Rafael I missed you. I hope read you here more frequently.
It warms my heart to hear that, and I’ll try. My problem is that the past two months are seeing a refinement in my chastity philosophy and I’m still working it out.
I’m a trans woman, a dedicated feminist, a chastity fan, and was raised in an extremely cult like version of Catholicism. All these viewpoints collide a lot; sometimes I’m very “it’s horrible that anyone would belt anyone ever” and some days I’m like “as long as Christine’s mom pays her rent, she should accept the belt.”
Feminism even pulls me two ways here. One side tells me it’s horrible for a patriarchal family to belt its women. Another tells me that Yolanda is free to make her own choices, like any woman, and she chose your authority and she chose the belt, and I cannot criticize. Same with grown children accepting it. (Of course, kids are 100 percent off limits.)
One outcome is that in general, I don’t push chastity, but when someone like Yolanda or our new friend BD1791 chooses to join the locked sisterhood, I tend to push as extreme a 24/7 locking as possible. (I know part-time locking is okay, but I’m not the one to advise it.)