mark12423 How does the dynamic work in your family? I'm curious to know what they do differently.
Many things are similar, but in detail many things are different, too.
At first my sister and I don't only wear a chastity belt but also tightbands and a chastity bra 24/7. The tightbands are connected with a chain from getting up to dinner, so it makes less (almost no) noise when walking and moving, from dinner to getting up in the morning, all 3 of us wear tightbands connected only with a padlock. My mother wears her tightbands during the day, but without a connecting chain. I am in a very happy man led relationship with my boyfriend. I already know that my equipment will stay in place after marriage. His family has very traditional values, too. Some are more strict, some are less strict then in my family. So we are working for our own rules for some time now. We have learned, that it works best for us, when we have strict rules, too. Some are even stricter then in our families.
I don't talk about anything in public here, but if you want, I can ask the administrators to give you my e-mail address for a private communication.
The females in our family have to ask permission to leave the property, too. Normally we have to do our chores before and we have to be back for dinner preparation. I also need permission to make appointments with others from my boyfriend.
The females in our family normally don't have access to money and are not allowed to spend money without permission. Exceptions are only made if we have to buy some that was forgotten at the weekly shopping or if we are allowed to meet friends, then we know how much we can spend and what we are allowed to buy.
In our family my father is the head of the household, he gives my mother, my sister and me chores we have to do. If not done or not done good enough, we will be punished. I also get rules and chores from my boyfriend. He regularly talks with my father about what he is allowed to do, of course he doesn't have the key to my chastity belt, but I am allowed to give him pleasure in other ways. He has the key to my chastity bra, because I wear it for him.
We have to follow the 4Ds at all time. No dishonesty, no disrespect, no disobedience and no dangerous things.
We can talk about anything during our weekly maintenance meeting, but outside of this meeting, back talking and things like that are strictly forbidden and will be punished.
Of course these rules don't apply to my brother.
The weekly maintenance session starts with a supervised shower, then we all go to the corner, then my sister has her talk and her spanking, then she goes back to the corner until my talk and spanking is over. Then it's my mother's turn. After my mother's spanking is over, there is another long corner time. Actually my mother and I are released from the corner together. We don't hear the maintenance talk of the others but stand together in the corner.
It's currently very interesting how the relationship with my boyfriend evolves. I have no direct saying in my rules, but he often asks about my opinion.and I say my opinion during the maintenance, even if not asked in a calm, respectful and nom offensive way.
The "agreement" between my boyfriend and me is, that I will submit to him in anything, no exceptions but in exchange he has to ensure that I am happy in my life (not with any decisions he mades), that he is consistent in his rules and consequences and that I can trust him 100% at all times.
I think these are the basics. I would love to know more about your wifes and daughters point of view about their situation.
