Angelina at the latest before you spend the first night together

But I'm not supposed to. One of the purpose of the chastity belt.

Angelina would you officially say that it is a relationship?

No, I wouldn't.

    Renita I'm not a big fan of oral sex anyway.

    However you mom likes to prevent it.

    Avery That's what I miss the most, if you mean being on the receiving end

    Therefore your belt works as expected.

      HHelen Therefore your belt works as expected.

      Wrong again. I just gave up boys. Temporarily.

        Avery That's what I miss the most, if you mean being on the receiving end. Otherwise I agree.

        Both.

        HHelen However you mom likes to prevent it.

        She likes to prevent masturbation.

          Renita But I'm not supposed to. One of the purpose of the chastity belt.

          by spending the night together i only meant sleeping, like me and my girlfriend do. 😉

          Renita No, I wouldn't.

          ok, then i would wait, but as soon as you would say it officially, i would also tell him about the belt.

            Angelina by spending the night together i only meant sleeping, like me and my girlfriend do. 😉

            Reminds me of a quote from John Green's Looking For Alaska:

            I wanted so badly to lie down next to her on the couch, to wrap my arms around her and sleep. Not fuck, like in those movies. Not even have sex. Just sleep together in the most innocent sense of the phrase.

            Angelina by spending the night together i only meant sleeping, like me and my girlfriend do

            And I don't think it's right.

              Renita And I don't think it's right.

              Judge not, least ye also .....

              Avery I just gave up boys

              It also works for girls.

              11 days later

              Michael

              Michael 1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?

              My parents, the belt was to be my 18th birthday gift

              Michael 2) How did he or she react?

              Confusion, we had a lot of talking to do

              Michael 3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?

              To not abuse the power and just keep the keys from me in a just way

              Michael 4) Did he or she meet those expectations?

              Yes

              Michael 5) How long did you want to be belted?

              My intentions were all the time with monthly breaks, turned out differently

              Michael 6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?

              I was belted for a year at the start, which was my parents' requirement, then my keys were given to my friend, she usually lets me for a break once a month, but sometimes she makes me wait longer. I will be belted for the whole of 2022 (plus a few weeks) though, which is my current keyholder's requirement for giving my keys to my fiance.

              Michael 7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?

              Lots of weak moments, usually had to wait them out or get mutual support from and for my boyfriend (now fiance), it wasn't possible to end it anyway

              Michael 8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?

              Yes, I wanted to give up this control fully and to have to deal with the consequences even if they were disastrous

              Michael 9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?

              Sexually? I was able to explore my submissiveness even when I can't get my "gratification", also pleasuring my SO after he had to wait a long while and pleasuring him even though I knew I wasn't going to have an orgasm and it will only end in more frustration for me. Non-sexually? I got engaged while wearing the belt 🙂

              Michael 10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?

              I don't see any such reasons, and I don't want to see them. Except, as when we get married, Mark will have the keys and the control, if he decides he doesn't want me wearing the belt anymore I will have to respect that

              Renita And I don't think it's right.

              I don't quite understand why? nothing happens when you just "sleep".

                I have a rather odd question. For you ladies that are locked and either date or are engaged..If you could lock up your partner to preserve your virginity, and free yourself, would you do it. Or is your relationship to your belt for whatever reason a prefered approach?

                  Renita Sex is assumed.

                  not necessarily, and certainly not if at least one of them is wearing a belt.

                  toad

                  the idea is not bad, but would only work with voluntary wearers and only with those who only want to prevent sex and not also mastubation.

                    Angelina and certainly not if at least one of them is wearing a belt

                    And it also mean they would have sex if one didn't wear a belt.

                    toad and free yourself

                    For other partners?

                      Renita And it also mean they would have sex if one didn't wear a belt.

                      well, it could also mean that they are just sleeping. besides, a key holder is only ever responsible for its "wearer" and not for anyone else.