Laura Did you talk to her father last weekend?
I did actually. Last weekend. It was a long talk I didn't really look forward to. First he was insulted, that I did accuse his daughter of being unfaithful to me. But that was to be expected. So I dodged his response saying, that I didn't question her virginty, but that I am convinced she was using his lenient style to pleasure herself freely and that I don't appreciate that in a woman. I also offered to pay for the belt, since I know it is pretty expensive and said that she would have to wear one anyway after the wedding.
That's when things got interesting, since I kind of believed he knew, or at least suspected something. At least that is how my fiance put it. He addamantely denied it, saying his daughter would never do anything like that. He asked me where I got that suspicion and I correctly answered, that she confided in me herself. That's basically when I had him on my side. He summoned his daughter (she was doing her chores while we talked) and asked her if it was true. She didn't really know what to say, she was really embarresed. We talked a lot afterwards and she told me she felt betrayed by me at that point, which I do understand, but she also felt she had failed me in some way. I am really glad she didn't dare to lie in that moment.
And then her father did something which I am pretty sure he hasn't done in years. He told her that he was extremely disappointed (though he never got into anger) in her and sent her to her room to prepare for some much needed discipline and to my surprise she didn't argue at all. She told me later she did it because I was present and she felt the need to show that she would be a good wife. I was invited to watch, when he disciplined her. I am not gonna go into detail here, since this is a private matter, but let's just say she didn't sit comfortably for the next couple of days. My father would have been proud. After he finished he said, that since she would be my wife, he would offer me to add my own punishment, but I declined, saying she had more than enough and she also deserved lenience, since she was the one to confess, since she knew it was against my convictions and she wanted nothing to stand in between us. I am actually not quite sure my father in law appreciated that or not, but she certainly did. The only thing I wanted was time to talk afterwards.
Before that he and I talked a little more with her present. She wasn't really an active part of the conversation though, he just told her once to stop squirming in her seat, because she was constantly shifting around, which was quite distracting. I didn't really know purity was a huge deal in her family, it certainly is in ours, but he actually apaolgized for not taking better care of her (probably he just knew that it is important to my father). He promised me that he would make sure this wouldn't happen again till our marriage and that the punishment wasn't yet over. He also insisted on buying the belt himself (saves me a lot of money) and that he would also take care of the keys. Since I have obvioulsy researched the topic I explained technical details and differences between belt and extra equipment and he accepted my input for model and belt (a few days later). So they both now know the basics about belts, secondary shield, tigh bands, and bras. But we decided to only order a belt + secondary shield for now.
When I finally had time to talk with her alone afterwards I told her how proud I was of her good behaviour that night and I apologized for the betrayal, but also explained, that is was necessary, because her behaviour warrented correction, especially since she lied to her father and I was not going to punish her without his consent. I also commended her for not wanting any secrets to stand between us and asked her if she was willing to not keep anything from me even after tonight, to which she promptly said yes. She also apologized again for her deeds and we agreed, that this topic had been dealt with now. She generally not in a confrontational mood after that night, so we had a generally very pleasent evening afterwards. This changed slightly the last couple of days, where she was already more willing to challange me again, because I we talked a lot about why my family didn't believe in female sexual liberation and why we believed, that a girl and a wife should have their sexual pleasure controlled. I also slightly introduced the idea of orgasm denial (Which I had no idea was called that before I rediscovered it on the interent. My father told me about it when I was a teenager), in the sense, that we didn't believe regular sexual relieve was really necessary in our wifes. I am not sure she had heard something from my mother or sister because I guess this is not something you often talk about, but she at least acted quite surprised, We will see how it develops.
