmm

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree,I don't like much to use these words(dominant and submissive)in this context,as it is mainly for SM and similar.

Maybe "the leader" and "the follower"?

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe "the leader" and "the follower"?

not really. we both have our strengths in different things and complement each other

sun

Vanessa Angelina
I agree with you.I don't want my wife to become a submissive slave.I need her support and suggestions in both life and career.I think a good couple should be good friends.

Vanessa

Angelina

Same for me and Emilie,it is better to negotiate together,but,in some relationships,one tend to agree more easily to his/her partner decision(even if not a man/woman led relationship)...Any good names for it?

sun

Same for me.I like Emilie doesn't always agree with me,and give her ideas and opinions.Lovers that are friends too are generally more happy in their couple,I think.🙂

James . I would also say that because a woman is physically or sexually submissive doesn’t mean she’s not an equal partner in other areas of life. A woman wearing a chastity bra, thighbands and belt doesn’t mean she’s not able to be a good friend and equal partner.

I agree.

James

sun Vanessa Angelina
I agree with you.I don't want my wife to become a submissive slave.I need her support and suggestions in both life and career.I think a good couple should be good friends.

I’d agree. I would also say that because a woman is physically or sexually submissive doesn’t mean she’s not an equal partner in other areas of life. A woman wearing a chastity bra, thighbands and belt doesn’t mean she’s not able to be a good friend and equal partner.

This is where a lot of talking comes in though, and she’ll show you what she prefers even more.

Angelina

James A woman wearing a chastity bra, thighbands and belt doesn’t mean she’s not able to be a good friend and equal partner.

right, even when I am locked in my equipment, camryn treats me equally 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa .Any good names for it?

equal relationship ?

Vanessa

Angelina

If they negotiate,yes,but I wonder about the name of a relationship in which one partner tend to agree to her partner decision,without discussing much,even if not in a man/woman led relationship.