Guaranteed virginity until marriage

Renita

Laura Probably her dad and grandma know about this possibility already.

They know it for sure, before this topic was popular

Vanessa

Ines Even without bands masturbation is almost impossible.

I agree,many tries without success....

reactionary69 For horse riding you need a hip style belt as the rider needs pelvis flexibility.

Do you think it is possible,with a hip belt?

Maybe for short rides only...

reactionary69

Vanessa If you have a hip style belt (mysteel are the only maker anyway I think) and fits well enough to do other sports (for example jogging) than yes.
And you will adapt the way you walk.

Men after all have to deal with "bulk" between the legs as well.

It is their

ahm

soft spot after all.

You might prefer an old style of jodhpurs though: https://tridentsaddlery.co.za/sites/default/files/Jodhpurs%20lady.png

If the rider wears thigh bands though it is only possible (for various reasons) under very specific conditions.

I shall elaborate about them if interested in (a) separate message(s).

Laura

reactionary69 If the rider wears thigh bands though it is only possible (for various reasons) under very specific conditions.

I shall elaborate about them if interested in (a) separate message(s).

Yes, please. It's interesting.

reactionary69

Laura I shall be happy to oblige, young lady.

However, I will have dive into some basic riding theory beforehand. Though that might be a tad boring.

Laura

reactionary69 However, I will have dive into some basic riding theory beforehand. Though that might be a tad boring.

Be short. How long should the chain be? And what's a correct position of the hoops?

Ines

I am any expert in riding horses, just a couple of times a ride with a instructor, but I think it just can possible riding the horse sideways.
No thighbads allow separate so much the legs.
I do not know anything about ride horses, but I know a bit about bands 😅

Vanessa

I guess it may be done in amazon position,with both legs at the same side of the horse,with thigh bands.

HHelen

Angelina then i do not understand your daughter's decision

She sees the benefits herself.

Angelina

HHelen She sees the benefits herself.

which ones exactly, i think your daughter has her reasons, but which ones?

HHelen

Angelina but which ones?

To ensure her virginity.

Angelina

HHelen To ensure her virginity.

I am not sure if your daughter really shares this goal with you

Sara2001

ok, even if this way might not be the right way, i think it was the right step to at least educate about this "culture".

i think the reaction of his parents is a little bit too liberal. i think most parents would rather support their son to go this way with his girlfriend. since this seems not to be the case, i agree with you and she should not tell more

Vanessa

HHelen

So,she wants to stay virgin until marriage?Does she think she can't manage it if not wearing her abstinence belt,or does she think it is better than explaining to her boyfriend she loves him,but doesn't want to have sex until marriage?

Sara2001

Angelina She told his parents this weekend that virginity before marriage is very important for her and his parents immediately asked what they do when they are alone in his room. She said it was very shameful and it leaded to a situation where she had to explain very indirectly, that only he gets his fun. She said she doesn't want to continue this path for now.

Sara2001

Angelina i think the reaction of his parents is a little bit too liberal. i think most parents would rather support their son to go this way with his girlfriend. since this seems not to be the case, i agree with you and she should not tell more

Yes, obviously they are very, very liberal and think young people should know how to stay healthy and how not to not get pregnant, but beside this they should explore their sexuality and have fun. They don't see anything bad in sex before marriage.

HHelen

Vanessa So,she wants to stay virgin until marriage?

Yes, she does.

Vanessa Does she think she can't manage it if not wearing her abstinence belt

Of course, she thinks so, but I doubt.

Angelina

Sara2001

well, as i said, it was important that your sister didn't tell you more. but at least they know that your sister lives rather conservatively, which can make some things easier (even if not willingly) 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 They don't see anything bad in sex before marriage.

And I think it's right,nothing bad about having sex before marriage,especially with condoms and contraceptive pill!😉

HHelen Yes, she does.

Easier for her to accept the belt,so.

Angelina

HHelen Yes, she does.

why? sorry to ask the question, but if a daughter wants it, I have to ask 🙂

HHelen

Angelina but if a daughter wants it, I have to ask

I didn't have to ask, because I wanted the same.

Sara2001

Vanessa And I think it's right,nothing bad about having sex before marriage,especially with condoms and contraceptive pill!

I think many, maybe most parents think so. It's difficult to expose your situation to them in this case. I think it is a good decision that my sister decided to continue hiding.

Angelina

Vanessa And I think it's right,

well, there is still a difference between accepting something and promoting something 🙂

Sara2001 I think it is a good decision that my sister decided to continue hiding.

I think so too, although I know that it must be very hard 🙁

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