Vanessa After it,you would not use it anymore?
I actually would like to be belted after time both of us finish all surgeries. (Which is likely to be time we are already married by then) That was why I said โat leastโ until surgeries of both myself and my partner are finished.
It would be my symbol of devotion to her and my gratefulness to her that I am alive thanks to her (When I was at level nearing to end my life due to my dysphoria, she helped me out a lot).
If my partner agrees to hold keys as long as I ask for, I think I would be wearing belt for a long time, maybe until my partner no longer agrees to hold keys.
If my partner disagrees to hold keys after all surgeries are done or anytime afterwards, then unfortunately, Iโll have to discontinue wearing my chastity belt. (I will keep it somewhere for memory, though.)
I would not force her to hold onto keys if she doesnโt want to, like how my decision to wear belt isnโt forced. I believe mutual agreement is very important.