Rear configuration of the belt

Avery

LazyGoat What I meant was, that the solid rear band causes this, not the cable 🙂.

OK. I guess I was thinking about more separation, which I appreciate.

Angelina

isn't it extremely tiring to hold the cable when you are on the toilet for the "big business"?

Max9

Angelina well, that's a little bit annyoing, but it's totally ok. What ankiys me most is the band size. I habe pretty wide hipds when I'm standing, but when I lay down the, become smaller. That's why the hips band is totally fine when I stand, but a bit too wide when I lay down.... when I make it closer so that it fits when I lay down it's way too tight when I stand. That's why I gotta deal with it being a bit wide at night ... especially when I lay on the side. ... then there's an about 2mm gap to my body.

Angelina

Max9

i'm trying to understand what you mean, but it's difficult without seeing it. if i understand correctly, your hips get smaller when you sit? interesting, i always thought they tended to get wider.

Vanessa

Jen The cable takes getting used to - its really in there😳

Yes,but it is generally accepted as the "less worse" rear.

LazyGoat Yes, the cable is pulled right over the anus, but it is far more comfortable that being spread open all the time.

I think so,too.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,but it is generally accepted as the "less worse" rear.

I wouldn't agree that, but I think it's hard to judge if we haven't tested all the alternatives.

Max9

Angelina Well, I did test nearly all of them at MySteel. Best is the single cable style and double cable style (just maybe a bit more difficult when sitting on a hard bench) ... hmm... just noticed I can't remember having tried he chains, but they are just like very thick doulble strings what doesn't make them as good as slim double active ... and there's the orginal rear band, which challanges the chains for the last place on the ranking list - except for ergonomic styled original rear parts, but they are not common.

Vanessa

Angelina

It's what I read often.

Angelina the chains seem to be very uncomfortable in general

I agree.

Angelina

Max9

thank you for your experiences. the chains seem to be very uncomfortable in general, especially on hard surfaces. i remember that @Amira wore a belt with chains in the beginning and therefore changed.

Angelina

Vanessa It's what I read often.

me too, but it feels different for everyone

Vanessa

Angelina it feels different for everyone

Yes,but cable seems to be preferred by most wearers.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,but cable seems to be preferred by most wearers.

that's right and it's kind of interesting how you (probably unintentionally) defend your belt 😂

Vanessa

Angelina

🤣

I only want to give some advices for new wearers(from my own experience and from what I read about the rear part of chastity belts).😉

Angelina

Vanessa I only want to give some advices for new wearers(from my own experience and from what I read about the rear part of chastity belts).😉

yes, that's what i thought. that's exactly what i do, which is why i often try to talk about my belt in as neutral a way as possible. 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Personally,I don't hide that I hate it.

Especially,as,generally,new users know they have to wear it reluctantly/willingly or have decided to wear one because they want it,so they already have their own feeling about it.Even if it can change,sometimes(like it is for @Jen,@Amira,@Maija,etc...).

Angelina

Vanessa

yes, wait, you misunderstood me. of course i don't hide the fact that i hate it, but if i only write negatively about it, it destroys the wishes of the users who voluntarily choose it.

Vanessa

Angelina if i only write negatively about it, it destroys the wishes of the users who voluntarily choose it.

Understandable,but,personally,I think it is good too to know different feelings we can have wearing it.

Some can hesitate to wear it(willingly or convinced wearers),and may find useful to know some can truly hate it.

Especially as I doubt it can make someone who have already decided/accepted to wear it change his/her mind.

Angelina

Vanessa

of course we will not change an opinion that has already been decided, that is why i always write that i mainly want to help those who still have doubts or who (have to) already wear the belt.

I also think that we are clearly describing our feelings, it's more about staying neutral on technical things.

Vanessa

Angelina want to help those who still have doubts or who (have to) already wear the belt.

I think our board is pretty good about it,yes.🙂

Angelina I also think that we are clearly describing our feelings, it's more about staying neutral on technical things.

Doing both is good.

Angelina

Vanessa I think our board is pretty good about it,yes.🙂

exactly, that's why i will continue to talk bad about the belt when asked about my personal emotions, in other questions i will try to be neutral 🙂

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