Become a belted wife

Joh

Vanessa Yes.But stop before it becomes painful.

He has to find out where the reasonable boarder is.

Vanessa

Yes.

Sara2001 That's why the punishments are milder at the beginning.

But still punished.

Sara2001 I can tell him when I feel it is difficult to hold it back, but I will not be allowed to ask him to stop before I am very sure that I can't hold it much longer.

Ok,not perfect,but better.

Sara2001 Maybe he will grant me several orgasms once, so I know what I can't have, but I am not sure this would make anything easier. Beside this, I think it will be one single orgasm at the time.

Only once would make it worse,knowing how it feels and never get it again.I think he could give this "gift" sometimes.

Sara2001 Orgasms? Definitely not before marriage.

To ask him to stop if you're close to orgasm.

Sara2001

Vanessa Too strict,in my opinion,you would need time to not fail...

That's why the punishments are milder at the beginning.

Vanessa It should be allowed to ask him to stop a bit sooner at first,even if reducing as you manage it better.

I can tell him when I feel it is difficult to hold it back, but I will not be allowed to ask him to stop before I am very sure that I can't hold it much longer.

Vanessa You're strong,I would not be able to stop fighting it.

I can't forget the belt, but I think I don't fight it.

Vanessa Never allowed to experience it,or do you think he could allow it sometimes?

Maybe he will grant me several orgasms once, so I know what I can't have, but I am not sure this would make anything easier. Beside this, I think it will be one single orgasm at the time.

Vanessa Good he consider to change it if needed

Everything that is not working will be charged. That's the basic principle.

Vanessa But not allowed too soon,right?

Orgasms? Definitely not before marriage.

Vanessa Yes.But stop before it becomes painful.

He doesn't want this challenge for me. He wants me horny and frustrated and open to please him. It's not that much about challenges for me.

Joh

Sara2001 He wants me horny and frustrated

Why he wants you frustrated?

Megan

Sara2001 He wants me horny and frustrated and open to please him.

After a certain point the wife pleases her husband by having powerful orgasms on him....
I hope you open up more to mutual enjoyment, maybe if he has more time independent of his family.
I am okay being locked and submissive as humanly possible and giving blowjobs several times a day but you need love too.

Ines

Megan Chastity to make someone unhappy isn't chastity it's something else to me.

Agree. Bravo.

LoonyMel

Ines
I agree with you, but I will add that there are situation in which this unhappiness is part of the accepted chastity deal. Like a sect believer who is deprived of money, has to work hard in a community, cannot leave because he will be punished but still says "I am very happy and free, you cannot understand the fulfillment I get from my life with my prophet".

Ines

LoonyMel
Eh... well we have a noun for that 😞

Joh

LoonyMel
If you really believe it by yourself you can be happy. But You lie to yourself.
It is like the famous ostrich that buries its head in the sand in order not to see the danger.

Megan

Christine Try a lace.

Lace of what???

Joh If you have the feeling this is the right place than it is the right solution for you.

Angelina your idea is not bad either and in the end it is important that you are satisfied with it. 🙂

Yes I like the way it looks and feels on him. Maybe around the neck or around and ankle is good for other people keys but we are just so happy with this 😀

Christine

Megan Lace of what???

Any.

Joh

@Maija What kind of relation ship are you looking for?

Maija

Joh me? Well, dating in the lgbtq+ scene is quite hard when your surroundings are so conservative :/

I gave a crush on my classmate and friend, who I think has given some hints towards being interested in me 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa But still punished.

Yes, definitely, so I really try hard from the very beginning.

Vanessa Only once would make it worse,knowing how it feels and never get it again.I think he could give this "gift" sometimes

Not very likely, but we will see. We like the idea, that I never get full releases of my hornyness.

Vanessa To ask him to stop if you're close to orgasm

He doesn't have the key to my chastity belt before marriage, so the training starts with the wedding day, too.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, definitely, so I really try hard from the very beginning.

Do you think some "training",with no punishment at first,would be better?

Sara2001 We like the idea, that I never get full releases of my hornyness.

It is not impossible,even if you sometimes are allowed to orgasm several times.

Maija Well, dating in the lgbtq+ scene is quite hard when your surroundings are so conservative :/

Do your parents know you're lesbian/bisexual?

If not,how do you think they would react?

Maija I gave a crush on my classmate and friend, who I think has given some hints towards being interested in me 🙂

Do you plan to date her?

Maija before I move out :/

When do you think you would move out?

Angelina for the future i would at least not rule it out

I don't think I would talk about this subject with my parents,personally.

Joh

Maija
Okay. So you look out for a relation ship with an girl.
Are you thinking more of an equal relationship or one that leads?

Angelina

Foxies As a matter of fact she does. I love to see (and feel) them and she will tease me with them periodically, which is fun too. Since they are on a pretty gold chain I often tell her than the steel around my most important bits is just as strong as the chain around her neck. It essentially chains her to me too - smiles.

that makes sense and sounds very romantic 😃

Joh But not to talk at the dinner table with the whole family around what sex praxis you use or have in mind.

If this is part of the education in this family it is legitimate.

Joh Do you tell your father what kind of sex praxis do you like and Camryn prefers?

how is that supposed to work there is a lot of steel in the way 😉 but for the future i would at least not rule it out

Vanessa Because we would probably never met other users of the board,and not recognize each other,even if walking in the same street.

right, but i would also never talk about it in public, at home i don't see this problem so strongly

Vanessa Bad example,as she doesn't tell it here either!😉

right 😉

Maija I gave a crush on my classmate and friend, who I think has given some hints towards being interested in me 🙂

that sounds great, I am curious whether it will be something 😃

Xander

Maija I definitely share the same problem, coming from a very conservative location. Is your family aware/supportive of you?

Maija

Joh Okay. So you look out for a relation ship with an girl.
Are you thinking more of an equal relationship or one that leads?

Hmm, I'm not so sure. If I could just get someone, that would be a start. Probably won't happen before I move out :/

Joh

Maija Probably won't happen before I move out :/

Good starting point. Move out and figure out what you like and not like. Than you know how to go on.

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think some "training",with no punishment at first,would be better?

I don't know. I have no experience. At the end it's his decision anyway.

Vanessa It is not impossible,even if you sometimes are allowed to orgasm several times

We will see how it evolves.

Angelina

Vanessa I don't think I would talk about this subject with my parents,personally.

it depends, i generally wouldn't discuss it with anyone except camryn. my main point was more that i would discuss it with my father rather than here on the forum. 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't know. I have no experience. At the end it's his decision anyway.

Would you be allowed to discuss it,and,if you agree,change it,if needed?

Angelina

In my case,it would be the opposite,due to the anonymity on the forum!😉

But,more probably I would not talk about it on the forum,nor with my parents!😉

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