Single again chastity

James

Laura You just shouldn't start a relationship with sex.

This. Really any guy that marries you for sex will just lead back to divorce.

Angelina

exactly, even if a chastity belt can be difficult for a relationship, we can at least be sure that our partner loves us not only physically 🙂

Laura

James Really any guy that marries you for sex will just lead back to divorce.

If sex is only reason for the marriage

Vanessa

Ines

I think it reinforces it mainly if you wear it willingly,less if you wear it reluctantly.

Angelina please consider what I have written about leaving the forum more than a little joke of mine, I do not intend to leave the forum and would like to keep @Laura 🙂 (especially because without Laura the forum would not exist 😉 )

Good!🙂

Angelina but if I would read that someone is locked (involuntarily) because of the forum in the cb I would blame myself 🙁

If it happens,it is because the parents have searched on the net about it,and they would probably have done it anyway...

And we could help her to manage it better,if she posts here too,or give advices to her parents,if they want to discuss but don't want to change their mind about it.

I think we played a part to "save" @strictfather's daughter of it too(I would like to know how it goes,for his family...Does the family therapy is helpful?Does his eldest daughter is more "calm"?).

Angelina I also don't think that a cb is necessary for this, much more important is a good education 😉

I agree.

Christine She talked to somebody from the beltedgirls.

So not one of us,I think.

Christine I disagree with this rule. It deprives a divorced girl of a chance to build a new relationship

I don't think so.I started to date Emilie while wearing it permanently,and it is a wonderful relationship.Sure,we can't have sex the usual way,but I'm the only one who has to wear it...I still can use my mouth and my hands...

It can be different if asking your partner to wear one when you meet to be allowed to date(a bit like @Angelina and Camryn).But I think it is unusual.

But I thought more about you and your ex,about this rule.

Angelina

Right.

Laura

Not possible with the belt,anyway.

James

Sure.

Angelina

Right,but it reduces the possibilities.Even someone who doesn't want to date us because of it could have been a good husband or wife,if we dated.

It is close to what our parents often tell:"If he/she loves you,he/she will wait.".

Angelina

I agree.

James

Angelina exactly, even if a chastity belt can be difficult for a relationship, we can at least be sure that our partner loves us not only physically

Yeah. If someone just wants you for sex, why should they want you when you’re not able to do that as well or as much? Or God forbid, at all?

Ines

Angelina
For the relationships that I like, belt is not a difficulty. 🙂

Angelina

Laura

this is definitely a very bad reason 🙁

Laura

Vanessa .I still can use my mouth and my hands...

I never did it, assuming it should work in both directions ...

Vanessa Not possible with the belt,anyway.

That's why she has to learn how to build relationships differently

Christine

Vanessa .I started to date Emilie while wearing it permanently,and it is a wonderful relationship

But not with guys.

Vanessa But I thought more about you and your ex,about this rule.

It was a good lesson for him.

Vanessa

Laura

Having sex can reinforce a relationship.As we've the belt on,we may find other ways...Even one sided.But it's not perfect,sure.

James

Christine But not with guys.

You need to date different guys, Christine, as that’s not true.

Vanessa

Christine But not with guys.

I'm pretty sure it can work with a man,too.Even more if he loves you..

James

I agree.

Angelina i think that we can also be loved with belts , we are still great girls and have other attributes than just our bodies and when we get married the partner gets our bodies as a bonus 😉

Sure!

Angelina and as @Vanessa wrote, we still have our mouth 🤣

Very useful to still get some couple's intimate's moments!😉

Angelina

i think that we can also be loved with belts , we are still great girls and have other attributes than just our bodies and when we get married the partner gets our bodies as a bonus 😉

and as @Vanessa wrote, we still have our mouth 🤣

Ines

Angelina
Just all the right.

Angelina

Vanessa

if camryn wouldn't be locked up for diving i'd have a good idea 😃

but my father unfortunately knows how to prevent that 🙁

Christine

Vanessa I'm pretty sure it can work with a man,too

But it didn't work for you.

Vanessa

Angelina but my father unfortunately knows how to prevent that 🙁

Sorry for you!🙁

Christine But it didn't work for you.

If I had a boyfriend,it would have.

When starting to date Emilie,I dated a man too,until I decide for Emilie(I liked him but was in love with Emilie,so easy choice).

I'm pretty sure it would have worked if it has been different,and I had a relationship with him;with no changes about my chastity.No reason it works among women,but not for an heterosexual couple.

Laura

Vanessa If I had a boyfriend,it would have.

I think @Christine means your negative experience with the guy who said your parents don't consider you adult enough

Angelina

Vanessa If I had a boyfriend,it would have.

i think the same, but it is probably harder with boys, because sex is more important for boys than for girls

Vanessa

Laura

Oh yes,it has not ended well.But it was only one boyfriend who reacted this way,and it was used only as punishment at this time.It can happen,but was not the most common in my case.

Angelina I admit my statement was a little wrongly formulated, when I wrote this I wanted to refer to the amount of sex of course 😉

I think you're right about this,even if it depends too on the personality.

However,with another woman,it is easier too as she can understand better what it means for us to wear a chastity belt(even if she would have to try it to know it very well),and can understand more easily our feelings.

Ines

Angelina
For once, I will disagree: it is important for both of us. "Amount" of it is the important for boys and I think no so much for us.
Even, I could say that as abstract concept "sex" is far more important for us, and I think our chastity belts are good proof!

Angelina

Ines

I admit my statement was a little wrongly formulated, when I wrote this I wanted to refer to the amount of sex of course 😉

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