Single again chastity

Renita

Laura Honestly I never thought about it, my parents might have the same in mind

Don't doubt, they do 😃

Angelina

Renita Don't doubt, they do 😃

you are sometimes a little sardistic 😉

Renita

Angelina you are sometimes a little sardistic

As @Vanessa said I'm mean 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think I would agree if it would be necessary to not damage the relationship with my parents,too.Less restrictive would be good,right.

Angelina definitely not with a chastity belt, maybe with a abstinence belt, because it would also have advantages for me

I doubt he would agree to use a less effective one than the one you had before.

Angelina you are sometimes a little sardistic 🙂

But it wouldn't be surprising that parents using a chastity belt for their daughter until marriage have thought about it....

Christine I didn't wear it before coz she just didn't know.

You were lucky!😉

Christine And yes most of you will get your belts back in such circumstances.

I think you're right...

Renita

😉

Christine

Vanessa For @Christine,if I remember well,she never worn it before,so it may be less common in this case.

I didn't wear it before coz she just didn't know. So my case is not so different.
And yes most of you will get your belts back in such circumstances.

Angelina

Renita

i would rather say darker humor, but at least the experienced members of the forum like me know your humor 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa I think you're right...

I was curious about this question and talked with my father about it. He said he definitely want me to get back in full equipment. Most probably it was a bit stupid, because I think he now fear that I think about quitting with Daniel what definitely is not the case.

I have that though because he said when I become single again the chastity bra will also stay in place until a new partner decides what he wants or if it becomes clear it will be a stable and not male led relationship 🙁

He said that I would have got a chastity bra anyway soon, if I haven't met Daniel anyway.

I am in a very bad mood because of it, I hope he will change his mind again.

Angelina

Vanessa

i don't know exactly how i would decide, but honestly i don't want to think about it, i want my marriage to go the full distance 🙂

Sara2001

that doesn't sound very good 🙁 i hope your father just said it because he misinterpreted it, maybe i would accept a chastity belt, but not the tighbands or the good ones anymore

but you definitely made the right decision that you agreed to the bra 🙂 if you would have got one anyway, it doesn't matter

did you ask your dad if daniel would have gotten a key if your dad bought you a bra?

HHelen

Vanessa But it wouldn't be surprising that parents using a chastity belt for their daughter until marriage have thought about it.

And you are right. 🙂

Christine

Sara2001 He said he definitely want me to get back in full equipment.

I'm lucky my mom doesn't want me to wear full equipment.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Not illogical he thought you wonder about it because you think about stopping the relationship with your boyfriend,even if it is not the case.But,at least,you know what he plans to do in such situation...

The fact you would have had to wear a chastity bra anyway is not surprising;your sister is not going to be in a male led relationship,if she stays with her current boyfriend,but she still have to wear a chastity bra.

Christine

Sure!

Angelina i don't know exactly how i would decide, but honestly i don't want to think about it, i want my marriage to go the full distance 🙂

Logical,and I hope for you it'll be the case.

Sara2001

A chastity bra,even for women who can't orgasms while playing with their breasts,is emotionally very hard.Not surprising it is still hard for you,even if you have it on since some time,now.

Angelina it is still better than if only your father had a key

I think so,too.

Angelina he said it was bad to even think about what would happen if i got divorced, a happy relationship or marriage should not depend on it

I don't agree with him,it won't influence much your decision to stay or not with your wife,but better to know what he plans to do in such case,even if hoping it won't happen.

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Christine

Hi Christine, I read a some of your earlier posts, so I understand that your mother wanted you to wear the belt after the divorce, more or less as a punishment because she blames you, to prevent you having sex before your next marriage, and to get you to behave better. You agreed to wear the belt only because you have to live with her, since you don't earn enough to live on your own. (At least this is what I concluded from your posts.)

From your more recent posts, it seems like there are very few changes; you still need to wear 24/7, and the only difference now seems to be you have 2 belts. (Was that your idea to have some variation and give certain pressure spots a rest?)
Currently in many European countries the economy is booming, and unemployment very low. So it would seem easier now to find a job that pays enough to live on your own than 2 years ago. Have you made any progress there? Or are you more-or-less content with the current situation now, and in less of a hurry to live independently?
And if not masturbating is not a goal of your mother, but more of a punishment, shouldn't that have ended by now? I'd say that you should have some unsupervised breaks by now, or time without the secondary shield.
At least I didn't get the impression things have gotten worse for you over the last years, or did I miss something?

