My daughter wants her own belt!

MarleenTotok

Laura So, she doesn't want a chastity bra

its not on her wish-list. And at moment we dont know to order one for her too or not. She knows, it could be used for punishments.
The only question is, if ther sould exist an "Bra-Sharing" or should she get her own.

Laura

MarleenTotok The only question is, if ther sould exist an "Bra-Sharing" or should she get her own.

Why should you spend more money for a rarely used accessory unless your husband decides to lock up you both?

Rafael

MarleenTotok She knows, it could be used for punishments.
The only question is, if ther sould exist an "Bra-Sharing" or should she get her own.

Laura Why should you spend more money for a rarely used accessory unless your husband decides to lock up you both?

In my experience, which of course does not necessarily apply to your case, mothers and daughters do not usually flout the rules separately, you generally tend to cheat together.
In my house there are far more cases where two or even all three girls have to have consequences applied to them than there are times when only one has had her bra or blocking piece. I don't know what your husband's criteria is going to be, which I'm sure is the best criteria for his girls, but my experience is that.
Other than that the fittings should be snug to be secure and comfortable.

MarleenTotok

Laura Why should you spend more money for a rarely used accessory

this is exact what we have also in our heads! if its not used to often or needed at the same time, i think one is enough. If there are to often 2 bras are needet, an bra could be ordered also later.

Laura

MarleenTotok It depends on how often you have to wear one. You can't punish your daughter when it's locked on you

Ines

MarleenTotok If there are to often 2 bras are needet,

I would make two reflections here, keeping in mind that I have never worn a chastity bra and hope that I will never have to wear one.
First reflection is that I have read here in the forum that the rules for daughters are usually stricter than when only the mother wears it because the girls are not yet of age. When girls have to start using it, if mothers and daughters have the same rules, the demand is higher, so it is possible that you incur punishments more often than before, since your rules, I guess, will be less lax because you have told us that your husband has decided that everyone at home have the same rules.
The second thought is that if the bra is already present, keyholders always tend to want the most security, not the least, so talk to your husband but from my experience here he most likely has it in mind that you both have to wear it with some frequency.

I still don't understand the philosophy of the bra, and I'm always very much against wearing one.

Angelina

MarleenTotok Our daghter pays 1/3 and we give her 2/3 of the price. And if she is wearing the belt one year or more, we give her, her part too. Because we would find them good that she wears an belt, we give her an a big part of the money.

i think it's a fair deal, she could get it for free but she has to wear the belt for a while first

C-B and start with rules.

sorry if i forgot, but what are the rules for your daughter?

MarleenTotok If all go well, we hope we could make an weekend permanent wearing for her and then it would be diecided to by her own belt.

so if she survives 48 or 72 hours of permanenet in the belt well, her own will be bought for her?

MarleenTotok

Angelina so if she survives 48 or 72 hours of permanenet in the belt well, her own will be bought for her?

right, if its always her wish to get one and wear them strict.

bdsamm

For god's sake, buy her a belt and count your blessings. Most parents would think this was the best thing that could happen. Of course, she needs to understand that the parents have the keys. And if t.she is up for it,add the bra and thigh bands. This is the best deal you could possibly get. Lucky you.

MarleenTotok

Ines When girls have to start using it, if mothers and daughters have the same rules, the demand is higher, so it is possible that you incur punishments more often than before, since your rules, I guess, will be less lax because you have told us that your husband has decided that everyone at home have the same rules.

I understand what you mean, hope it will be not more frequent then at normally.

At moment my husband decided yesterday, i have to wear the bra when our daughter wears the belt. I should also wear something to remember me taht i am alwas in chastity too.

our daughter also asked yesterday before we left the house, if she could wear the blet now each night. She spoke seperately with me and told me, that she would not have the chance to mastrubate. On end of next weekend (we would make an permanently weekend wear) she would be in an realistic state of wearing the belt if when all decissions would be made.

So at moment its, she wars the belt when she is coming home on afternoon and i have to wer them on the day when i am home alone in my homeoffice.

Andrew

Ines I still don't understand the philosophy of the bra,

As for me, the whole "philosophy" of the bra comes down to additional torment of the woman wearing it, supposed to remind her of her subordination.

Ines

MarleenTotok At moment my husband decided yesterday, i have to wear the bra when our daughter wears the belt. I should also wear something to remember me taht i am alwas in chastity too.

This post makes me think that I am right about the keyholders worries about safety.

MarleenTotok On end of next weekend (we would make an permanently weekend wear) she would be in an realistic state of wearing the belt if when all decissions would be made.

It is very soon for a 48 hours try. Even if the size is the same, more or less, shape will not be, it is not only soon, but with a not perfectly sized belt, it can be problematic if you want 48 hours non stop.

Mithras

MarleenTotok our daughter also asked yesterday before we left the house, if she could wear the blet now each night. She spoke seperately with me and told me, that she would not have the chance to mastrubate. On end of next weekend (we would make an permanently weekend wear) she would be in an realistic state of wearing the belt if when all decissions would be made.

For me the time seems to be there to order the belt for your daughter! She is literally begging to be kept chaste and you should fulfil her wish.

