Getting a new belt.

Rina

Saintprudence Carrera belts are very high security

And its deluxe belt looks nice too. It looks more like a piece of art.

Only thing that would stop me from getting a belt would be financial matters, gotta save up for transitioning, so... (Even my partner suggests me that it would be better to save that money for surgeries... Still she'll be supportive if I decide to wear a belt.)

Angelina

Abby82 For now im using the new belt only at home and i wish it will be like this in the future also. The new belt is just too hard to hide properly.

interesting that this is the main problem, i was thinking more about the comfort of wearing it. maybe you need to go shopping 😉. did your parents say how it should work in the future?

Saintprudence

Abby82 then all is working as intended! 😃

Angelina

Abby82

maybe you should just test it out. choose clothes where you are sure nobody will see anything, like a very long dress or something like that. i think you are worrying more than necessary, just test it out and if you walk strangely you can always say you hurt yourself and then practise until you do better next time. 😃

Joh

Abby82 Ive had thigh bands as nighttime and home alone protection for ages and it didn't change with the new belt

If you parents still insist of wearing thigh bands with the new belt it shows only a lack of trust. Belts from brand manufacturers are save. Wearing the thigh bands is only a nuisances if not a torture and not an improvement of security.

Megan

Joh If you parents still insist of wearing thigh bands with the new belt it shows only a lack of trust

@Abby82 move into it slowly.
I am curious how does the fancy washing system compare to taking a bath in a normal belt?
I think I would use a long hot bath with some extra soap and then rinse with streams of water afterwards to get all the soap off. Of course I tend to like longer baths

Angelina

Abby82 Yes, i will try something .

I wish you much success 😃

sun I have saw it at internet last year.Thought about its bulky shape and high price,I abandon it at the end.

yes, i had the same thoughts, it doesn't really seem to be suitable for everyday use.

Joh Wearing the thigh bands is only a nuisances if not a torture and not an improvement of security.

i agree with you that it is torture, but i disagree with you that it has no safety effect, at least if the keyholder wants you to not be able to stimulate yourself it has an effect

Rafael

Megan I am curious how does the fancy washing system compare to taking a bath in a normal belt?

Abby82 Well i haven't taken a bath in the belt in ages because i have supervised unbelted showers/baths. But definetely a proper bath is better for cleaning, the syringe spray system is somewhat good after peeing

I think @Megan's reflection is very accurate and @Abby82 clarifies it perfectly. Hygiene is the most
important issue. Here in the forum there are good threads about it, although they are somewhat inactive.
My wife and daughter like long baths, it's something I can't deny them but I have to think about how to make it compatible with safety.

Abby82 I actually thought about if i would be able to cheat the belt with the spray system by connecting it to the water hose somehow and spraying in the shield? Could it feel good? 😅

Angelina i tried something similar once, it gives maxcimal very little stimulation but nothing more and after that you are just more frustrated 🙁 😂

I hope it is studied. That the girls can cheat using that system while the belt is properly closed seems to me to be a flaw that invalidates the entire belt.
I enjoyed reading the good news @Angelina vives about her cheating attempt.

sun

I have saw it at internet last year.Thought about its bulky shape and high price,I abandon it at the end.

Joh

Angelina but i disagree with you that it has no safety effect,

The over all consents at the forum is that thigh bands do not improve the security but it shorten you time fighting the belt.

Angelina

Abby82 I actually thought about if i would be able to cheat the belt with the spray system by connecting it to the water hose somehow and spraying in the shield? Could it feel good? 😅

i tried something similar once, it gives maxcimal very little stimulation but nothing more and after that you are just more frustrated 🙁 😂

Abby82 I feel bad for the girls who need to wear bands even in public,thats just too much imo.

the biggest problem in public is planning. i once went with camryn on a trip to a monument where you could walk up to the top. suddenly i had to stop on the steps. camryn didn't understand at first. the reason was that the chain was too short to reach the next step. So embarassing 🙁

Joh The over all consents at the forum is that thigh bands do not improve the security but it shorten you time fighting the belt.

that would be new to me, at least the first part of the sentence 🤨

Abby82 Yeah, but surrendering the fight is caused by the extra security by the bands mostly.

that's right, it also discourages stimulation, which is sometimes a goal of our parents as well

Megan

Abby82 Yeah, luckily i only wear them when theyre not too bad at nights and at home alone, so i don't have to walk much etc. I feel bad for the girls who need to wear bands even in public,thats just too much imo.

