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I think it reinforces it mainly if you wear it willingly,less if you wear it reluctantly.
Angelina please consider what I have written about leaving the forum more than a little joke of mine, I do not intend to leave the forum and would like to keep @Laura 🙂 (especially because without Laura the forum would not exist 😉 )
Good!🙂
Angelina but if I would read that someone is locked (involuntarily) because of the forum in the cb I would blame myself 🙁
If it happens,it is because the parents have searched on the net about it,and they would probably have done it anyway...
And we could help her to manage it better,if she posts here too,or give advices to her parents,if they want to discuss but don't want to change their mind about it.
I think we played a part to "save" @strictfather's daughter of it too(I would like to know how it goes,for his family...Does the family therapy is helpful?Does his eldest daughter is more "calm"?).
Angelina I also don't think that a cb is necessary for this, much more important is a good education 😉
I agree.
Christine She talked to somebody from the beltedgirls.
So not one of us,I think.
Christine I disagree with this rule. It deprives a divorced girl of a chance to build a new relationship
I don't think so.I started to date Emilie while wearing it permanently,and it is a wonderful relationship.Sure,we can't have sex the usual way,but I'm the only one who has to wear it...I still can use my mouth and my hands...
It can be different if asking your partner to wear one when you meet to be allowed to date(a bit like @Angelina and Camryn).But I think it is unusual.
But I thought more about you and your ex,about this rule.
Angelina
Right.
Laura
Not possible with the belt,anyway.
James
Sure.
Angelina
Right,but it reduces the possibilities.Even someone who doesn't want to date us because of it could have been a good husband or wife,if we dated.
It is close to what our parents often tell:"If he/she loves you,he/she will wait.".
Angelina
I agree.