I have been on a 2 year hiatus from chastity devices and this forum but I just sprung on a cheap plastic ball trap device that was (edit: not as close as I thought) to my flaccid measurements. https://lockthecock.com/collections/valentines-sale/products/loud-and-clear-3d-cock-cage
Thanks to @Rina for sharing about the fancy steel hybrid belt. I might be able to pony up for one of those in the future, looks way more comfortable to me.
I wanted to ask you guys about getting adjusted to wearing the device. I want to get an idea of how long it takes before the penis will calm down and stay mostly flaccid. Weeks? Months?
My other concern is how to manage and basically minimize the ball stretching and loosening effect of the ball trap devices. I imagine a smaller base ring and/or tying it back to the waist.
I am probably going to start out slow and be wearing my device on some weekdays, and try to use ice if it gets painful. I have a time-lock safe so I could keep the keys out of reach during whichever weekdays I program into it.
I also wanted to give a shoutout to all the virgins on this website. Keep it up, I’m with you. I feel virginity is different as a guy, it’s not as much of a thing to brag about or something women find attractive. I could be an incel for all you know. I have refused a blatant offer for sex at least once though.