Become a belted wife

Joh

Maija
Okay. So you look out for a relation ship with an girl.
Are you thinking more of an equal relationship or one that leads?

Maija

Joh Okay. So you look out for a relation ship with an girl.
Are you thinking more of an equal relationship or one that leads?

Hmm, I'm not so sure. If I could just get someone, that would be a start. Probably won't happen before I move out :/

Joh

Maija Probably won't happen before I move out :/

Good starting point. Move out and figure out what you like and not like. Than you know how to go on.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, definitely, so I really try hard from the very beginning.

Do you think some "training",with no punishment at first,would be better?

Sara2001 We like the idea, that I never get full releases of my hornyness.

It is not impossible,even if you sometimes are allowed to orgasm several times.

Maija Well, dating in the lgbtq+ scene is quite hard when your surroundings are so conservative :/

Do your parents know you're lesbian/bisexual?

If not,how do you think they would react?

Maija I gave a crush on my classmate and friend, who I think has given some hints towards being interested in me 🙂

Do you plan to date her?

Maija before I move out :/

When do you think you would move out?

Angelina for the future i would at least not rule it out

I don't think I would talk about this subject with my parents,personally.

Angelina

Foxies As a matter of fact she does. I love to see (and feel) them and she will tease me with them periodically, which is fun too. Since they are on a pretty gold chain I often tell her than the steel around my most important bits is just as strong as the chain around her neck. It essentially chains her to me too - smiles.

that makes sense and sounds very romantic 😃

Joh But not to talk at the dinner table with the whole family around what sex praxis you use or have in mind.

If this is part of the education in this family it is legitimate.

Joh Do you tell your father what kind of sex praxis do you like and Camryn prefers?

how is that supposed to work there is a lot of steel in the way 😉 but for the future i would at least not rule it out

Vanessa Because we would probably never met other users of the board,and not recognize each other,even if walking in the same street.

right, but i would also never talk about it in public, at home i don't see this problem so strongly

Vanessa Bad example,as she doesn't tell it here either!😉

right 😉

Maija I gave a crush on my classmate and friend, who I think has given some hints towards being interested in me 🙂

that sounds great, I am curious whether it will be something 😃

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think some "training",with no punishment at first,would be better?

I don't know. I have no experience. At the end it's his decision anyway.

Vanessa It is not impossible,even if you sometimes are allowed to orgasm several times

We will see how it evolves.

Angelina

Vanessa I don't think I would talk about this subject with my parents,personally.

it depends, i generally wouldn't discuss it with anyone except camryn. my main point was more that i would discuss it with my father rather than here on the forum. 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't know. I have no experience. At the end it's his decision anyway.

Would you be allowed to discuss it,and,if you agree,change it,if needed?

Angelina

In my case,it would be the opposite,due to the anonymity on the forum!😉

But,more probably I would not talk about it on the forum,nor with my parents!😉

Joh

Angelina my main point was more that i would discuss it with my father rather than here on the forum.

This is something different than my question was.

Vanessa Yes.Especially as you never had one during sex.

With some training,it would be manageable,but at first,it would be very difficult.

I personally think,at the start,you should not be punished if you truly try to follow the rule,even if you fail.

I agree with @Vanessa

Sara2001

Vanessa Would you be allowed to discuss it,and,if you agree,change it,if needed?

I am of course allowed to discuss it, during maintenance I can discuss everything. It's not very likely that this rule will make me unhappy, so it's unlikely that he will change it. Do you think it would be to difficult this way?

Angelina

Vanessa But,more probably I would not talk about it on the forum,nor with my parents!😉

it would be exactly the same with me, but what I said is based on an either, or decision

Vanessa

Sara2001 Do you think it would be to difficult this way?

Yes.Especially as you never had one during sex.

With some training,it would be manageable,but at first,it would be very difficult.

I personally think,at the start,you should not be punished if you truly try to follow the rule,even if you fail.

Greatcornbow

Laura I think this would depend on the nature of the relationship between the spouses. If one is to be Dominant then it's logical that keeping the other locked can be part of the relationship. If there's no D/s element then either they can each hold the other's keys or not be belted at all. It all depends.

Rina

Greatcornbow I’m not belted yet, but I am certain that I will be belted in close future. My partner will be a keyholder, but it’s not about dominance. We both strive for equal relationship. Like I’m not going to be forced to be belted, I also believe she shouldn’t be forced to hold keys either. I chose to be belted, she agreed to hold onto keys. She is going to hold keys for emotional support for me, not for dominance…

Angelina

Joh This is something different than my question was.

yes, it's just difficult to really answer some questions because they are situations i'm not in.

i have a few fetishes i want to live out after my wedding, camryn knows what i mean, but neither my father nor this forum will know about them. 😉

Joh

Angelina
Oh. How surprising and interesting.
Do it in a save space and have fun.
And if you not want to tell the forum maybe you want to talk in private. If not with me ☹️ gwen and Sin could get you some hints.

Sin

Joh If not with me ☹️ gwen and Sin could get you some hints.

lol this is true I have a fetish for fetishes! 😁

Angelina

Joh And if you not want to tell the forum maybe you want to talk in private. If not with me ☹️ gwen and Sin could get you some hints.

maybe i'll write about it after my wedding, at the moment i don't really see the point of it as long as i can't live it out.

Sin lol this is true I have a fetish for fetishes! 😁

😂

Foxies

Sin

This is Foxies partner Angela. My ears pricked up at this - smiles. I hope you are willing to share? Perhaps Laura could send you the email address we use if you would like to correspond privately.

Sin

Foxies I don't mind sharing, I'm quite open about my lifestyle. But if @Laura thinks it's getting away from the original purpose of the forum then I'm happy to take it to email. I'll leave it up to Laura... should we start a topic on this or is it too offensive? Feel free to send my email to @Foxies if you would prefer if we avoided it.

Joh

Angelina don't really see the point of it as long as i can't live it out.

You can get inside and see if your fantasy match with reality.

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