MarleenTotok finally you arte right, had this not in my head before.
It usually happens, my mother , since we reach the age to start to wear the belt, had the same rules than us, and they are stricter that when we did not have to wear the belt, and I read more cases in this forum.
MarleenTotok this system could work but it also could not work. A family punishment is not an good working construct in our mind. but here the own meanings could be different.
However, I guess you will manage your daughter's belt , so you will have responsibility, and it is logical that your husband ask you for it if your daughter cheat if you fail, (badly checked padlock, thighbands not locked in ordered hour...).
