My Mom's chastity belt

Christine

Angelina how are things going with your mum's belts at the moment?

She still wears her belt.

Angelina is everything working as it has so far?

I hope so.

Angelina

Christine She still wears her belt.

did she ask you again if you would wear a belt again? How is the search for the man of your dreams going?

Christine

Angelina did she ask you again if you would wear a belt again?

It's clear now. She wears, I don't.

Greatcornbow

Christine It's clear now. She wears, I don't.

But you still KH her. 😄

Angelina

Christine It's clear now. She wears, I don't.

still 24/7?

Laura

Milord Can you help me?

It's obvious

Christine She wears, I don't.

Christine

Greatcornbow But you still KH her.

I am.

Angelina still 24/7?

As usual when alone. Otherwise it doesn't make sense.

Angelina

Christine As usual when alone. Otherwise it doesn't make sense.

has she complained again that she should wear the belt while you don't?

Christine

Angelina has she complained again that she should wear the belt while you don't?

No, she only complains about her belt now.

Angelina

Christine No, she only complains about her belt now.

well, i think it can't hurt if she realises what you had to endure 😉

Greatcornbow

Christine No, she only complains about her belt now.

How long is it planned you keep her belted? Maybe as long as she kept you? Ot some other metrIc? Or no fixed end?

Christine

Greatcornbow How long is it planned you keep her belted?

As long as needed.

Sasha

Updating threads about my life and situation I think people are interested in.
As of last week mom had been wearing her training belt the entire day and 28 November began sleeping in it. This has of course not been an easy transition for her, and she has thought about quitting a few times. But so far has decided to see this through.
So next month we will be ordering her permanent belt, thigh bands and a bra are not being considered however. But there is a question she posed to me that I don't have an answer for. Attempting to cheat the belt is forbidden, and I will be punished if she finds out. How should that work for her though? Open to any suggestions.

Laura

Sasha How should that work for her though?

Don't do anything or just let her know that you are aware

Joh

Sasha How should that work for her though?

The reason why she will wear a CB is different from yours. You have a problem with self-control which is not the case with her.

Sasha Just to be clear, while 24/7 wear is the goal it’s only to prevent premarital sex. She would be able to request some “her time” at home as needed.

I think if she has regular me-time it will minimise the attempts. But cheating is not allowed at other times and should be punished. Otherwise there is no real reason why she shouldn't try.

youdontknowme

Sasha How should that work for her though? Open to any suggestions.

You are not her disciplinarian/educator, your role is only to reinforce a commitment. If she is trying to get her own hand under the belt, that should not be your problem. If she is trying to take off the lock or get someone else's hand/tongue/whatever under the belt, that would be defiance of the agreement. Not sure what disciplinary measures you might enforce on her, but in that situation they would be justified.

Milord

Sasha I think that in your mothers case the only way is to process this is to be honor bound. In your case the relationship is based on trust. If your mother is unable to keep her commitment, the whole structure falls down because you cannot trust her anymore. But being human, you should consider some kind of reparation. For example, if there is a free time each week, in case of misbehaving she will lose it
I will work in the direction of a structured error > penalty, avoiding having you as the carrier of punishments
Let me traslate this in a master / slave relationship.
If the slave makes mistakes, she’s punished, but if the mistake came from Master?
Punishing Master is something that will break the structure, and so it cannot be done, but still some way to acknowledge that we do something wrong is necessary, or trust can be lost
So there is atonement, even apologies, or in some case suspension of some powers. Not by the slave, but by master himself until he thinks he’s “worthy” again. Maybe a solution like this (or similar) can also work for you?

Joh

youdontknowme You are not her disciplinarian/educator, your

I agree with you on this. If she were to carry out the punishment, whatever it would be, for breaking the rules, it would bring a difficult constellation into their relationship. An independent person would be better here.

Renita

Sasha Attempting to cheat the belt is forbidden, and I will be punished if she finds out.

If an attempt was successive, it only means, that the belt was not good.

Angelina

Sasha Updating threads about my life and situation I think people are interested in.

Definitely and currently there seems to be a lot of new things happening with you 🙂

Sasha Attempting to cheat the belt is forbidden, and I will be punished if she finds out. How should that work for her though? Open to any suggestions.

In general, it should not be punished at all. If there is a risk that you or your mother will be successful, thigh bands can be added. A good belt is actually also safe against attempts of cheating, which are completely normal. The belt is there for exactly such situations

Renita If an attempt was successive, it only means, that the belt was not good.

right, that's exactly how it is

Sara

Sasha Thank you for sharing!

You can't punish your mom because she's your mom. If she does cheat on the belt you should have a conversation with her about what she did, how she feels about it, and how she would like to proceed.

You could buy the belt with D-rings; such that she is reminded that additional measures are possible; but again you can't actually punish her, that has to be something that she wants.

Have you decided what type of belt to purchase and if she is already at the point where she can go overnight isn't this enough of a commitment to buy a belt now?

How do you feel about being mutual key holders? Has it brought you closer?

Sasha

Sara We decided on a my-steel like mine. I agree a simple conversion should be enough if she attempts it.
Waiting till January was actually her idea, now that it’s on 24/7, she wants to be sure she still wants it. And yes this has made us much closer, and I’m very happy about that. Since mine went on we have had a very good relationship and it’s only gotten better

WriterAlexis

Angelina

Definitely and currently there seems to be a lot of new things happening with you 🙂

I suppose that is what is to be expected with young adults.

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