Ok, I am answering my questions now.
Michael Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?
No, it is better to leave this decision entirely to the keyholder.
Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?
If I had that much control, I would misuse it and my keyholder could lose interesting in holding my keys if she had almost no power.
Are you living in a relationship according to your preferences and if not, what is different to your ideal scenario of being kept in chastity?
Not yet, as I do not wear the belt or device nearly 24/7 but maybe soon or sometime this could be reality.
Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?
As I know her for many years, I trust her 100% and therefore I don't need a safeword. If there is an emergency she realizes that for sure. Otherwise I could misuse the safeword. Ok, then you could consider some consequences but if there is no safeword, you don't have to worry about that.
Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?
The emergency key is locked inside a 4 digit keysafe. Trying all combination takes too much time but I can call her in a case of emergency which has not happened yet when she wasn't present.
Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?
If I would do sports, have a doctoc visit, need a cleaning break or she wants to have sex or just wishes the belt to come off for some time, I would get unlocked, otherwise not.
Have you ever cheated during such a situation?
I have done this but it is long ago.
What have or would have been the consequences?
The only consequence was disappointment but now it is clear that if I misbehave or would refuse to be locked up again, I would risk to lose her as a keyholder and that is a very powerful threat.
Do you have any way of how you handle when and why rules my be changed?
We can discuss things and agree to changes mutually and if not there is no change but there is no rule when of how changes can be made.
What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?
I dont' think that I have to add further questions but I think some of the questions you posted here are interesting and I am going to answer them:
Dalila Do you know anyone in your life that you think should wear a chastity belt? why?
My keyholder should make the experience at least once. I think that applies to all keyholders because then they could understand better what feelings a wearer has to endure.
Dalila How has the belt affected your emotions? Do you feel different when you are released and when you are wearing the belt?
I don't thank that this question is stupid but I have already answered it somewhere I think. It makes me more calm and when I am released there is a point when I wish to wear the belt again as it gives me comfort.
Jonas Ways to deal with sexual frustration.
Concentrate on other things. In my case a cold shower would work but I don't like cold water. I just have to find a way to focus on something else or just endure it which can also be nice sometimes.
Max9 How did you find a keyholder? Do you still like being locked? Why are you locked?
Whever I have got more intimate with a girl I hve told here about chastity. I haven't experienced complete rejection ever. The reations ranged from enthusiasm to feeling a bit unwell with it at first turning into acceptance and even liking it later to some extent.
Of course, I still like being locked and that's the reason why I still get locked. As a willing wearer I wouldn't do it anymore if I hated it. Not liking it from time to time is another thing but that's ok as I accept to not being unlocked whenever I want to.
In fact it is more like whenever I am unlocked to think every day about being locked again. That should be enough reason to still like it.