Laura

MarleenTotok our daughter also asked yesterday before we left the house, if she could wear the blet now each nigh

I would say no, because you need it more

Saintprudence

MarleenTotok All this gives me the impression that you need to be placed back in your own belt sooner rather than later, and your husband is right to be a little worried as keyholder! I hope you're being closely supervised when the belt is off you 🙂.

MarleenTotok

Ines It is very soon for a 48 hours try. Even if the size is the same, more or less, shape will not be, it is not only soon, but with a not perfectly sized belt, it can be problematic if you want 48 hours non stop.

would talk to her and my husband. We may could place the one or other one hour break supervised in it?! Finally she gets the impression of wearing it permanently also with the sexual pression on her. This is the thing who is important.

Ines This post makes me think that I am right about the keyholders worries about safety.

in this case is more like @Andrew told, and not for an safety. I am not in the belt on this time, so its not really an safe situation 😉

Mithras For me the time seems to be there to order the belt for your daughter!

thimk also, that we are now going to find an clearly decission the next days.

Jonas

Andrew As for me, the whole "philosophy" of the bra comes down to additional torment of the woman wearing it, supposed to remind her of her subordination.

Breasts are erogenous zones commonly used in foreplay and self-stimulation. Some can even orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. While the bra designs are a physical burden, the aim behind them is straightforward chastity I think.

Ines

MarleenTotok Finally she gets the impression of wearing it permanently also with the sexual pression on her.

This is very important.
She has to realize that she is not a game, that wearing the belt is hard and that only the greater good justifies it. Wearing the belt is not comfortable or easy, and it is not a game of holding on to chaste for a while and then indulging in a frenzy heightened by cravings.
That may be for moms or married women, but for girls, it is always the same, a frustration or cravings that cannot be even minimally satisfied, and that trying to do so will not only be impossible because of the belt but also comes with punishment, with bands, bra, blocking piece or whatever your husband has in store for such cases.
It is important that she realizes that, and for that it is not only important the feeling of the beltn but a talk with you, primarily and then the three of you.

Jen

MarleenTotok hi so curious/wanting a chastity belt - like that was me and um you might not want to get too involved. Let her work out what it means to her. Took me a while to realise

Andrew In practice, you require a 19-year-old girl (a very young person, with little life experience, acting largely under the influence of simple emotions and fascinations) to declare in a binding way abstaining from any sexual satisfaction for an unpredictable period, probably several years.

See this yeah I read it and that's me I'm going to be good but like why's my heart racing - there's this thrill that goes with it. So yeah the reasons are complex and I'm glad my parents aren't too involved.

Ines This is very important.
She has to realize that she is not a game, that wearing the belt is hard and that only the greater good justifies it. Wearing the belt is not comfortable or easy, and it is not a game of holding on to chaste for a while and then indulging in a frenzy heightened by cravings.
That may be for moms or married women, but for girls, it is always the same, a frustration or cravings that cannot be even minimally satisfied, and that trying to do so will not only be impossible because of the belt

Yeah all that and +++messes with my head too. Urgh I've just deleted a whole lot of whining. Ok short is yeah it's emotional and compared to my friends it's like I'm not growing up or something.

MarleenTotok

Jonas Breasts are erogenous zones commonly used in foreplay and self-stimulation.

thats was the reason why i got my bra! I like the stimmulation by massage my boobs or nipple stimmulation. I never had an orgasm by only stimmulate boobs and nipples, but i like the feeling. So this is sexual stimmultion too and if i do them without permission, it would be punished by wearing the bra.

Jonas

MarleenTotok , it would be punished by wearing the bra.

Ideally chastity bras would be a whole lot more comfortable so that they could be used as protection. Protection is better than punishment imo.

Ines

MarleenTotok So this is sexual stimmultion too and if i do them without permission, it would be punished by wearing the bra.

Renita I agree, that you have wear the same accessories as you daughter.

Agree.

MarleenTotok do you have more infos about your cable-belt? My husband is now interestet in it 😮

This was telling you yesterday, @MarleenTotok when you only wore your belt your husband allowed you certain breaks for certain activities.
If your daughter enters the equation, her rules are going to be, or usually are, stricter, among other things because your husband is not going to be able to control your daughter as closely as he does with you, so surely, a cable belt is a good option for those activities.
As you have explained that your husband does not want any privileges, those rules, I guess, will apply to you too, correct me if I am wrong.

Mithras

Laura I would say no, because you need it more

Fight for your belt!! This is a situation I haven´t seen on UWC yet :-)

MarleenTotok

Laura I would say no, because you need it more

she gets them on the nights. If i should not be able to touch myself or get pleasure by myself, there are enough ways to avoid them.

Laura

Mithras My guess is that @MarleenTotok is trying to "transfer" her chastity gear to her daughter 😂

MarleenTotok she gets them on the nights

And it means that you don't

Mithras

MarleenTotok she gets them on the nights. If i should not be able to touch myself or get pleasure by myself, there are enough ways to avoid them.

You could order a cheap chinese belt off Ebay for your daughter for the time it takes, to geht her own final belt!

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