Sara2001

Angelina did you ask your dad if daniel would have gotten a key if your dad bought you a bra?

Maybe I should. 🙂 Yes I think it was the right decision, but it still feels very hard. One more reason to build an even stronger relationships with Daniel. But to be honest I currently can't really smile about it. Maybe because I actually missing to play with my body in any possible way more then usual.

Angelina

Sara2001

i understand you very well, but it is still better than if only your father had a key, that does not make the situation better but hmmm

maybe you should talk to daniel about this conversation, maybe he can rebuild you 🙂

i was very busy with this topic so i asked my father today. his answer was that i shouldn't think about it, it could be bad for my relationship or later my marriage

all the best, sweetheart 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina i was very busy with this topic so i asked my father today. his answer was that i shouldn't think about it, it could be bad for my relationship or later my marriage

Thank you for your participation.

What could be bad? Not having to wear everything while single?

Renita

Angelina his answer was that i shouldn't think about it, it could be bad for my relationship or later my marriage

He is not right. It's wise to think about all possible scenarios thought they would never happen.

Angelina

Sara2001

he said it was bad to even think about what would happen if i got divorced, a happy relationship or marriage should not depend on it

he said he'd talk to me about it if it is necessary.

Angelina

Renita

this is true and in normal cases we also act like this

but love is about emotions, normally we only have these conversations when we are talking about rational things

Angelina

Vanessa she still have to wear a chastity bra.

but should she ever marry her current boyfriend, she will be completely free 🙂

Vanessa A chastity bra,even for women who can't orgasms while playing with their breasts,is emotionally very hard.Not surprising it is still hard for you,even if you have it on since some time,now.

even after 9 months it is still very hard 🙁

Vanessa I don't agree with him,it won't influence much your decision to stay or not with your wife,but better to know what he plans to do in such case,even if hoping it won't happen.

he said we could talk about it if I ever thought about getting divorced, but currently it's not supposed to influence my decisions and I think he's right

Sara2001

Angelina even after 9 months it is still very hard 🙁

I fear it will never get easier as it is with the belt.

Vanessa

Angelina but should she ever marry her current boyfriend, she will be completely free 🙂

Yes,but it probably won't happen before several years....

Angelina even after 9 months it is still very hard 🙁

I can imagine it...

Angelina he said we could talk about it if I ever thought about getting divorced, but currently it's not supposed to influence my decisions and I think he's right

Let's hope you would never have to discuss it,so!😉

Sara2001 I fear it will never get easier as it is with the belt.

I think you're right.

Sara2001

Logical.I would have trouble to accept it,personally;...

HHelen

And what would you do,in such situation?

Sara2001

Good decision to talk together about it;and he seems to understand how you feel.

Angelina talking and cuddling are a good combination to strengthen the relationship even in hard times. as long as you get enough support, the relationship and later the marriage will be successful 🙂

I agree.

Sara2001

I hope you won't have to wait too long until the next opening,however!

Angelina at least I can comfort myself with the thought that one day I will be completely free 🙂

Good way to think!🙂

BikelockFugitive

😉

Angelina

Sara2001 I fear it will never get easier as it is with the belt.

it is a bit easier for you, because your friend has a key (even if in my opinion you get too few releases)

but after my wedding, it's easier for me

but yes it is very hard, especially emotionally and I don't think it will change

Sara2001

Angelina maybe I am just in a phase where I realize, that most probably I will never ever be able to play with myself when I want to.

It's just kind of super frustrating for me.

Angelina

Sara2001

I can understand you very well, it would be unthinkable for me

like i said before, you should talk to daniel about this, maybe there are other possibilities. the important thing is that your marriage doesn't suffer. i know this is a very general suggestion but your boyfriend understands your emotions better than i do

I hope you feel better soon and if you want to tell me something you can write 🙂

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