I definitely think those shouldn't be worn during the day.
If it helps someone that is good but I myself would not like to try to get to places with thighbands

Owl

Abby82
If a belt for serious wearing actually enabled the wearer to connect hoses for pressurized water flushing without serious handicraft or having the key, I'd seriously question the design. 😄
Not what (parts of) you wanted to hear. Yet apparently you took it with a bit of humour yourself.

Owl

Abby82
I also wonder whether these water experiment would have gone unnoticed for long ...

The carnal, "more primal" parts of your brain may rumble; the more reasonable parts will eventually understand that the actual design obviously saved you some questionable stimulation and maybe lots of trouble.

Abby82 I know what you mean joh, the belts are enough secure without the thigh bands that its impossible to "do anything", but thigh bands make the belt like oversecure that you can't even "try anything".

You didn't mention it explicitly, but from context I presume your Carrara is equipped D-Rings as well?

Angelina

Abby82 The belt is made like its really hard to connect any hose to it, at least with my skills. So i wouldn't probably be successfull 😅

You are welcome to try it and I don't begrudge you success, just don't expect too much. 😉

Abby82 I know what you mean joh, the belts are enough secure without the thigh bands that its impossible to "do anything", but thigh bands make the belt like oversecure that you can't even "try anything". Its pretty hard to explain probably to a person who hasn't worn a female chastity belt.

it's actually quite simple, one prevents sex and masturbation and the other additional stimulation and too many fights

Angelina

Abby82

I did not find my statement that funny at all 😂

Joh

Abby82 I know what you mean joh, the belts are enough secure without the thigh bands that its impossible to "do anything", but thigh bands make the belt like oversecure that you can't even "try anything". Its pretty hard to explain probably to a person who hasn't worn a female chastity belt.

Exactly.

Angelina

Rafael I enjoyed reading the good news @Angelina vives about her cheating attempt.

what good news, i've tried almost every "bullshit" for years and apart from some stimulation and a lot of frustration afterwards i never had any success, not good news for me

Rafael It will have to be another way, because supervising while an adult bathes seems a bit crazy to me.

ok, i have to ask the question. is it really crazier than putting a chastity belt on your wife and daughter? 😂
at least with your wife I don't see the problem

Rafael

Abby82

Abby82 Not much you can do but supervise 🤣

It will have to be another way, because supervising while an adult bathes seems a bit crazy to me.

Abby82 Well water spray theoretically could be enjoyed, but its hard to make a system which can be used to constantly spray water down there. Also the spray might not be enough strong.

Well, it's you who can best tell us that. I would not like anyone at home to use a belt with that fault.

Jen

Rafael they can wear the belt while in the shower or bath its fine. Just take it off after for drying. Don't need to shave every day.

Owl

Abby, excuse me for drifting off-topic. Although it seems to be quite common at UWC.

Rafael It will have to be another way, because supervising while an adult bathes seems a bit crazy to me.

See what you mean. Yet wouldn't it be quite fine to supervise your wife bathing? I always thought supervising partners to make sure they keep the rules was one of the rather appealing prospects of belted marriage or similar relationships. :-)

Rina

Rafael because supervising while an adult bathes seems a bit crazy to me.

I find it would be very awkward for me too, if my partner becomes a keyholder once I wear a chasitity belt and start to suprevise me showering.

Rafael

Owl See what you mean. Yet wouldn't it be quite fine to supervise your wife bathing? I always thought supervising partners to make sure they keep the rules was one of the rather appealing prospects of belted marriage or similar relationships. :-)

Exactly, @Owl, I was thinking about the girls, not my wife.

Jen

For showers we have a rule of allowing 3 minutes before my wife relocks the girls belt. But for bubble baths, salts and all, as @Jen says, it's best to keep the lock in place for now.

Angelina

I think so. That the Girls decide to wear a chastity belt is not bad, being present while a woman, I'm not talking about wifes, washes herself, I think It is improper.

i understand your position, but I think I did not explain mine correctly: that the belt is totally safe is good news, that some girls wear the belt without being convinced, It is bad news.

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