My Mom's chastity belt

Sasha

MissBlossom That could work for her having the key to the secondary shield. Be able to have some "me time" when ever.

MissBlossom

Sasha Which she countered with being allowed to have the secondary shield keys in her possession.

Would this present a temptation to remove the secondary shield while on a date? Particularly after she had been dating the same person for a while?

Sasha

MissBlossom Unless she went out without it on, wouldn't be a problem I don't think. In an unrelated decision she's already decided she isn't bringing dates home, she doesn't feel it's right doing that.

Laura

Sasha Her preferred option is a hip style belt worn only for a date. Which is when the possibility of impromptu dates/after work outings occurred to me. My counter idea was an waist style belt (for comfort) worn all the time

Have you also considered a cable belt?

Sasha Which she countered with being allowed to have the secondary shield keys in her possession

Why does she want it?

Sasha she's already decided she isn't bringing dates home, she doesn't feel it's right doing that.

What's wrong with this as long as she wears her belt?

Jonas

Renita Because mutual keyholding.

Agree imperfect, but better than nothing?

Joh

Laura What's wrong with this as long as she wears her belt?

I would not like it as her child. If it has developed to a stable relation it would be the right time to introduce him.

Sasha

Laura It’s mostly to do with bringing dates back home and my younger siblings. So like I said an unrelated decision

Renita

Sasha How do I know she’s wearing it

Because you trust her, don't you?

Sasha Which she countered with being allowed to have the secondary shield keys in her possession.

It means, that Neosteel is your only choice.

Angelina

Sasha She’s been pretty clear that it’s a fail-safe and symbolic of her commitment. Question is sorting out the remaining variables and if I’m willing

a belt is not cheap and the main question should be whether it is really necessary? your mother does not seem to be a woman who has sex with a man on the first date.

Christine

Angelina but if she's waited 8 years, i think she'll survive a few dates until she gets into a serious relationship, right?

But the belt is not supposed to go off after first few dates.

Sasha Her preferred option is a hip style belt worn only for a date.

Sorry for being late, but if she agrees to wear a belt, she should wear it all the time, unless she under your supervision. Btw, why hip style?

Angelina

Christine But the belt is not supposed to go off after first few dates.

if a stable relationship develops after a few dates, i don't see any more reasons for the belt.

Sasha

Christine a hip style would be easier to conceal under different clothes is all.
@Angelina We decided that since she feels strongly that she wants to do this, we ordered a Chinese cable style and chain rear belt to test drive. I suggested the minimal investment would be wise since a real belt is pretty expensive.
The rules we agreed on is that she must wear it whenever outside the house, and I will unlock it at home. If all goes well after the test period and she still feels strongly about it we will consider which belt to order for her

Christine

Angelina if a stable relationship develops after a few dates, i don't see any more reasons for the belt.

It was clear, that it must be worn until marriage.

Sasha Mom doesn’t have a problem with self pleasuring, but sees sex before marriage to be wrong.

Sasha a hip style would be easier to conceal under different clothes is all.

My mom prefers waist style.

Owl

Sasha

I wonder if you have experience with cheap mass-produced belts. It can work for testing. Frankly, not starting by spending 4-digit figures of dollars or euro for devices might be an economically sound decision. Just be prepared for some extra metal work on your side. Not only to adjust the belts but particularly to make them really safe for wearing. This could require thorough filing and deburring. Cheap belts can arrive with edges so sharp they cut our most precious parts. (Speaking from experience. 😒) Not to scare you, just as a warning.

Angelina

Sasha

thanks for the update, even though i still think your mother doesn't need it. i would be a bit cautious with cheap chinese belts though, it's nowhere near the comfort and security that a real belt has. but i understand the financial arguments

Sasha

Owl Thank you for your concern. Our expectations are they will be no where near perfect or ready out of the box. But with a little effort ok enough to get an idea if she’d like to take it further

Sasha

Angelina Thank you for your concern, we fully intend to polish and smooth anything that might injure her.
She probably doesn’t need it you’re right, but I think it’s almost a solidarity gesture in a way. Showing that she believes her own values and all. So if the testing goes well and she wishes to continue then we will place the order for her. Slow steady progress

Renita

Angelina i still think your mother doesn't need it.

She does, because she is single.

Angelina

Sasha

I wish you much success with it and of course your mother in her search for a partner. 🙂

Christine It was clear, that it must be worn until marriage.

does it really have to? i don't see why you should continue to restrict a stable relationship.

Christine

Angelina does it really have to?

idk. It's being said.

Angelina i don't see why you should continue to restrict a stable relationship

Are you asking about my situation now?

Angelina

Christine Are you asking about my situation now?

I was talking about @Sasha's mother
but it can be considered as generally my opinion

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